10 Things Men Actually Hate About Having Sex With a Woman
Twix005Xper 7
SO me, my fiance, my best friend, her guy cousin & his girlfriend all had a group conversation about sex. It started off casual then it got awkward....and somehow we all ended up coming up with these 10 things on the list. Some were weird and some were funny...Out of all of these on the list I would say 1& 9 are the ones I agreed with lol. I know some girls will have there disagreements about these....I sure did, but hey it happens; anyways, let's get to it...
Yes another top 10 :)
1. When the condom breaks.
Stop using those cheap ass condoms...lol jk.
2. When she uses her teeth.
Yeah...um...moving along.
3. When she forgot to shave.
Time for a trim?
4. When she just lays there.
Yeah some girls are just plain selfish.
5. When she has an odor.
Wow... some women really need to take care of themselves.
6. When she's screaming Bloody Mary....
...but you barely put it in.
7. When she's dry.
I wonder why...
8. When her feet are dirty.
OK now that's just gross.
9. When you finished, but she proceeds.....
Deal with it. Lol
10. When you can't pull out 'cuz it's way too good.
Yup :p
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LOL , I know you can agree with at least one on the list fellas....Sex ain't always perfect but just go with the flow and have fun. That's what I say ;)
I laughed at No. 8... seriously, if you had been walking barefoot all day at the beach on your vacation and had dirty feet... whoop-dee-doo!
I laughed at the others too, but dirty feet are minor!
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brain5000Explorer
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I didn't expect to agree with any of them, but I agreed with them all! Nicely done!
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GOOSEBOY78Xper 7
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when they talk about the ex partners and they had more moves, better than you... or how much better you are than them but you still haven't finished yet...
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the_rakeEditor
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1. when she makes you pay for the date first before she will consider having sex with you 2. when she makes you pay in other ways: constantly texting, phoning and emotional blackmail because you wanted to do something that pleasures both people involved 3. when she demands that you see her sexy time as a privilege 4. when she does this because she thinks sexual intercourse is demeaning and exploitative of women 5. when she get's pissed off that you did not want to pursue a relationship 6. when she sends you lots of angry texts and phonecalls anyway because she wants you to pursue a relationship regardless 7. she does this even though you did not send out the impression that you wanted a relationship 8. in general, she acts like sex does not benefit women and that guys have to pay for sex by paying for the date first and then being in part of a relationship 9. she thinks that behaving in this manner is liberating for women 10. she does all of this and claims to be a feminist
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the_rake
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but your listed ten are true as well. I felt a little bit sick about the idea of dirty feet in bed, lol.
Aloneyloneloner
+1 y
You have had a relationship with an emotionally immature woman who can't take rejection. It happens but people grow, change, and mature
Nothanks700
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Only you could take a fairly benign my take, and twist it into another "women are evil" opinion. You got issues you need to deal with dude
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the_rake
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@Nothanks700 well, I don't think all women are like that and I also said that I liked and agreed with her ten. I was just giving my own ten, so you can just relax. @Aloneyloneloner I don't get what that has to do with my take or how you would know anything about my relationship status or experience with women.
ErikaAnnette
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I'm sorry that you've had these experiences. I am a feminist, and in my opinion, feminism would be rather the opposite of expecting these things and treating sex as a reward. I believe that if she were a feminist, and I don't know her, I only know your lens of the situation, but if she were a feminist, I think that her way of dealing with this should have been logical conversation and respect for you. However, I don't know her perspective, I only know yours. Therefore I cannot determine what truly happened. Please remember that everyone has a point of view, and it isn't always yours. Again, if this was your experience, I apologize. Good luck in the future.
the_rake
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@ErikaAnnette it shouldn't be about feminism, it should be about equalitarianism.
ErikaAnnette
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I'm totally not getting into this, but I respect your opinion. (:
Aloneyloneloner
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I wasn't talking about your relationship status. Your 10 describe a very immature/ inexperienced/ delusional female
the_rake
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@Aloneyloneloner You said that I have been in a relationship with one, which is something that you would not know. Yes, a woman like this is extremely emotionally immature and not just that but sexually undesirable, hence why I made a comment about such a woman. Sadly, it's my experience that many women expect the guy to pay for dates and that they see sex as degrading which is why they hold off for so long and expect some sort of payment for sex (e. g. buying things for the girl OR committing to a relationship with the girl). Very few women are sexually liberated and the ones that are tend to only sleep with a small, selective pool of alpha males anyway.
Taywallee16
+1 y
I literally had a light hearted argument with a guy once who insisted on paying for everything for me even though we both knew a relationship wouldn't be happening any time soon and that we both just wanted a friend's with benefits type thing. I felt bad because we both wanted to be sexual so I think I should have at least paid for myself.
Aloneyloneloner
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Yes I mentioned one but I didn't say she was your only relationship. Relationship doesn't necessarily mean girlfriend for me. I have a relationship with my sister or a friend. It just means your relationship to a person. This girl whom I assume you slept with but werent interested in romantically.
Mayamoon02
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Before the conversation started about feminism and womens rights - NO man talked about mens rights. So please - enough with the Egalitarianism as it undermines the struggle that women went through in the last century. Its really fucking disrespectful to those brave women and since feminism is still necessary for our sisters across the globe. And without it we wouldn't be talking about mens rights such as paternity leave and national service. You can be feminist and egalitarian equally as they stand for the same yet different things.
Isaif370
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Prostitutes with class lol
the_rake
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@Mayamoon02 " since feminism is still necessary for our sisters across the globe. " International feminism is fine, it's in the west that we don't need it. "And without it we wouldn't be talking about mens rights such as paternity leave and national service." Those are mainly equalitarians and MRAs. We don't need feminists talking about that kind of stuff, it has nothing to do with feminism. "You can be feminist and egalitarian equally as they stand for the same yet different things." Nope, egalitarianism is about equality. Feminism is about equal rights without equal responsibilities. " it undermines the struggle that women went through in the last century." I think we can agree that this precocious third wave of spoilt brats have fuck all to do with what earlier feminists fought for. "Prostitutes with class lol" Exactly.
Mayamoon02
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There will always be different responsibilities for men and women. Thats why we need different voices for the genders. Unless men gain wombs and carry the same issues women have? I don't know who these third wave brats are. I've honestly never met one in the flesh. They seem to only appear on the internet with angry comments and don't really make a difference to real life or the law.
the_rake
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@Mayamoon02
go to a feminist protest, I am sure you will find plenty of vocal ladies there.
and I disagree about having a voice for each gender. what we want is co-operation and cohesion, not fragmentation and division. equalitarianism achieves the former, gender rights movements like MRA and feminism achieve the latter.
Have you ever been to a feminist protest yourself? You can have both and they can sit in the same room. We need gender specific voices because a man can't possibly initiate conversation on a women's issue because he doesn't live every day as a woman. And vice versa for men. Cooperation happens when you listen to people with empathy and understanding, not from undermining their struggle and trying to shift the light onto another problem. Things never get sorted that way and only causes conflict and extremism. Often people just want their challenges to be simply ACKNOWLEDGED so they can find personal strenght to overcome it. There has never been a time in the West that feminism has been validated by the population. It has always been picked apart and shamed by political propaganda and the media to keep the word poisonous.
the_rake
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@Mayamoon02
no but I both knew feminists when I was at uni and I also saw this youtube video about this equalitarian woman that was basically getting harassed, shouted at, sworn at etc. throughout the video because she had a different opinion to the feminists she spoke to at different conventions.
so it does happen at these rallies, and many feminists are indeed vocal inside of and outside of protests.
the_rake
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@Mayamoon02 "We need gender specific voices because a man can't possibly initiate conversation on a women's issue because he doesn't live every day as a woman. " This is bullshit. There are many non-gender specific issues, e. g. related to race, religion, social class and sexuality. We do talk about and address other people's concerns all the time and we don't have to belong to that specific group to help those people out. Anyway, MRAs will always be dismissed by feminists because they are seen to be detracting from their issues which are more important because they're women. That's why it's better to have reasonable people that can work together and be equalitarians. If they need specific representation for a group, they can get that. Like I said, we need both men AND women as equalitarians.
the_rake
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@Mayamoon02 "There has never been a time in the West that feminism has been validated by the population." Actually, more people believe in it than not. Little credence is given to equalitarianism.
Nothanks700
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feminism is not female supremacy, l; it is egalitarianism.
the_rake
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@Nothanks700 check out my take because I addressed this argument:
uncommitted sex is not beneficial to women though. there are social consequenses (being called a slut, getting respected less), and higher physical risks such as pregnancy.
the_rake
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there are social consequences, e. g. if the girl is a prude
LadyTerrorEditor
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Well my boyfriend likes it when I use teeth so that's never been a problem
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PrettyBama
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I had a boyfriend who literally asked me to bite down on it and grind my teeth lmao
LadyTerror
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@PrettyBama lol yeah... Masochists
PrettyBama
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But the weirdest thing is that he said it didn't hurt and he could barely feel it lmao he said it just felt like pressure 😂 He was old though. I don't know if that makes a difference 💀
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LadyTerror
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@PrettyBama my boyfriend says the same thing. But as long as you're both cool with it, whatever :P
Toad-1
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Ouch 😱
LadyTerror
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@Toad-1 haha I'm usually not too rough
redeyemindtricks
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@PrettyBama "I had a boyfriend who literally asked me to bite down on it and grind my teeth lmao" Oh. My. Sweet. God. How old? If you don't mind me asking...
PrettyBama
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@redeyemindtricks he was 58 at the time. lol
Fearless_bananaYoda
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Lol was coming in here about to disagree but this is all true.
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starryeyedkittenXper 7
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This made me laugh :) good job
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Phoenix98Master
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Lmao.
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CasaNorbaGuru
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kick ass article!
I have to say that part three is actually a turn on for me to some extend. but the rest is beyond agreeable
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bluenose1872Xper 7
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I've shagged a couple of corpses in my life. No problem though. Im there for my own satisfaction
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jacquesvolMaster
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Since I didn't have sex with a men yet, I can't compare. Can you?
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Applepie97
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"sex with a men yet"... "a men"... "amen" Amen brother! 😂😂😂
jacquesvol
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@Applepie97 Typo :-(
Applepie97
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I know it was a typo. I wasn't making fun of you I just thought it was a funny typo after reading it a couple of times :P
SkadouchebagYoda
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About number ten, pulling out has been scientifically shown to be the least effective method of birth control.
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Ginger6706Xper 6
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Yeah I hate #4! I'll do anything to see to it that the woman I'm with has a gratifying sexual experience, but it is disturbing when she doesn't put in at least 10% of the effort I am.
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genericname85Master
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couldn´t care less about dirty feet xD
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kitty71Guru
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What is wrong of a woman being dry maybe is part of her organism
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ShaeNielsonGuru
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I don't think anyone enjoy that, but to the whole "dead fish syndrome" I mean, of course imitating a corpse is not a good thing but in some positions the movement possible for the female is rather limited. Missionary for example, it's hard to move like an angry bull when there is a dude practically lying on you.
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FakeName123
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There is a difference though between not benig able to move much and not doing anything. You can still kiss, touch, etc. in such positions.
ShaeNielson
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@FakeName123 Yes, but she can't be as active as him and flop around like a fish on land.
FakeName123
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Obviously. When guys complain about her not moving they don't mean not moving as in positions where she can't do much, but rather having no enthusiasm and just laying there. Its a different if she lays there like a starfish or if she still does things that make it clear she participates in the act and enjoys it as much as he does.
John_DoesntMaster
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Listening to you talk before and after.
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Yanoa_YanzaGuru
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I was curious when I saw this title... but yeah, spot on, girl! I was nodding through most of the stuff
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HonestWhiteGuyXper 7
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Those are all pretty much true good list!
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NatashaBeautyXper 5
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I don't ever shave bc I don't have body hair from my neck down. I'm never exactly dry. My feet are always clean. And yea I do just lay there what do u want me to do. I never smell
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22 53I laughed at No. 8... seriously, if you had been walking barefoot all day at the beach on your vacation and had dirty feet... whoop-dee-doo!
I laughed at the others too, but dirty feet are minor!
I didn't expect to agree with any of them, but I agreed with them all! Nicely done!
when they talk about the ex partners and they had more moves, better than you... or how much better you are than them but you still haven't finished yet...
1. when she makes you pay for the date first before she will consider having sex with you
2. when she makes you pay in other ways: constantly texting, phoning and emotional blackmail because you wanted to do something that pleasures both people involved
3. when she demands that you see her sexy time as a privilege
4. when she does this because she thinks sexual intercourse is demeaning and exploitative of women
5. when she get's pissed off that you did not want to pursue a relationship
6. when she sends you lots of angry texts and phonecalls anyway because she wants you to pursue a relationship regardless
7. she does this even though you did not send out the impression that you wanted a relationship
8. in general, she acts like sex does not benefit women and that guys have to pay for sex by paying for the date first and then being in part of a relationship
9. she thinks that behaving in this manner is liberating for women
10. she does all of this and claims to be a feminist
but your listed ten are true as well. I felt a little bit sick about the idea of dirty feet in bed, lol.
You have had a relationship with an emotionally immature woman who can't take rejection. It happens but people grow, change, and mature
Only you could take a fairly benign my take, and twist it into another "women are evil" opinion. You got issues you need to deal with dude
@Nothanks700 well, I don't think all women are like that and I also said that I liked and agreed with her ten. I was just giving my own ten, so you can just relax. @Aloneyloneloner I don't get what that has to do with my take or how you would know anything about my relationship status or experience with women.
I'm sorry that you've had these experiences. I am a feminist, and in my opinion, feminism would be rather the opposite of expecting these things and treating sex as a reward. I believe that if she were a feminist, and I don't know her, I only know your lens of the situation, but if she were a feminist, I think that her way of dealing with this should have been logical conversation and respect for you. However, I don't know her perspective, I only know yours. Therefore I cannot determine what truly happened. Please remember that everyone has a point of view, and it isn't always yours. Again, if this was your experience, I apologize. Good luck in the future.
@ErikaAnnette it shouldn't be about feminism, it should be about equalitarianism.
I'm totally not getting into this, but I respect your opinion. (:
I wasn't talking about your relationship status. Your 10 describe a very immature/ inexperienced/ delusional female
@Aloneyloneloner You said that I have been in a relationship with one, which is something that you would not know. Yes, a woman like this is extremely emotionally immature and not just that but sexually undesirable, hence why I made a comment about such a woman. Sadly, it's my experience that many women expect the guy to pay for dates and that they see sex as degrading which is why they hold off for so long and expect some sort of payment for sex (e. g. buying things for the girl OR committing to a relationship with the girl). Very few women are sexually liberated and the ones that are tend to only sleep with a small, selective pool of alpha males anyway.
I literally had a light hearted argument with a guy once who insisted on paying for everything for me even though we both knew a relationship wouldn't be happening any time soon and that we both just wanted a friend's with benefits type thing. I felt bad because we both wanted to be sexual so I think I should have at least paid for myself.
Yes I mentioned one but I didn't say she was your only relationship. Relationship doesn't necessarily mean girlfriend for me. I have a relationship with my sister or a friend. It just means your relationship to a person. This girl whom I assume you slept with but werent interested in romantically.
Before the conversation started about feminism and womens rights - NO man talked about mens rights. So please - enough with the Egalitarianism as it undermines the struggle that women went through in the last century. Its really fucking disrespectful to those brave women and since feminism is still necessary for our sisters across the globe. And without it we wouldn't be talking about mens rights such as paternity leave and national service. You can be feminist and egalitarian equally as they stand for the same yet different things.
Prostitutes with class lol
@Mayamoon02 " since feminism is still necessary for our sisters across the globe. " International feminism is fine, it's in the west that we don't need it. "And without it we wouldn't be talking about mens rights such as paternity leave and national service." Those are mainly equalitarians and MRAs. We don't need feminists talking about that kind of stuff, it has nothing to do with feminism. "You can be feminist and egalitarian equally as they stand for the same yet different things." Nope, egalitarianism is about equality. Feminism is about equal rights without equal responsibilities. " it undermines the struggle that women went through in the last century." I think we can agree that this precocious third wave of spoilt brats have fuck all to do with what earlier feminists fought for. "Prostitutes with class lol" Exactly.
There will always be different responsibilities for men and women. Thats why we need different voices for the genders. Unless men gain wombs and carry the same issues women have? I don't know who these third wave brats are. I've honestly never met one in the flesh. They seem to only appear on the internet with angry comments and don't really make a difference to real life or the law.
@Mayamoon02
go to a feminist protest, I am sure you will find plenty of vocal ladies there.
and I disagree about having a voice for each gender. what we want is co-operation and cohesion, not fragmentation and division. equalitarianism achieves the former, gender rights movements like MRA and feminism achieve the latter.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24039-the-focus-of-gender-issues-should-be-shifted-towards-egalitarianism
Have you ever been to a feminist protest yourself? You can have both and they can sit in the same room. We need gender specific voices because a man can't possibly initiate conversation on a women's issue because he doesn't live every day as a woman. And vice versa for men. Cooperation happens when you listen to people with empathy and understanding, not from undermining their struggle and trying to shift the light onto another problem. Things never get sorted that way and only causes conflict and extremism. Often people just want their challenges to be simply ACKNOWLEDGED so they can find personal strenght to overcome it. There has never been a time in the West that feminism has been validated by the population. It has always been picked apart and shamed by political propaganda and the media to keep the word poisonous.
@Mayamoon02
no but I both knew feminists when I was at uni and I also saw this youtube video about this equalitarian woman that was basically getting harassed, shouted at, sworn at etc. throughout the video because she had a different opinion to the feminists she spoke to at different conventions.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHaPZP-vcZs
so it does happen at these rallies, and many feminists are indeed vocal inside of and outside of protests.
@Mayamoon02 "We need gender specific voices because a man can't possibly initiate conversation on a women's issue because he doesn't live every day as a woman. " This is bullshit. There are many non-gender specific issues, e. g. related to race, religion, social class and sexuality. We do talk about and address other people's concerns all the time and we don't have to belong to that specific group to help those people out. Anyway, MRAs will always be dismissed by feminists because they are seen to be detracting from their issues which are more important because they're women. That's why it's better to have reasonable people that can work together and be equalitarians. If they need specific representation for a group, they can get that. Like I said, we need both men AND women as equalitarians.
@Mayamoon02 "There has never been a time in the West that feminism has been validated by the population." Actually, more people believe in it than not. Little credence is given to equalitarianism.
feminism is not female supremacy, l; it is egalitarianism.
@Nothanks700 check out my take because I addressed this argument:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29327-feminism-isn-t-about-equality-equalitarianism-is
uncommitted sex is not beneficial to women though. there are social consequenses (being called a slut, getting respected less), and higher physical risks such as pregnancy.
there are social consequences, e. g. if the girl is a prude
Well my boyfriend likes it when I use teeth so that's never been a problem
I had a boyfriend who literally asked me to bite down on it and grind my teeth lmao
@PrettyBama lol yeah... Masochists
But the weirdest thing is that he said it didn't hurt and he could barely feel it lmao he said it just felt like pressure 😂 He was old though. I don't know if that makes a difference 💀
@PrettyBama my boyfriend says the same thing. But as long as you're both cool with it, whatever :P
Ouch 😱
@Toad-1 haha I'm usually not too rough
@PrettyBama "I had a boyfriend who literally asked me to bite down on it and grind my teeth lmao" Oh. My. Sweet. God. How old? If you don't mind me asking...
@redeyemindtricks he was 58 at the time. lol
Lol was coming in here about to disagree but this is all true.
This made me laugh :) good job
Lmao.
kick ass article!
I have to say that part three is actually a turn on for me to some extend. but the rest is beyond agreeable
I've shagged a couple of corpses in my life. No problem though. Im there for my own satisfaction
Since I didn't have sex with a men yet, I can't compare.
Can you?
"sex with a men yet"... "a men"... "amen" Amen brother! 😂😂😂
@Applepie97 Typo :-(
I know it was a typo. I wasn't making fun of you I just thought it was a funny typo after reading it a couple of times :P
About number ten, pulling out has been scientifically shown to be the least effective method of birth control.
Yeah I hate #4! I'll do anything to see to it that the woman I'm with has a gratifying sexual experience, but it is disturbing when she doesn't put in at least 10% of the effort I am.
couldn´t care less about dirty feet xD
What is wrong of a woman being dry maybe is part of her organism
I don't think anyone enjoy that, but to the whole "dead fish syndrome" I mean, of course imitating a corpse is not a good thing but in some positions the movement possible for the female is rather limited. Missionary for example, it's hard to move like an angry bull when there is a dude practically lying on you.
There is a difference though between not benig able to move much and not doing anything. You can still kiss, touch, etc. in such positions.
@FakeName123 Yes, but she can't be as active as him and flop around like a fish on land.
Obviously. When guys complain about her not moving they don't mean not moving as in positions where she can't do much, but rather having no enthusiasm and just laying there. Its a different if she lays there like a starfish or if she still does things that make it clear she participates in the act and enjoys it as much as he does.
Listening to you talk before and after.
I was curious when I saw this title... but yeah, spot on, girl! I was nodding through most of the stuff
Those are all pretty much true good list!
I don't ever shave bc I don't have body hair from my neck down. I'm never exactly dry. My feet are always clean. And yea I do just lay there what do u want me to do. I never smell