The Hard Truth About Penis Size

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WOMAN DON'T CARE ABOUT PENIS SIZE!

Total bullshit. No woman has ever walked into a sex shop and said "please show me your extra small vibrators". When was the last time you heard girls on a hen night/bachelorette party complain the strippers were too well hung and demand to see less endowed men? Given a choice between 2 identical men, one big one small, who do you think we're going to choose?

The truth is we know you can't change your size. Just as we'd rather date a man with a jag than a fiat 500 we try to make the best of what we have in front of us. In short we're trying to spare your feelings.

SO WHAT IS BIG OR SMALL?

Under 4 inch. Sorry guys but from our point of view it just won't satisfy us. We'll still have sex with you but it's more for your pleasure than ours.

4-5 disappointing but it'll do. If it's a one nightstand don't expect a return visit. If your our boyfriend then rest assured we're not with you only for the sex. The sex can be ok but it's usually forgettable.

5-6 pretty average, When you go to pull it out this is what we expect to see. The sex will generally be good.

6-7 big but not massive. Trust me we're very pleased when we see this size. There is definitely a psychological boost from seeing on in this range. You'll feel well filled and the sex rarely disappoints.
7-8 definitely a eye opener. We know we're going to be well and truly fucked. Some women can be a little apprehensive when faced with this size. Extra time to get out juices flowing or/and a little lube is much appreciated.
Over 8. OMG. Yes we are impressed, congratulations on being so blessed by mother nature. Yes we can take it once we're sufficiently aroused just make sure the performance matches the expectation. Oh and you may need to reign it in a bit with the hard thrusting.

THE PHYSIOLOGICAL IMPACT

Imagine your partner came home and said they've bought you a new car for your birthday. You rush outside to be confronted with a smart car. Your heart sinks, why couldn't it been a sports car, a 4X4 even a family car. Yes it will get you about but inside your gutted. Well it's the same with penises. We look at some and think "ugh I suppose it'll do" and others and think "wow I need that".

This is important as a woman's ability to orgasm is highly dependent on our state of mind. Yes a small guy can make us cum but when we see a big guy he's already got a head start. Rightly or wrongly we just expect to orgasm when a big penis is produced. In fact if we don't we'll be more disappointed than if we didn't with an average guy.

CAN WE TAKE IT, YES WE CAN

Whenever a guy pulls a big one out 9/10 he'll ask if we think we can take it. Now given we can squeeze a baby out there so its a no brainer we can handle your cock. Plus just take a look at the size of sextoys we use.

Now just like penises vaginas grow when aroused. Unaroused we're about 4 inches deep but once turned on we at least double in size and ready for action. Sex pain ( dyspareunia, bet your going to drop that word in a conversation today) is usually caused by ramming it up before we're ready. Even a little one will hurt if we're not turned on.

BLOWJOBS, BANQUETS AND SNACKS

OK let's be clear about one thing, blowjobs are fun. No we don't have a g-spot in our throats but we still get a big kick out of doing them.
Big ones are definitely better to suck:
1 again, it's the psychological impact
2 small ones are awkward to such. Having your nose consistently bang against him as his penis barely passes your teeth isn't much fun.
3 you can get a better mouth seal around a large one
4 it's easier to incorporate a little hand action with bigger guys
5 if he's unshaved your nose won't be buried in a mass of pubes.
6 having a man cum at back of mouth is highly arousing, getting sticky teeth is not.

DOES A BIG PENIS GUARANTEE AN ORGASM?

In my personal experience anything over 7 inches will almost always deliver an orgasm. The time to achieve it will also be much shorter. With an average guy of 5-6inches I will climax about 60% of the time if he lasts 15 minutes. Over 6 inches I'll usually orgasm 80% of time. With men over 7 inches I'll orgasm 90% of time often in under ten minutes, five is not uncommon. Once again much of this is due to the psychological impact and the expectation of having a orgasm. But a large one puts more pressure on your g-spot regardless of sex position. One that rattles around like the last hotdog in the tin doesn't make you feel like your getting fucked, its more like being awkwardly fingered. It is debatable whether orgasms are more powerful with larger men but I would say yes they are, a lot more.

ISN'T IT ABOUT HOW YOU USE IT?

Big penises are not as common as the internet will have you believe, many girls will sadly never chance upon one. My first encounter with a well hung guy wasn't until I was 17 despite being sexually active for quite a while(yes its legal here).
It was a typical girls night out, have a drink, a laugh and flirt with guys. Like many occasions sexual tensions build until you find yourself being led away somewhere private while your mates guard your drink and handbag. He wasn't particularly attractive but there was chemistry between us and I was highly aroused, probably because a couple of my mates had just been done by other guys. In a toilet cubicle, pressed against a wall I first felt the familiar fingering up my skirt as he snogged me followed by fumbling as he pulled it out and took aim. The second he entered I realised he was way bigger than anything I'd had before. It didn't hurt but it didn't glide up as readily as others and I felt filled like never before stretching me to my limits. To cut it short he ploughed me pretty dam hard, it wasn't comfortable, but I orgasmed harder and quicker than ever before. He left me trembling, standing in a puddle and barely able to walk.

The point is yes average size is ok and nothing to be ashamed of but we all want something extra and will get it when we can.

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  • Only idiots think "size doesn't matter" and "it's how you use it". Size obviously matters. Can't believe some people actually think it doesn't matter. Good thing mine is 10.75 inches

  • It's the same question as do boobs and butt size matter. It depends. For some it does for some it doesn't

  • so you tried all sizes at just 19 years of age

    • I've been busy

  • My p p is very big, believe me

    • extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence;)

  • I have a new respect for you @purplepoppy

    You are the real deal!

  • all I hear is what you want... if yah like them that big , there are plenty of toys and animals out there that will do the job... men already know they are stuck with what they have and are working around it... the bigger you are , the lazier you are in bet and the other way around. it seems to me , yours is more of a psychological, not an actual philosophical need. Personally, the only criteria I have on the matter is for them to be clean and healthy...

  • What is the conclusion of your take?

    • The last part.

    • @Alpha09 i read it but there is no confession of what penis size is best or bad.

    • What I got from it was 6-7 in. 8-9 is extra

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  • Great text
    I admire your honesty and consciousness

  • Wowww.. this is so descriptive... I am 5.5 and I can so much connect what u said... Well gotta be in the race so practising foreplay and many other stuffs is what I do to make my gal orgasm..

  • So women do like big cocks

  • I have a small penis and reading this made me hard

  • Yeah they do, what a load of shit. You clearly ne er had sex with a baby dick

  • Well I’m about 6.5-7 inches. Realistically. No. Women can’t actually fit more than this, some can but that’s not so common. Child birth? The structure of the vagina is so different here. Dildos? Most women don’t use all the size. Anyway, this is just a post to shame men because you’re insecure about your issues as a woman. (We don’t care if you orgasm) you’re problem not ours. Your vagina isn’t universal. If 8 inches was better, most men would have it through evolution.

    • Imagine when people fuck you. They must be imagining who they would really want to fuck. I’m waiting for your mytake on vaginal tightness and wetness

  • Umm, I’m fairly certain that you can only speak for yourself, not every woman wants a big penis because not all vaginas are designed the same way. Vagina size (tight vs loose) is also a factor that determines how pleasurable sex will be.

    • I dated a chunky chick with a very snug cunt and she LOVED getting it stretched. The booty too! I'd shove a vibrator in her ass and drill her snatch a bit before stuffing a rubber dong in along side my dick (I can't wait for the little dick jokes). I eventually managed to get my whole hand in her cunt but we broke up before I'd gotten to actually fist her... Anyway, she was a big girl and it seemed kinda natural that she'd have room in there, you know? Well, my current girlfriend (we actually haven't been on speaking terms for 3 days lol) is very petite and has a tiny cunt and she LOVES getting her fuck holes stretched and stuffed too! Now it seems to me that the only thing chicks have in common is a desire to fit as much stuff in their greedy little fuck holes as they can 🤔

  • i think their dick are like a boost for their ego. i am telling ya it gives them to much confidence 😂

    • So true. It tends to be the bigger than average guys who are more confident in approaching for sex

  • Just out of curiosity, how many people did you have sex with?
    Good take. 👍

    • I've had sex in some form of other with a lot of guys.

    • Private message lady?

    • @Bigcoockerrr lmfao fuck off.

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  • What a crock of shit.

  • Don't trust you, my size is a death sentence and why I'll never have sex

  • I was 16 when I got my first big cock. Up until then I’d fucked lots of guys, but they were all only about 5-7 inches long. My friend and I snuck out to a party, and started drinking beer from the keg. One guy was interested in me, and he started talking to me. After a few beers we started kissing. Soon he grabbed my hand and led me to a spare bedroom. We started undressing each other. He had a nice cock that was about 7 inches long and pretty thick. He pushed me on my back and started eating my pussy. I loved it and it wasn’t long before I shaking with orgasm. After that he put me on my hands and knees and shoved his thick cock in my soaking wet pussy. Soon we got into a nice rhythm and he was pounding my hard from behind.

    My head was down in a pillow and my eyes were closed. Soon he grabbed me by the hair and pulled me back up on my hands. When I opened my eyes, I saw a huge black cock right in front of my face. Instinctively I just opened my mouth and managed to get the huge head in and a couple of inches of his very thick cock. He slowly started throat fucking me and my eyes were watering. Soon the guy behind me grabbed my hips and really started pounding me hard. I heard him groan and I felt his hot cum flooding my pussy.
    He pulled his cock out, dressed and left the room. Then the black guy flipped me over, spread my legs wide and put my ankles over his shoulders. He put put the head of his huge cock up against the entrance to my pussy. I reached down and spread my pussy lips wide apart to make it easier to get inside me. I told him to go very slowly, because I’ve never had a guy his size in me before. He pushed a few inches inside me, and I held him back with my hands. After my pusssy had adjusted to his girth, I reached behind him and pulled him in a few inches farther. He just waited and didn’t move, other than to massage my breasts.
    After I was ready, I whispered to him, “fuck me. I need you to fuck me.” He started slowly and started thrusting harder and faster. It felt like I was being split in two by his massive dick, but I still loved it. I told him to please not cum inside me, because I feared pregnancy. I came in about 5 minutes and it was the best orgasm I ever had. He never was able to get his entire nine inches in me, but it still felt wonderful. When he was ready to cum, he pulled his long shaft out of my pussy and told me to open my mouth wide. I did as he instructed, and he shot load after load of hot cum into my mouth. I tried to swallow it, but there was just too much.
    After we finished, I got dressed, found my friend and we left the party. To this day I try to only fuck guys with very large cocks, but they aren’t easy to find.

    • Wow.. great story

    • lmfao those downvotes! 😂🤣🤣🤣

    • LOL..

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  • That explains a lot.

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