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The guy I’m with gets mad at me for moaning in bed?

Okay I’ll admit I’m quite loud but I live by myself and no one else is in the house? Or sometimes we go to a hotel or an apartment and he always has a go at me for moaning? And then he refuses to have sex with me if I Moan? I’m not sure if it was just an excuse though because he wasn’t able to go another round yet since we already went 3 rounds but I don’t get it. Even when we do have sex he tells me to be quiet but why would he want me to be silent wouldn't that be awkward for him. Shall I confront him about this? It’s not a big deal but I don’t really wanna just lay there silent while we are having sex lol
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  • Dump him. The only time I ever had a problem was when I stayed a week at my girlfriend's house. Mindy had always been somewhat loud, but every night that week she seemed to get louder and louder. I thought that her parents would get pissed but each morning they seemed fine. It kinda freaked me out.

    The night before our flight home after Mindy and I went to bed, Mindy's mom came into the room and sat on the edge of our bed. It was weird because we had already started having sex. Mindy used her legs to keep me in her. Her mom should not see much, just her daughter's tits. She kissed Mindy and said, "Thank you, honey. You have really been great! Your dad has never fucked me so many times in one week!"

    Later as we had sex I stopped midway through. "What are you doing?" Asked Mindy.

    "Shush, listen," I said. Through the wall, we could hear her mom moaning and the slap, slap, slap of sex. Her dad was calling out Mindy's name! He was fantasizing about his own daughter! It drove Mindy crazy and she practically attacked me.

    So being loud is a good thing and don't let your asshole boyfriend stop you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I mean you could just tell him he's too good at pleasuring you, And watch him like walk over to the nearest wall and like smack his head against the wall as he if he tries to clap back he'd be insulting himself >.>

    • Yeah I did tell him he’s so good but he just dosent like it it’s so weird I’ve never experienced that before, i don’t think i will have def with him again for a while

Most Helpful Girl

  • Seems like you have to take a talk about this with him.
    Maybe it's because he thinks it sounds fake or it's too much.
    Not necessarily because you need to stop moaning altogether.

    If you're into it, you can always try a ballgag or him holding his hand over your mouth while you do it. - I think that's pretty hot.

    • Experienced 🐝🐝bee

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  • You do what comes natural to you. If you like to moan during an orgasm then go for it!

  • That seems weird, there would be no reason I would want my partner to stop expressing her enjoyment of sex, unless in a situation we had to be quiet. I think this needs a discussion with him as to why he feels this way.

  • You moan because it's a natural reaction for you. Do what you enjoy. If he doesn't like you moaning when you fuck. Don't fuck him. I have no idea why he doesn't enjoy hearing your pleasure. Maybe he's nervous someone will hear.

  • Where the fuck were you when I was in high school?

  • Cum to me then, I'll make you moan for real and louder because I'm Bigger than him so your moans will actually be REAL

  • He is a control freak

  • What an asshole. Don't let him have sex with you anymore. I swear, some people are so unappreciative.

    • Also, a woman moaning is fucking HOT!

  • Lol! That sounds horrible. But yeah maybe ask home some time when you are not at all sexual but just having a good time talking. Maybe he just wants you to tone it down a bit. Maybe you are actually hurting his ears. Haha! Who knows. You will only find out when you ask him.

  • Be silent and be heard even louder than if you moaned... I prefer moaning and if you went silent on me it would drive me bonkers... lol So let your silence be heard and see if he really wants it. So next time do not make a sound. Not even when you orgasm. Let your silence drown out all sound and see what he has to say about it.

  • Girl express yourself. You have the right to be expressive because your enjoying it and it gives the indication to him that he is doing something great too.

    I don't understand him at all. I will love my partner to moan and express herself who cares who hears. Its sex. It sought to be enjoyable with the ones you love

  • The guy seems weird lol, you better get silence headsets for him. Because sex without moans is like masturbating on a comedy flick.

  • I wouldn't even go for round two

  • quit spreading your legs then you won't have this problem

  • That’s what ballgags were invented for lol

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