The girl I'm seeing recently always wants to get on top of me? Is she trying to get me submissive or am I not able to thrust her well?

[Anonymous]

Ps - she's has high sex drive and achieves orgasms with utmost ease

[LEGENDARY4200]

No she's not trying to make you a submissive. A lot of girl's like to take charge and control the angle and depth of penitation. My advice would be to talk to her but it sounds like she'd be in to trying some new positions or even BDSM. Sounds a lot like my girlfriend. Sometimes she wants to be just brutality fucked, basically used and others a nice dirty spoon position will just send her into shuddering Orgasms. Communication is key. It'll take you to the peak of your sexual experiences

[Fireguy17]

I had a girlfiend that could only cum when she was on top besides direct stimulation.
So we would do all sorts of different positions, but always finish with her on top.
The way I figure it, the more she enjoys having sex, the more often she will want to have sex, and that is just fine with me.

[NamerOfStars]

Maybe. The interplay of power and control can be a big part of sex, and there's a lot of fun to be had, if you're interested. Don't let porn mislead you; it doesn't have to go the extremes of pain and degradation that you see- it CAN, if you both like (remember that you can talk to her beforehand about what you'd both like to do), but it can also simply be one partner taking control for a while. And it can be very pleasant to just lay back and let someone else steer for a bit, just like it can be very exciting to be the dominant one. In addition to not having to be extreme, it doesn't have to be permanent; just like any other sexual thing, you can try it and choose not to come back to it if you don't like it. You also shouldn't let SOCIETY mislead you; having a sexual kink isn't an indictment of your character, masculinity/femininity, or sanity.

It may also be that she just likes the position better. Talk to her about it- as with most sexual things, communication is key.

[RobT312]

She may just like that position or is on the more aggressive/dom side.
My girlfriend And I both have a high sex drive and have a dom streak to us... I like that position so she can play out her dom desire, but it’s not because she wants me to be submissive. She just likes being active in bed

[4afriend]

Let her ride to get hers then blast her from the back. Its not a control thing but it's a p to v position/feel thing

[Caunsos]

So she doing all the work in sex and your the submissive one. Sound like she is servicing you.

[MountAverage]

Don't be ridiculous please. She enjoys the position, plain and simple. My goodness, how fragile some are in their manliness 🙄

[jahaims]

Ask her

[Waldoe]

she likes being on top... some girls prefer that... everyone has diferent preferences

[Guido]

She likes that position as it likely feels best for her. It's my favorite position too.

[Anonymous]

It feels good to her when she's on top. She likely has more control over how and where your dick is stimulating her when she's in that position. I don't see a problem regardless of her reasoning.