Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
In my quest to understand women I have interacted with as many women as I could both in real life and on GAG. In order to fully understand women however, you must be a woman, just like in order to understand men you must be a man. Since a man cannot become a woman, you must be born one, my next best bet was creating a female account on GAG.
Here is what I've learned from both my personal interactions with women as well as my experiences with using a fake female account on GAG.
1) There are a lot of horny guys out there that can’t control themselves.
It only took 10 minutes of responding to questions when I got 5 messages from guys saying how beautiful I was. At first I didn’t mind since I thought “What the heck it’s just 5 guys”. On the next day there were 10 messages. These ones were far worse than the previous. Here guys explicitly stated how turned on they were.
Perhaps since I am a heterosexual man that it contributed to my repulsion to these messages but I doubt that most women would be interested in guys posting several times “I like your boobs”.
I called out a couple of them since I couldn’t reply to all of them due to some glitch in the messaging system.
I was actually able to get through to some of the guys which I see as a win.
That’s why I think women should be talking back to these guys since they will keep doing it to other women if no one calls them out on their behaviour.
Personally this was a really big surprise to me. I kept hearing from girls that they’re only approached by these arrogant horny guys and I thought to myself “well I’m not like them, I can control my urges and I don’t personally know anyone that acts that way”. To me its common sense that girls don’t like it when you act horny. I learned that from my first rejection, I can still remember it vividly. I’ve told several Gagers that this type of behavior is unacceptable but they didn’t believe me, thinking that I was just some virgin or someone trying to screw up their chances when in reality I was just trying to help.
One guy even sent me a picture of his penis. That really made me sick to my stomach and want to throw up. If I had any doubt in my mind that I was straight it was immediately gone after that picture.
2) Some things are better received when said by a woman rather than a man
By having a woman tell a guy that he’s acting like a pervert it gives him more reason to change his ways than if a man said it. Women are also better received when they are compassionate since no one doubts their intentions. If a guy is nice to a girl, people will automatically assume that he wants to sleep with her.
If a guy is overly nice to another guy, he may be labeled as gay. That isn’t always the case. Guys can genuinely care for another human being just as any woman can. It doesn’t make us pussies, quite the contrary it makes us emotionally mature.
3) It is really nice to be messaged first
As someone that has been unwillingly categorized as an alpha by my peers it gets really annoying to be the one in charge. I always have to message everyone first, be they male or female. It is very rare that people message me first and that’s usually only when they need something. Perhaps it’s because I care more or because many of my friends have as much energy as Jeb Bush that I’m the one always planning everything.
When I got the female account it felt nice to have people message me first. With a couple of people I actually had decent conversations with. I could do my own thing and people would message me without me lifting a finger. It’s a really nice feeling compared to what I’m used to. I actually encourage people in real life to message me first but sadly that almost never happens.
There needs to be a balance of who messages whom first. Otherwise, you’re creating a relationship where one chases and the other plays hard to get which in all honesty very few people actually like.
4) Most women won’t approach men because they don’t have to
Since women are on average 10 times less horny than men they don’t have to worry about approaching guys since there will always be one with enough balls to approach them. This doesn’t guarantee quality, quite the contrary most guys that approach are rejected since they don’t meet a woman’s standards. Women can approach men and some do but it makes them appear desperate (to some) since they’re unwilling to wait. Even though logically it would make a lot more sense for women to approach men since they’d have a higher success rate and be more likely to be with someone they like rather than just picking from guys that approach them. Most women however, will not change since it’s easier to choose from what’s available then to seek elsewhere and risk rejection.
5) Whining about being a virgin is the most unattractive thing out there
Although I couldn’t fully immerse myself into the thought process of a woman, I tried really hard to picture how I would react if I was a woman. What I realized is that this has got to be the most pathetic lot out there. C’mon do they really expect a hot chick to give them a courtesy fuck just because their horny. What do they have to offer to the woman? Nothing!!! They’re usually losers with no goals in life and all they care about is getting laid. At the same time however, they make great clients for prostitutes even though that only makes their life worse.
The things I couldn’t account for in my experiment were women’s sex drives and what it’s like to have a period. Those are things I could not imitate since I do not find men attractive and I’ve never experienced a period.
I hope you found myTake informative and interesting.
Have a nice day :)
What Girls & Guys Said
10 16How about a take on being a straight white male examining your white entitlement and having to check your privilege every morning when you wake up how everything you do is sexist and racist. How white guilt weighs you down and any success is through simply being born a straight white male in the white male patriarchy.
I can write about the "benefits" of being White too. I've actually been thinking about it.
Actually write about the benefits of being black or female or a black female or how being an Asian student makes it difficult to get a good college place because of how people who dont deserve to be there get a free ride based on gender or sex.
Such horrible take...
What we learned from you was that you are a pathetic catfish who likes to pretend he's a girl online to flirt with males and potentially get dick pics. Come out of the closet, you will be happier.
Stop calling other guys horny perverts for their natural sexual interest in the opposite sex. You are part of the fucking anti-male shaming in our society.
I can control my urges why can't you? I also know how to act respectfully towards women and that's what gets them interested in me.
Ha sad shaming tactic. 99% of men can control their urges. You on the other hand pretended to be a girl to troll for sexual interactions with men... How did you control your urges exactly? Because you didn't do it with women? Attempting sexual interactions with the women is how our species survives. Without an attempt there would never be sexual interaction. Do you think only women should be the ones making the first move when it comes to sex... Because that is a very sexist mentality. If you think that trying to initiate sexual conversation with females instantly means disrespect, it explains why you are pretending to be a female to talk to men.
Did you read the myTake? I am 100% straight. This was to see what girls go through on a daily basis. No that 99% statistics is pure bs. I can provide you with the messages received and you can be judge of whether "I like your boobs", "You make me so horny" and e. t. c are means of self control or just acts of perversion. What you're supposed to do is treat women with respect as you would with men. Flirtation is obviously necessary to get a woman's interest but this is not how you do it. As for my own sexual urges I have them under control and when necessary, I deal with them like a man.
Regardless of what you want us to believe, you made an excuse to be a girl and talk to boys. You then decided to shame the entire males sex based on the actions of young stupid internet trolls. You also pushed the idea that women don't speak to males like that (maybe because you personally have not witnessed it or because you think it's ok for women to be sexually forward, which is sexist) Treating women with respect is different than treating women like sensitive little children who are unable to handle themselves. Shaming the entire male sex based on the actions of the internet trolls, is like basing the actions of women on the actions of tumblr feminist. It's a biased and skewed version of reality.
I wasn't shaming all men only those that were acting inappropriately. I never said all men are like this. As for the approach, I explicitly stated WOMEN SHOULD APPROACH since they have a higher chance of success but they won't because they like things the way they are.
Why should it be a one sided deal, why should women hold all the cards? They make the call on when and who they have sex with. So YOU think they should also be the only ones making the selections? That seems a bit fucked up. Do you think we should be at their disposal like slaves who wait for sexual orders? Male female interaction is a game... women make the rules, we try to win by playing our hands. The idiots who make lewd or inappropriate remarks play that hand like a poor poker player keeps a 7 deuce. They think they might get lucky and fool the weak but usually they walk away with nothing. So let them... they are fools and the only way they learn to play properly is to lose every time. You can't simply tell a bad card player how to get better. They have to learn through experience.
Perhaps you should read this myTake I wrote a while back
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24344-the-pussy-price-ending-female-entitlement-male-whining
It addresses any concerns you may have
Much like this take, that take is nonsense. In that take bash women saying that they create a system (game) for men to protect a self righteous entitlement they feel they have and make men jump through hoops before they give out pussy, but they are not entitled to shit but treat nice guys like pawns to get stuff. Essentially calling them out as assholes. Then make fun of "nice guys" for letting themselves be used. "very few men are brave enough to call women out on their bullshit" "Don’t let women’s rules control you." Then here, you state that guys who are not nice guys, who are aggressive and forward, need to control themselves and treat women like they want to be treated, as well as women should call the shots. So which one is it?
"Nice guy" - a person who thinks kindness will get him laid White knight - a guy who self sacrifices and puts women on a pedistle in hopes of getting laid Pervert - a guy who makes rude sexual comments in hopes of getting laid What women want is none of the above. What they want is a guy who has his own life, is confident and pursues women but doesn't bitch about getting rejected.
At no point in our conversation have we talked about guys bitching about getting rejected. A nice guy can also be a white knight or a pervert or both. And vice versa. A guy who can stand his own can also be a pervert but just have the social ability to hide it. The conversation has been about males being overly perverse towards women online. As I stated earlier... you can not compare males on the real world with 14 year old horny trolls on the internet. You also can not assert that women should be the only ones calling the shots for every aspect of male female interaction. Just like the egg vs the sperm... women are bombarded by male interest and the winner of the race gets the spoils. The egg doesn't go out looking for the right sperm. There is a reason and this primate mating method has existed since before our pre human ancestors. Males prove they are superior, females select from the competing selection.
I never said women should call the shots. In the take I sent you, it specified that most men need to grow a pair of balls and go after whomever they want and female princesses don't deserve anything.
It woman approaching a guy only makes her look desperate to the WRONG type of guy. If he's anywhere half decent, he will be flattered and intrigued.
I completely agree.