Sexual Relationships 
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The more guys I meet and talk to, the more surprised I am to find out how many of them really don’t like eating pussy. For years I thought this was an urban legend and that all men wanted to do it on a woman and enjoyed it, but to my surprise quite a few men really are squeamish about it. So I want to encourage guys here to get past this aversion to the wonderful experience of making love to a woman’s vagina with your tongue and lips. Ahhhh yes, enjoy it.
It’s not as gross as you might think
So I might understand some guys who are freaked out about eating pussy because maybe they had a bad experience - she smelled bad down there or was really sweaty there, and so you just were repulsed by it. But don’t let one bad experience deter you from having a great dinner.
More often than not vaginas are going to have some kind of smell, even when she’s super clean. That’s just how it is. It can be a mild fish like smell, this will always be due to the fact that the vagina is closed up with no air or light. Much like your own mouth. This should not make you feel gross about eating it, rather you need to understand it. Vaginas by nature are also moist, and always will be moist, so you need to expect that, and honestly…accept that too. Even more so when the woman becomes aroused. She will get very wet, and may even squirt in your face if you're lucky. Accept it. Your mouth is wet and is perfect for making contact with a wet pussy.
Eating pussy is not going to be, nor does it have to be, some squeaky clean, odorless experience. Oral sex is messy, on both partners. And vaginas aren’t supposed to be beautiful. Some are, and some don’t look that great, you will have to learn to get around it. Just like not all dicks are attractive to all women. As a man you should enjoy giving oral as much as getting it.
Cunnilingus makes sex better for her
Unless she’s one of those women you might meet who are self-conscious about their pussy and really don’t want any man going down on her, I would embrace it when you’re with a woman who wants it if I were you. Go all in. Even if you need a little work figuring out where the clit is or applying the right sucking rhythm or licking, a woman appreciates that you really want to please her even if you have to work at it.
Giving her oral sex first not only better prepares her mentally and arouses her for intercourse, but it also can relax her and put her mind at some ease knowing that you want to make a good experience for her and don’t want to rush into immediate intercourse, unless she’s super horny in that moment and really wants you to put it in and pound her hips. Eating pussy allows you to have control of the situation and take the lead with confidence, and it really does make intimacy more intense. It’s also great if she’s a woman who can have multiple orgasms because you can eat her and she cums, and then you can slip inside of her and she cums some more, so you’re able to have fun doing a few sex acts in a row.
Oral sex also works well if she has a really tight pussy and maybe you are somewhat…‘big’ down there. I’ve had sex with a few tight women and they were nervous about…well…you know, lol. So I had to be very gentle with them at first. I found that giving them plenty of foreplay and oral beforehand helped their vagina to become more lubricated and open to receive a larger penis. This made me a feel a lot better as I was also nervous about the sex and scared of hurting them, but if you take it slow and prep her well first, you both can enjoy the experience. So if you meet a girl who is particularly tight, eating her first can make it better when you do slip in.
Cunnilingus can make sex better for you too!
I know for me, eating pussy makes sex so much more fun, especially if you do it first. Or even if it’s going to be the entire meal. I think I must be one of those few men who can’t really just jump into sex super fast, nor do I cum fast either. I like and need to enjoy all the corners, crevices, minutes, and seconds of a sexual experience. Cumming fast also feels a lot less bomblastic as opposed to drawn out sex, unless I’m having a moment where I’m particularly red hot horny and need to nut.
I personally have more arousal and enjoyment if I can be touchy and orally with a woman first. Foreplay is good for me just as much as it is for her. I like to put my hands and lips all over her body. Her shoulders, her neck, her breasts, her stomach…. Bringing a woman to a stimulated state intensifies my own fire. And the best part is having your face hugged between her thighs while you work your tongue on and inside that pussy, even more when she starts to tense up and her breathing gets harder, and you can look up at her and see her naked breasts heaving up and down, and her legs start shaking as she’s cumming on your mouth. Hold those hips down and make her feel good and powerless so she cums harder. Mmmmmm…
Enjoy
So for all the guys out there who have never eaten pussy, learn to change your thinking. Don’t be scared or grossed out by it. It doesn’t mean you have to enjoy her smell or actually drink up her fluids, you simply use your tongue and lips on her clit and folds with passion. Just let her juices run out of your mouth as you do it, add some fingers if she’s okay with it, and go with the flow.
Namaste, and good luck.
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 48great post. i love giving oral and can and will do so for as long as she can take it. i recently became friends with benefits with a 22 year old. first time we got together i gave her a really long oral pleasure time. she came multiple times and was over the moon. she told me other guys she's been with would barely do it. she was amazed with how much i loved it and how many times she could orgasm.
Vaginas are gross.
But they taste so good
@bubbakong2006 Amen.
100% important Oral on women plus add-on extra 10% on rimming just enough to send them over the edge!
Thank you for this. Hygiene is important. But men don’t realize that it’s not just us I mean there are instances where men also have an odor whether it’s from behind or infront , some men are scared of cleaning their ass cheeks with soap and water while in the shower because they thinks it’s “gay” when really it’s just hygiene. Some of those men even have the audacity to turn against women and say we’re the problem. It’s absurd. It’s called teamwork. We put in the extra work when it comes to showering, whether it be body scrubs, ph neutral sensitive soaps, special hydrating shampoos, special hydrating conditioners, leave in conditioners, essential oils, facial cleansers, body wash, vagisil, toothpaste tooth brush , mouth wash, etc. We put in all the extra work and some men shower with a 2 in 1 and call it a day it’s unfair. So please, instead of pointing fingers at women only, let’s point fingers at all genders. Fucking hell it’s 2022.
Ya know, I've heard about that. Guys who won't clean their ass cuz they think it's gay, and I honestly do not get that. They probably smell really bad.
I love eating pussy if it's clean and shaved and smells nice :) If not, it can be a turn off.
Yeah it’s true plenty of guys don’t want to or not good at it , it really depends how feel about her and if it looks and smells good, sometimes I crave it depending on the woman
I became sexually active at 13, and I didn’t receive oral until I was 17. For 4 years, no guys wanted to do it, and sex was pretty boring to me because of that factor. Now as a 20 year old, I wish more guys gave women oral. Men expect us to give them oral almost everytime we have sex, so why is it such a push for a lot of men to give women oral?
Great answer here.
Eating my pussy is also an art my boyfriend is good at it
I love licking pussy!
My woman loves it. So, I'll keep on giving her oral sex.
I dont read your take but i am sure it is a great take. Oral sex is important since you mostly stimulate the clitoris since the clitoris is the most nerve rich part of the vulva. I personally would prefere oralsex over penetrative sex even though i am virgin but i mastrubate and so i know my body. Whatever I will read your take now and thanks for this take.
Wow your take is really good. I am kinda curious whether they are many guys who enjoy performing oral sex on a woman or not since mostly women get pleasure by it.
Do me a favor next time: read a Take before you comment. Cheers🌺
Lol haha i already read it now. I already was fascinated by the title and this is why i could not wait to post
I just like it when a man is passionate about it and it is kinda interesting when a man knows much about female sexuality
Knowledge is power. I admit that I do enjoy knowing how to make a woman cum. It feels really good.
Wow I’m surprised, my boyfriend always talks about how he wants to eat me out for hours
Ya, he's normal.