The guy I like cummed instantly. What does that mean?

Question

I've known this guy for over a year, but we have only seriously talked for a little over 2.5 months. Both of us have busy work schedules and we've only been on four dates. We text and snapchat everyday. Last night he stayed at my house. We laid down in bed and he pulled me close to kiss. We made out for a really long time. He started to feel me up and stuff. I didn't want to leave him hanging so I decided to give him a bj... He came the second I put my mouth on it... It doesn't bother me or anything, I'm just wondering why this happened. I have no experience with this. Was he nervous/anxious? Does he really like me? Is he just not good at holding back? He's kind of shy so I'm having a hard time figuring him out.

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

Like all the replies said, it means nothing. We really can't control it. He was just over excited, maybe he hasn't been with someone for a while, maybe you are his first. Who knows? I would bet it was just due to first time jitters and don't worry about it. He will last longer once he calms down and isn't over excited and becomes use to you.

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

First time having sex with you (maybe ever?), combined with anxiousness, and you made out for a long time first, he was just really really turned on and excited. Normal. If you do this more with him, it will improve as he gets more and more comfortable with you and not so much in his head.

Amethyst5 · Accepted Answer

Was he a virgin? If so, that could be why. You got him all hot and excited and he couldn't take it anymore! Lol If he's not a virgin, then maybe he's premature?

daremetwo · Accepted Answer

He must have been very horny & hadn't got off in a while.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

At that age, the combination of being highly turned on and nervous, can cause that. I'd have it happen to me just with my girlfriend giving hand jobs when I was twenty-ish. (Assuming he is in your 18-24 range.) Sometimes it takes awhile to learn to relax when it comes to sex.

Bassplayer21 · Answer

There is no real 'reason' why. You've been building the tension and I guess his body was kinda shocked by your bj. And maybe he's not good at holding it back, but only time will tell:)

jacquesvol · Answer

It means he's horny. That's all.

winterfox10 · Answer

He was probably a little nervous, but it mostly means that he likes the way you feel on his cock. It was a compliment!

BagoFit · Answer

Nothing to do with nervousness or shyness. He's not used to it (probably a virgin) Because you made out a long time he got too excited and was already ready to bust any moment. Once you went down he couldn't keep it anymore because again too long foreplay too much excitement. Also if the penis os very sensitive it won't take long to cum

genericname85 · Answer

guess he got pretty excited xD don't make any assumptions from that about "how much he likes you". it only reflects how horny he was.

maybe he just didn't cum in a long time or he doesn't masturbate. having little experience or just not cumming in a long time can make him cum very quick. or maybe the kissing and stuff you did before was so arousing to him already.

Debussy2691 · Answer

Mmmm... he needs to master his ejaculation... suggest he reads The Multiorgasmic Man by Mantak Chia

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

He just was really excited and really likes you.

Walrus_au · Answer

Off hand, I would say he was over-stimulated - maybe needing some work on self control.

WhoDatGuy · Answer

Your asking what does this mean? He comes quick. That's it no hidden meaning.

polaris885 · Answer

Its been awhile, give him round 2

8string · Answer

he's prolly one of those Nofap guys.

Lumberman53 · Answer

He was aroused

masterkamasutra · Answer

poor performance.

Nice222 · Answer

He was just really turned on and not used to you yet. Sometimes when a guy is really excited and inexperienced he can have a hard time holding back. It should improve with time and experience.