Sexual Relationships 
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I have seen so many posts saying... "If you are bisexual then you are confused"...if that's true, then why don't I feel confused at all? What is confusing about liking both guys and girls? I think the ones that find that confusing are a bit confused themselves. Don't you think?
Some also say that your sexual preference is determined in the womb, but I think it is developed over time and sparked at an early age in life. Much has to do with how you were treated, or mistreated, as a child, and by who. If much of your time as a little girl was playing with an abundance of other girls, as mine was, maybe you will have a special affection for other girls because you grew up interacting with them on many more levels than those of the opposite sex so you know how they think, act and feel more intimately. In a general communal sense, the same sex will act like you, think like you and totally relate to you in most cases. As a girl, for example, you have that emotional connection that you just don't have so much with boys. That's how it has been for me anyway.
While at the same time, there have been many boys in my life that I met at school and other places, as well as cousins, etc., that have been nice to me too at times...lol, so I still have a fondness for them too. And since that is the cultural norm, I want to try, and at least, appear "normal" at times, so I like both sexes in my life. And I would think the same would be true with boys, who may like other boys, but like girls also.
And, of course, there is the abuse angle of all of this. I have never been abused at all, but I can imagine, and have read, that if you are a girl and you had some serious abuse perpetrated upon you when you were young by a male figure, then you may have a distrust for males. Am I off base here? I don't think so. And this could lead to a proclivity to like and trust other girls more and eventually lead to a fondness, then affection and finally culminate in a more sensual experience with other girls as well.
For many reasons bisexuality is here to stay and I love it! The big question is "CAN'T WE JUST ALL GET ALONG AND LOVE EACH OTHER FOR WHO WE ARE REGARDLESS OF OUR SEXUAL PREFERENCE?" :)
What Girls & Guys Said
14 24I’m Bi and I love my life and I’m happy with it. Nothing is confusing
Unask it all.
I am sensual, and there's a certain kind of experience I want to have.
We can never get along
MS. Laurie you are an interesting woman., a question come to mind, could you ever be in a committed relationship?, and if so which gender might you choose? Or would you just remain open to both all of your life?
Not sure if you saw myTake...
True Love! Is It Ever Attainable? ↗
There you can see that I can, and would, be committed to the right boy but I'm a dreamer.
Some girls have wanted me to be committed to them, but so far I have not.
Hmm interesting i'll give it a read. Good take MS. Laurie :)
I forgot I had answered your linked post, with my sad heart.
I think it is attainable but you must remember you're swimming against the tide in this bigoted society.
All women are bi
not a bad idea..
I like bisexual women but not bisexual men.
May I ask why not? (I'm just curious)
It would be nice to all get along, but with the nation becoming more and more right wing I doubt it.
I don't have a sexuality. Humans are boring and stupid categorical creatures who are too rigid to live their own lives.
Nah bruhh
I don't know if I agree with everything. You are basically saying people can be swayed to be a entire different sexuality based off their experiences but last time I checked, gay people, were saying that they were born that way and that was the general consensus that I got.
I dont have any problem with it but i would never want to date a guy who was bisexual.
Bisexuality is not in any care necessarily connected with rape or violence. It's perhaps psychological that one can like both the genders. Being a girl I sometimes admire other girls' body curves. Sometimes I wish to have relations with them, but it doesn't occupy my mind and emotions. It's also true that a few times I undress myself or wish a girlfriend to do so and let me touch her or she to touch me. Despite it I am straight and like sex with guy.
Nice sarcasm. You are straight but what I am?
all women are potential lesbian.
That’s an absolute statement.
Not all women are attracted to other women sexually so how would all women have the potential to be a lesbian?
@MysteriousDarkness Exception is not an example.