Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Introduction:
Anytime God's word uses the phrase "Who can find" is because whatever is in question is so rare and difficult to find.
In this particular case, a Proverbs 31 woman is a extremly rare finding because she is of great worth.
She is God's deeply beloved daughter.
A truly amazing God fearing woman that excels in moral excellence.
That's not to mean she is perfect and has never made a mistake and said a foul word, backbite with her tongue, lied or watched porn etc by no stretch of the imagination, since God's word says for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23)
Moreover, the totally of her character is one marked of uprightness, faith, hope, positive attitude, wisdom, knowledge, strength, hard work, perseverance, dignity, politeness, love, loyalty, holiness, humility, righteousness, revenance and obedience towards God throughout her daily life.
That isn't to say this woman is boring or a hermit; this woman has fun with her besties on girls night out and enjoys life with her girlfriends as a normal person does and should.
But you won't find this woman inside a night club week in and week out dancing shaking her butt and grinding on the crotch of some weed head at a night club or giving oral sex to some idiot inside a parked car in the parking lot of a K-Mart at 2:00 O'clock in the morning.
The Blessed Husband.
The virtuous wife is a extraordinary blessing to her husband.
She's devoted to pleasing her husband all her days of her life by meeting all his needs and desires wheather inside or outside the bedroom.
She adds nothing but gain and prosperity for her husband by encouraging him, loving him, respecting him, sharing wisdom and knowledge for his benefit as long as she lives.
She won't speak ill behind her husband's back, raise her voice at him, disrespect him, nag him, belittle him, be rude, have a ugly attitude, start arguments to give him a piece of her mind nor act like a wild beast causing stress and headaches to her husband's life.
That's not to say this woman is a doormat nor won't ever say anything that is bothering her, but rather she knows and understands how to articulate herself in a civilized manner to get her point across without having to resort behaving like a animal.
Proverbs 19:14: Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers,
But a prudent wife is from the Lord.
She Works Hard.
The virtuous woman is far from being idle.
You won't see this woman sitting at home watching day time talk shows all day long or being on Facebook for hours upon hours trolling other people's pages.
If she is going to school, she is dedicated to her school work and hits the books really hard to educate herself and gain knowledge.
And if she still not married, you can safely bet she will be grinding going to work making her own moves and money to provide for herself with God's blessings.
She Has A Heart For The Poor And Needy.
Her heart is filled with love and compassion.
She yearns to help the elderly, fatherless and the afflicted anyway she can.
She doesn't do it for attention or vain glory seeking approval and praise from others, but rather to show the love of God that is in her heart and make a positive impact and difference in the world by her love and goodness unto others.
She Possess Elegance.
Wheather she is physically beautiful or not, she knows how to present herself with class and dignity by how she dresses or engages in conversations.
She will never degrade herself nor allow anyone else to degrade her.
She knows how to dress sexy without looking like a cheap street corner hooker.
She won't embarrass herself nor her husband or friends at a social gathering by running her mouth and pouring out stupidity.
When she speaks it's with knowledge, wisdom and kindness.
She's A Great Caring Mother.
Once this woman has children she will sacrifice her career to rather spend time at home raising her children with constant love, patience, tenderness, guidance, teaching in wisdom, discipline, encouraging her children in all ways possible so that her children can grow up confident, mentally and emotionally healthy.
She will never leave her kids at a day care center with a stranger all day long 5 days a week to pursue her career, status and money.
The well being of her household, husband and children will always come first.
Conclusion:
If you're a woman and feel less than because you don't fit all the qualifications of a virtuous wife or woman, don't feel bad; You were just never meant to be one. 😂 (Just joking)
In all seriousness, a virtuous woman isn't just born, but rather she gives herself over to God to break her and mold her into one over time.
If you desire to be a diamond then you have to be willing to be tried in the furnace then cut.
Proverbs 31:
The words of King Lemuel, the utterance which his mother taught him:
What, my son?
And what, son of my womb?
And what, son of my vows?
Do not give your strength to women,
Nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
It is not for kings to drink wine,
Nor for princes intoxicating drink;
Lest they drink and forget the law,
And pervert the justice of all the afflicted.
Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to those who are bitter of heart.
Let him drink and forget his poverty,
And remember his misery no more.
Open your mouth for the speechless,
In the cause of all who are appointed to die.
Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And plead the cause of the poor and needy.
Who can find a virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband safely trusts her;
So he will have no lack of gain.
She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
She seeks wool and flax,
And willingly works with her hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
She also rises while it is yet night,
And provides food for her household,
And a portion for her maidservants.
She considers a field and buys it;
From her profits she plants a vineyard.
She girds herself with strength,
And strengthens her arms.
She perceives that her merchandise is good,
And her lamp does not go out by night.
She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hand holds the spindle.
She extends her hand to the poor,
Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy.
She is not afraid of snow for her household,
For all her household is clothed with scarlet.
She makes tapestry for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies sashes for the merchants.
Strength and honor are her clothing;
She shall rejoice in time to come.
She opens her mouth with wisdom,
And on her tongue is the law of kindness.
She watches over the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many daughters have done well,
But you excel them all.”
Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
Give her of the fruit of her hands,
And let her own works praise her in the gates.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1If the perfect woman can make mistakes, and HAS made mistakes- why can't she be the type to go dancing or do oral? Maybe that was her "mistake" and she's still all the other traits you listed? ... Or is the worst thing that the perfect woman can do is watch porn? Lol.
No one is perfect. And who said she can't go dancing and have fun? And I meant she won't giving oral sex to a man that isn't husband.
"But you won't find this woman inside a night club week in and week out dancing shaking her butt and grinding on the crotch of some weed head at a night club or giving oral sex to some idiot inside a parked car in the parking lot of a K-Mart at 2:00 O'clock in the morning." Why can't her "mistake" be that she's giving oral to a guy who isn't her husband? How come you get to decide which mistakes are acceptable and which are not?
Because this woman fears the lord. She doesn't get down like that.
Great take. 👍👍👍 But something bothers me. You talked about how she is hard worker but it seems you insinuated that once she's married she should not work anymore because you talked of the case when she is studying and when she's not yet married.
I meant she will still work hard, but she will never sacrifice the well being over her family for a career. Her family matters so great to her for her to do that.
OK. I agree but I think it's not the duty of the woman only. Everything is a matter of consensus but in the couple, both partners should keep in mind that they equally have to sacrifice their respective carreers for the family.
I imagine most people would prefer a honest, loyal partner but my tastes *definitely* differ from yours.
I don't believe in such things but my fantasy would be to become a succubus's pet/beloved. She would have wings, horns, a tail, the works. Also she would have infernal abilities, a demonic morality, love for Lucifer, a desired to have complete and total dominance over mankind that would would translate to her being arrogant and dominating towards me, etc.
I find angelic women boring. Realistically I want a woman that would be a megalomaniac thinking she deserved to rule over all, men in particular. Few would be safe from her slutty, manipulative ways.
You probably think I'm a Satanist right now and as interesting as that would be I can't bring myself to believe in such a thing.