The Importance of Giving Her Oral Sex

The Importance of Giving Her Oral Sex

When i first began thinking about sex as a teen, cunnilingus was generally discussed by guys as being gross and taboo. The most notable reason was the assumed chronic fishy smell and taste, which turned out to be easily controlled once its cause is understood and preventative hygiene is practiced. Another reason, more subtle, was that there was an element of submission to it that was "unmanly".

On that second count, there is what appears to be a servile aspect to it but for those of us who like and are good at it, we know that hidden in that apparent submission is powerful control because the probability of her reaching a strong, satisfying orgasm approaches guaranteed compared to the sub 25% odds from intercourse.

But there's more than that. A girl once told me that girls can learn much more that matters about a guy from a 30 minute session of oral sex than from an hour of guarded conversation over coffee or drinks. She said that when a guy treats oral as patient and nurturing, that outlook will extend to all aspects of sex and beyond to non-sexual issues. Put simply, a guy who is eager and competent at oral is more likely to be a keeper. She also said that effective oral makes her feel beautiful and loved more than any other part of sex. Something else I discovered is how early some girls were ready to receive oral.

The Importance of Giving Her Oral Sex

I have treated oral as the end point of making out. Under the right circumstances, they barely need to undress at all. With shirt open a few buttons, bra unbuckled, boobs attended to and arousal building, the move is short to a lifted skirt and panties pulled aside for Australian kissing. Oral can come long before a blow job or sex is on the menu.....and even before fingering because oral is only slightly penetrative, making it even a good way to introduce a virgin girl to sex, with no fear of physical pain or pregnancy.

I know this has rambled a bit, but here's the important point. While early intercourse can stunt a relationship, timely/early oral can accelerate the feelings we both want to have. Girls: Want and expect it as soon as you are ready. Guys: Work toward it from early on and expect to give it competently and unconditionally if you want the relationship to blossom.

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  • I believe cunnilingus to have been the most overlooked aspect of sex there ever was. Previous studies showed that the vast majority of women up to 80% never achieved orgasm and hence were not interested in sex. The recent attention focused on oral sex that is cunnilingus has increased a woman's pleasure and her desire to have sex. For me lick me to orgasm and then bang the daylights out of me

    • Pretty much the plan at home.

    • Couldn't agree more you have summed me up

    • Im taking notes for that comment. 😎

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  • I love to receive oral from my SO. There are times when tells me: today I'll give you an afternoon of special treatment of erotic massage with a happy ending session. And I love it 'cause he keeps massaging my whole body, boobs, butt, ass, vag, and then he usually starts to give Australian kisses and OMG, he makes me ejaculate and orgasm for several times. He kisses my clit, my ass, fingers my vag at the same time. And we pass a complete sexual day with me as a receiver. It's tremendously erotic, sensual and gratifying.

    • Australian kisses? 😗

    • @COMMODOREII hahaha, yes it’s the same as a french kiss but down under, hahahaha

    • Exactly.

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  • As a longtime cuckold, I always tell a woman when I meet her that she can simply keep me sexually frustrated and only let me service her orally, and that if she does this to me, I'll always be sweet and attentive to her every need. Not getting any pussy brings out the best in me, and I wouldn't dream of trying to change my oral only lifestyle.

  • I disagree. And before you come at me with trite platitudes of "you'never had it done right" -- I've had plenty of experience with this. It is simply overrated, in my humble opinion. It is at best mildly pleasant, but it doesn't arouse me. Now some fingering or good penile thrusting... then we can talk. Not all women are the same. The most important thing in relationship is listening, and seeing oral as a catch-all for being a good lover let alone being a good partner is grossly misguided.

    • Trite platitudes. Looking that up...

    • Haha... I guess I took all the possible responses away with this one sentence

  • In the days when I was interested in women, I used to enjoy making a woman dance on the tip of my tongue.
    The opportunity to do that did not happen often. :-(

  • It's the only way to get her to squirt on my face.

    • hot!!

    • so hot

  • I have learned to like it.

  • Cunnilingus is very important and of course intimate, An orgasm during cunnilingus transforms the girl into an angel, she grows wings and feels being in paradise

  • What if some guys are not into it? And don't tell to suck a dick.

  • unfortunately i have never come close to orgasm from it

    • Well, he said in bragging fashion, maybe you have gone to the wrong therapists.

    • i hope to one day !

    • That is really sad. I hope you find some man who does get you there Very soon. it will blow your mind

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  • I go down on my wife as much as possible

  • Yes, thank you. This is definitely important and enjoyable.

  • Hmmm I will give it a try on girls.. 😏

  • Fuking disgusting. I have a dick and I prefer to use that. I'll never put my tongue on a girls cunt. Just gross

    • I am gonna pass as well on that. Who knows how many rods were there, not to mention the smell and any yeast infection and etc.

    • lol suck a penis xD

    • @Afrochick u mad bro?

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  • I would rather eat pussy than have intercourse, I have on multiple occasions shot my was while going down on a woman.

  • Guys... she will be a lot more willing to return the favor if your penis skin is clean and smooth. So I suggest you all use a penis health creme that is made specifically to help guys keep their penises in excellent condition. There are few bigger turn-offs than a nasty penis.. check this creme out.

  • I enjoy head AFTER I give it. Nothing turns me on more than having a mans d* in my mouth and seeing how much he loves it. I'm one of those girls who don't get turned on unless I can suck it.🙈 I suck it to the point where he's begging to go inside me then if he pulls out and starts eating it, ugh! I love it!

  • I am 110% to go down on a girl anytime she wants it, I think it's very hot. Not on her period obviously.

  • Personally, I wouldn't care if I never got oral again... it's not all that. I much prefer real sex. When I was a virgin though, and wanted to stay a virgin, I got oral all the time, but now I'm not a virgin, I don't care for it that much. It feels good, but it's not as amazing as sex.

  • I would agree if a guy was good at this , he would be a keeper for many girls same way as if a girl was good at bj's , no way your letting that one get away

  • Omg that first pic did things to me...

    • How so.. 😏

    • @Cowboy6666 really the moment I saw it I wished my husband is here😢

    • what about other oral positions though?

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