Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I don’t know who has felt or who has experienced it, but it is a reality. At the end of the day pornography is simply you and a screen watching some people get it on.
When I was younger, everything about porn fascinated me. The women, the men, the positions, the kinks, and all the weirdness that was porn. In many ways, I couldn’t get enough of it like any person who had just discovered something new that he or she liked. As time continued, I found what I enjoyed, what I didn’t enjoy and eventually I began to fall into a routine. Sure, I watched new videos, but they were always the same content. The same actresses. The same stuff…
Eventually, I began to notice something… I was not feeling anything.
Sure, I could get off like most people can, but there was no level of excitement. There were no feelings of emotion. It was just that. Getting off. So, I dove into literotica. I began to try out audio stories. I tried new stuff and it helped for a while!... Yet once again, that empty feeling returned. And I began to not enjoy things as much…
The problem with porn or any variation of it, is that there is no connection. As I said,
"It’s simply you and a screen."
Actually, meeting someone, actually cuddling with them, and actually doing the deed yourself is what
makes you satisfied. Sex is not about just getting off. It is not about just satisfying your sexual emotions. It is about having a sense of comfort with someone. So, whether you like it big or small. Rough or soft. Kinky or plain. Go do it with someone and avoid the empty feeling of Porn.
-Cuteguy135
What Girls & Guys Said
8 30If you are me and you can't get a woman being interested in you then you still have porn to resort to. It's still better than nothing at all.
The real thing is always better. But if you can't get it then it is, what it is. Porn helps coping with it.
U have to put yourself out there and not be afraid to lose, that's the only way u'll get her. U lose a few and gain a few.
@Chicnala that's right. Until i get a woman i will be watching porn and wanking to it. 😀
Maybe try the opposite approach: stop watching porn and jerking off, go out and meet girls. The real thing won't happen without you taking action.
@Eridan ridiculous. That's the result if you can't get any action tonight as girls aren't volunteering for it.
The internet wouldn't exist or be so popular without porn. You think the internet would have gotten popular with "education" and "socializing"? No, it became popular because of porn.
Porn only has one purpose and it's to get off.
Looking for any deeper meaning beyond that is silly.
It's very hard to get definitive answers about how "all" people feel about sex. Because sex is cunning, baffling and powerful by nature!
You know what it is? The biggest industry in the world. Period. Its all about the money.
It messes with my mind so ill pass. Id rather focus all my sexual energy and desires to my girl and keep my relationship growing spicier, hotter and kinkier every year.
I agree 100%.
Thanks
Theproblem with this is that it fails to acknowledge that casual sex can have the same effect over time.
In short: Porn isn't the problem.
Someone else brought this point up and I have to agree that my MyTake does fail to talk about casual hook ups. The thing is I wanted to focus on Porn in this article. And the truth is, a casual hook up is still more fulfilling than porn. To say porn isn't the problem would be wrong. It is a problem. A lack of connection is the problem. At least in a casual hook up you are feeling another person and connecting intimately with them.
Mindset. Sex is what you make of it. That whole connecting thing? It isn't as real or black and white as you make it out to be.
Well stated. As an avid fan Watcher and student of Pornography, human sexuality leaning towards the abnormal, kinky, perverted areas, if one fails to occasionally indulge whatever kinks they experience every so often... then falling into deep addiction and craving to watch fantasize, and NEED porn deeply quickly takes over a person's behavior
Depressing
I dont have a girlfriend so porn can really get you off. But yeah, it does feel a bit empty
I want to have sex so damn bad but I feel the need to wait 5 years and get a yes in marriage and sex.
YOu'll be fine. You're only 13. It'll come with time.
I alredy have a girl I want to date be a girlfriend then marry, then bang.
No shit! Porn is merely a poor substitute to having sex with a person
Dopamine is a drug. Porn just keeps raising those levels. People don't break their addiction because they don't even acknowledge to having one. Break away, porn leaves you empty. Plus it kills your testosterone levels a rewires your brain.
I have to say I agree entirely and have been feeling a similar thing. What this shows is that sex is so much more than just getting off.
Well, guys can't just decide when to get laid like women can, so porn is our only choice, really..
i find people who watch porn weird, people won't watch others have sex in real life but they will watch it on porn and will mast. it is really weird