The Bachelor Party...Is it cheating?

Is it unethical or cheating if your man sleeps with a stripper or gets physical with her on his bachelor party?

The Bachelor party... is it cheating?
The Bachelor party... is it cheating?
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And if there are strippers. And what point would u say its cheating. Please mention and explain. Y?
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At* what point.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes. I don't know why people say LAST NIGHT AS ASINGLE MAN. No this is not a fucking voting registration. You werent single when you proposed to me so why you fckin with strippers? This is why i want a joint bach party

    The Bachelor party... is it cheating?
    • Its cheating if he touches her and lets her touch him. Its attempted cheating if he steps foot in the club or if he watches her dance. he's allowing himself to be seduced

    • Thanks for mho

    • Lmao Damn Desii tell us how you really feel lmao

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  • Cheating is whatever women say it is.
    If she says cheating is never even looking at another women? It's cheating.
    Men better realize they are here to do what we say.
    #feminism.

    • I smell a troll!

    • Oh, she's def. a troll that's why she was chosen as MHO the QA was looking for a "certain answer" i had the right answer, but, it wasn't what she was "looking for"

    • No, let me reword what she means to say: in a relationship if your partner is not ok with you doing something then don't. Thats how you make a relationship work, you have to sacrifice some things and so does she. If it's an open relationship it's not cheating because you both know the terms of the relationship before getting into it but when you go behind someones back that's when it's cheating.

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  • I don't know who came up with this disgusting ritual.
    Its a disrespectful to your self, wife and to God

    Any man who wants a bachelor party that involves strippers/whores should not be getting married.

    • You sound fucking ridiculous, dude.

    • @Thatsamazing Whats ridiculous is going out the day before something as sacred as marriage and filling yourself with alcohol, and gawking and fondling women who aren't your wife. That sounds ridiculous to me.

    • There's nothing "sacred" about it, man. Anyone who thinks so has a marriage that eventually does one thing: Fail.

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  • Oh yes! It’s super cheating. It’s the act and not in which occasion it happens. It’s a lack of respect towards you. Same things obviously if a woman does the same.

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  • Never been to a strip club and neither have my friends. It doesn't feel right in my gut to do that. I spent my night before my wedding finishing my vows.

  • Yes it's cheating. But I suspect it's very rare. I don't know anyone who has done it, not even womanizers who had willing strippers at their bachelor's party.

  • Depends on what you mean by physical. I’d be ok with a lap dance at a bachelor party but nothing beyond that.

    • Lol that’s still bad

    • Agreed.

    • It is bad.

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  • CHEATER... THROW HIM AWAY LIKE YOUR BOUQUET... NO TRUSTING NOW. xx

    • Maybe too UNFAITHFUL OTHER TITTY TIMES AND U NOT KNOW YOUR JOE. xxoo

    • PS: YOU WILL NEVER FORGET IT NOR FORGIVE HIM... BELIEVE THIS MASTER. xxoo

    • Thanks, Lovely... Emphasizing because it is NOT too late to Rid of your Mate. xxoo

  • Bachelor Party are for those who think that life is only fucking random girls and being irresponsible. They think that after marriage they would. not be allowed another girl. So, why not fuck a girl while you are still bachelor.

    But if you are going to get married next day or so, it means thst you are engaged. So, you are committed. In this scenerio getting physical with another girl is totally wrong. And whats the point, if you can do after thee commitment, you can always do after marriage too.

    Its a fucking tradition by some retarded mind. Bechlor party should be enjoying with Pals without having ro worry about the wife and family, but sex should never be a part of it.

  • I would say it's cheating if he sleeps with the stripper. Anything else beside that 2 me isn't cheating. U got 2 think what's the girl doing at her party. It takes 2 tango.

  • Whatever your relationship entails, of course. Some people are pretty open, and in that case, why bother with a stripper or whatever for “guys last night”. If that’s what he wants to do, sneak around and do, right before his wedding, I’m thinking his head isn’t even in the game with getting married, in the first place.

    • I'd agree with you you worded that pretty well

  • That entirely depends on what the two people getting married feel, but my thought is, most would see it as cheating.

  • Of course it is cheating. If my man did that shit, there wouldn't be any marriage at all. Don't understand that whole stripper thing. If he wants a stripper, I'll be his stripper. Not some random ass girl lol

  • You're not supposed to be having sex during your bachelor party. It's about your buddies making fun of you. They take you out drinking and have you ogle naked girls, teasing you about what you'll be missing out on, since you're settling down; because presumably, you're never going to get to go out or have any sort of fun again, now that you've got a ball and chain.

    Of course in most cases, that's not true, couple go out and drink and party together all the time. It's just meant to be a bit of ribbing. Why do they do this? Because friends make fun of each other; that's just the way it is. If you're not super up-tight, it's actually very endearing.

    If they're out having sex during their bachelor party, they're not only missing the point, they're pieces of shit.

  • Bachelor parties do not equal sex.

    • But why would he wanna look at other chicks when the person he “loves” isn’t with him? Shouldn’t he have more respect and be happy with her?

    • Bachelor parties do NOT equal strippers either... 🤦🤦🤦 Glad you females know what's going on. Not.

    • The ones that do

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  • Yes. Why would it not be? Did he break her trust, did he violate their social contract of monogamy? Yes, yes he did ergo its cheating.

  • I had a bachelor party. The boys took me to a titty bar and had four girls dancing around me but I didn't touch any of them and they didn't touch me. That was in 1987. If I ever get married again, no bachelor party!

    • LOL OHHH WERE YOU AT MY STRIP ONE, HUN? xxoo

    • @Paris13 The club is still in the same location, still doing business, but I have not been in it since 1987. "Sinsations!"

  • I think it depends on the lines laid out in their relationship.
    Stripper okay
    Lap dance okay
    Kissing not okay etc
    Limits should be set clearly beforehand then if when trusted to respect those boundaries if they did not would come in cheating & betrayal, disrespect etc

    • Good points I guess this day and age some couples allow certain things.

    • How is a lap dance okay? She’s grinding up on him. You wouldn’t be mad that ur soon to be husband had some chick all up on him?

    • @Itismeagain I didn’t say I wouldn’t mind it myself. But I won’t be telling others what they should agree to in their own relationship. That’s their business & so I was suggesting creating boundaries for an agreement that the two could be comfortable with.

  • No brainer, it's cheating. Why is this even a thing? It makes me sick.

  • To me no. I don't care if he wants to look by all means that's fine. But when it turns to touching or anything physical other then a look then yes it would be cheating to me

  • Yes, Jesus says any many who looks at woman lustfully who isn't his wife has already committed adultery in his heart. I don't see the point of bachelor parties, it's almost like putting yourself in temptation or pretty much saying your life is over cause you're getting married to the love of your life? It's weird. Why do you have to celebrate getting married by looking at other chicks/dudes getting naked?

  • It's just a stupid idea to begin with, and it's stupid to mess with another girl before getting married. but as Forrest Gump said so eloquently, "stupid is as stupid does".

  • If singleness is something to be mourned, then what is the point of marriage? It's the most idiotic excuse to indulge in a perversion of the purpose of sexual union this side of anything on the Evil Rainbow.

  • Anything past a lap dance and watching her dance would be cheating. Its different to everyone. Like some women think watching a stripper dance is cheating. Some think having a stripper at all is cheating. Its important for the couple to communicate what's ok and not ok.

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