Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
That’s something that I discovered maybe a year or so ago by now. I think that most are familiar with being a tease in a different context. Either with the woman making the man chase after her to get a date, or how I was first exposed to it. With a bit of ‘just the tip’, or the guy teasing the woman in bed. I only realized that I can tease him back in a bit of a ‘eureka!’ moment in the midst of my frustration, when he was teasing me in bed.
So, how can you be a good tease?
Well, again, this can be pretty subjective. However, in my months of doing it, I’ve found that there are some things that I’d imagine are for the most part universally appreciated (in the end).
Brush up on your game of "now you see it, now you don't".
Why do men like strip clubs, for example?
That’s a place where what they want is revealed slowly. Keeping them on the edge of their seats. In anticipation of getting more, but leaving them powerless as to how fast they’ll receive that. Time in which I’m sure that most feel free to fantasize about what is slowly but surely being revealed to them
Likewise, the key to being a good tease to your boyfriend involves building a lot of that excitement before even touching his penis.
My boyfriend, for example, loves when I start kissing him. It could be a makeout or kissing a bit of a trail from his mouth, down his chest towards his penis. Bonus points if you can manage to make contact with your boobs (assuming you’re topless) across his torso and wherever else as you make your way down.
Continue slowly kissing and licking your way down his body.
Feel free to do a "flyby", or completely avoid touching his cock and balls directly, but getting dangerously close before moving away.
Work in some kissing his stomach, his legs, his thighs. Kiss all around his cock until you being to see it twitch.
At this point, it’s still perfectly okay to avoid direct stimulation of his genitals. Get incredibly close before heading back up to give him a passionate kiss on the lips. If he's not begging at this point, then repeat and spend a longer time when you’re close to his genitals before going around.
By the time you do finally make contact, he'll be so ready he will probably feel like he's going to pop. Like he’s willing to do just about anything to get some directly stimulation.
Once again, you'll want to maintain the slow pace. Just barely licking up and down his shaft and balls, building on that really slowly. Increasing and adding sensation a tiny bit at a time. Run your tongue across his shaft, from the base to the head.
Remember the goal- you’re putting on a real show. Keeping the audience (of one) on the edge of their seats. (pun intended)
When it’s finally time to put your lips around him, start by taking in just the head. Take him in, little by little, until you’re reached your limit.
To be truly evil, feel free to jump a couple of steps back every once in a while. Kind of a two steps forward, one step back sort of thing. For example, after grazing your tongue up and down his shaft a few times give him a light suck and then go back to his body and do a round up to his chest. If you’ve gotten to the point of taking him fully into your mouth, gently suck on the head, draw light circles with your tongue around the corona, then show his balls some love. Back up to a kiss on the lips before returning- you get the drift.
Use your imagination from that point forward and mix it up. Go a little further each time before backing off a bit.
At several points, especially when you start giving little bits of stimulation to his dick, he’ll probably start begging. It could be anything from telling you to ride him or get on your back so that he can do the honours.
(Obviously do move on eventually. There’s a difference between being a good tease and blue-balling your man.)
What Girls & Guys Said
8 23Anything a woman does which prolongs a guy from busting a nut is a good thing. It's healthy actually.
I'm excellent.
love the take.
I would really appreciate if you write a mytake about how to be a good tease for men. Thank you.
sure thing, I'll start that asap. :)
What would i need to get to the level where i can just walk up to most girls and they'll fuck me that day?
No longer talking about interactions with girls as having 'levels' would be a good start.
I'm a virgin and I'm waiting until marriage to have sex. But I love teasing my boyfriend lol. I do very subtle things like caress his chest, ask him to unzip my dress, untie my long luscious hair and he can't take his hands off of me. One day, I sat on his lap and he got an erection haha. He can't take it anymore and planning on proposing in few months. After I made it clear that he won't be getting any. I love it when naive girls have sex outside of marriage (cough cough) and think they know the art of teasing.
... not as much as I love it when girls go into marriage thinking that they're the bees knees when really, the only reason your boyfriend could be stupid enough to marry you is to get some pussy. At least I know there's more to my relationship than that.
It's only cool if I don't get blue balls.
Kayla, this is the first mytake i agree with you completely. Please continue to write awesome takes like this and not the feminist ones you have written before.
So well done. Awesome writing :)
hah thanks? I don't write feminist takes though. Feminist =/= pointing out flaws in the logic of redpillers.
my please... urgh... there you go again. Please for once Kayla, give me a break and just give me a hug on this one.
hahahahha no thanks.
Women... you gotta just love em
Really liked the description.
I actually got my genitals twitchy :(
And am all alone and a virgin :'(