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The guy I'm having an affair with doesn't want to use condoms?

I've been sleeping with this guy for about 8 months now and we have never used a condom, I am on the pill and have been when since sleeping with him. The guy is married and I assumed he wasn't sleeping around, we also work together and alarm bells started when my colleague showed me his cash expenses, he had been to loads of strip clubs, assuming with clients whilst in Singapore. He doesn't know I've seen them and I don't want to get my colleague in trouble for telling me. As we are only technically fuck buddies I can't tell him who he can and can't sleep with but can I suggest that we can carry on sleeping together without using a condom as long as we use a condom if we sleep with other people?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No condom = no sexual intercourse. But then I myself wouldn't even have an affair, nor would I have sexual intercourse with the guy, so what do I know. I can tell from what you wrote that you already know you're also having sex with everyone he has sex with and everyone they have sex with. With that in mind your chances of getting an STD like HIV are extremely high! Is that really what you want? Is that affair worth dying a horrible death for? Or transmitting to someone you love?

  • If he's married & sleeping with you, you surely aren't the only one he's sleeping with... C'mon lmfao... he can't even remain loyal to his own wife.

  • You assume he isn't sleeping around... if he sleeps around with you there are most likely also other woman.

  • He's fucking you while married. Are you that stupid to think he's not screwing others as well?

Most Helpful Guys

  • No guy wants to use condoms, there is nothing that feels better than skin on skin. Guys, however are so totally lame in this area, having birth control wherewithal, suffering the consequences of a child born w/o two parents that the least they can do is bring condoms - but I wouldn't count on it. The best, if you don't mind also fucking a sheep's intestine, are fourex, made from lambskin.

  • if he's married and fucking you it obviously means that he's not exclusively to you only, seriously what would make you that special?

    anyways this is obviously a more than good reason to make his ass wear one

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  • You know there are plenty of guys around. Kick his butt and find a new one who's as aware of the details as you are.

  • Even when your on the pill, it's still a bad idea not to insist that he use a condom- you don't know who he has had sex with, and you can presume he had unprotected sex with them, too.
    This guy doesn't sound like he is worth your time anyway.

  • Your first choice should be to dump him. If you don't like that option and still want sex with this manwhore, insist on a condom. It's about your life.

  • U hvnt used m n 8 mnths u dont want to so do what u want or end it cause sound like u want to give the bag to othrs sone like the feel of it into them znd a condom takes away right so u decide

  • Yes, 100%. Tell him to use one

  • Why don't you sleep with someone who isn't married?

  • Wow, that sounds shady. You need to demand he wear a condom.

  • Why are you even married in the first place if you're not ready to commit

  • umm is birth control ok with you in this event? if not tell em suit up

  • Use condoms

  • Leave him

  • Is that fun

  • dont have an affair?

  • First get checked. He may have already infected you. STI's in women can go unnoticed.
    Of course you should tell him no condom, no sex. Explaining why after all this time could be tricky. Plan B, break it off.
    Reality check. Of course he is fooling around - with you.
    There's a slim chance that you're the only one, but if he's a player he's a player.

  • Probably should both get tested for STDs and go from there, it’s not going to matter at this point

  • why are you sleeping with a married man in the first place

  • Home Wrecka Corp.

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