Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Freshman year of college. Filled with guys who are comple commitment-phobs and wannabe fuckbois. I have nothing against casual sex. It can be fun but is it really too much to ask for a guy to talk to you, wave hi to you, or even just smile when they see you around campus after having sex with them?
It was so easy for you to have sex with me but talking to me after is just too hard. Honestly I'm sick of guys treating girls like sex objects they can just toss around. It's time you treat girls right not because you feel you have to or because they're a girl but because girls are people who have feelings that matter. You wouldn't want to be treated like sex object and if you do you must have your own issues.
I'm sick of going on this site looking up a million different ways I can be better in bed. I can be the perfect fuck. None of it matters because afterward I get nothing after but heartache. I'm sick of double standards and guys assuming because a girl has sex she's willing to do anything with you. Because she gets around she's dirty and doesn't have feelings. I'm sick of spending so much time on my physical apearance I'm late to my classes and I still barely look mediocre. I'm sick of using sex as a way of validation that never makes me feel better. I'm sick of changing myself so I can fit the pretty girl steretype society shoves down our throats.
In order to be a pretty girl you have to have the looks of Kim Kardashian and the personality of Zooey Deschennel. You can have a sexuality but you have to be quiet about it and the guy always comes first (no pun intended). I'm not angry at guys. I don't think it's your fault you think this way about girls. When your surrounded by these depictions of women all throughout your life you can't help but believe that's what you like and how your supposed to treat a girl.
Instead of making me change me why don't we change society...
What Girls & Guys Said
10 23the talking thing is just a dick move whether you've had sex or not
Who the fuk u telling this to? Lol guys on here are nerdy ass virgins that still haven't got laid ha. And you just mad because some dude didn't texted you back lol
I think they secretly make love to mobile and computer porn..
Lol what?
You said they treat girls like objects... that's cos they've been sexing their mobile phones and computer a lot.
Im gonna be that douchey person that corrects you (I hate when people do this but I feel its necessary)
"Honestly I'm sick of guys treating girls like sex objects they can just toss around. It's time you treat girls right not because you feel you have to or because they're a girl but because girls are people who have feelings that matter"
Im going to correct you here and say "some guys."
Dont go for the alpha male tool types and you won't have this problem, guaranteed. YOU ARE THE PROBLEM, not society. I can think of a dozen guys off the top of my head who would never do this to a woman, myself included, they are out there, you clearly just suck at picking men.
Also Kim Kardashian looks like trash and Zooey Deschennel is good looking, but not appealing at all. If either of these women came to my doorstep offering their "services" I would slam the door in their face before they had the chance to finish. Stop trying to act like slutty celebrities and act like yourself (hopefully) a normal, self respecting young woman.
Ok! You guys out there who are telling her to ignore the guys who don't play by her rules:
Just don't go around later crying like babies that girls aren't nice to you and won't choose you for a boyfriend or sex partner. You're asking for it!
I've had a lot of casual sex and never had these experiences. To me, a lot of guys I've slept with in a friends with benefits situation were kinder to me than my boyfriends have been.
Something is going wrong here with your experiences... It's not a behavior all or most guys display. Try to reflect on what it is that's happening and avoid sex a while until you know.
Hmmmm. . . are you saying you'd rather have a boyfriend than a casual sex partner? How many guys have you had sex with? Were they all just one (or two) offs or have you ever had a longer relationship?
Great take! I've had a lot of casual sex, back in college, and even more now that I'm working. It's the most fun i can have. Of course what happens after can really suck. However, every guy would at least say hi when I see them afterwards. What you describe are really fucked up situations. Not even looking at you anymore? But yeah I've had some weird situations as well. When I was still pretty new at work, this guy kept playing me, I was one day really bored and horny and during lunch break, we went to my place to fuck. It was casual, but afterwards he made a real mean comment during a meeting with all the staff, like he said something was my fault that I totally didn't do. Then I heard him telling all the details of how he fucked me to his male coworkers. So he just blames me for things I didn't do in a mean way, while he was cumming all over my ass a hour before, and then he brags about it to his friends to boost his ego and destroy mine.
Most guys aren't hooking up much, it's a minority. Since girls who hook up don't want average guys, they all want the same group of hot/funny/cool 'fuckboys', they all have to amp up their looks/dirtyness game to compete for them.
They are not bothered by being treated as sex objects. For men, being sexually objectified is a rare and thrilling experience most guys almost never experience.
Guys who want to fuck around are not going to stop at your age, period. You want a relationship, find a relationship minded guy, who is likely either less good looking or more shy and more likely in STEM where there's a male female balance that hurts rather than helps him. If you don't want casual sex, don't pursue that side of things.
I'm not funny. Cool and hot? Ehhh. Maybe. I am a shy guy. "Fuckboy" I'll never be. I don't back stab people, and that's what a fuck boy is. A fuck boy isn't a promiscuous guy. A fuck boy usually doesn't even have a lot of sex. He's just a back stabber. I agree though. She shouldn't pursue casual sex stuff. It's not for her apparently.
@Joc4Position Player, fuckboy, these things mean a million different things. ANyway, the idea that every guy out there is just hooking up constantly, no freaking way. It's just a lot of girls, the guys they WANT are hooking up constantly.
Ehh. A player may be a fuckboy, but a promiscuous guy isn't necessarily neither. A fuck boy is always a snake though around here. Slipping and sliding like oil. Slithering around backstabbing people. Well of course every guy isn't hooking up. Most people are monogamous. That's true sometimes too. Sometimes the guys females want are promiscuous, but I don't think you have to be any of those things you mentioned to be promiscuous.
@Joc4Position Agree with everything you said.