Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
The difference between ‘having sex’ and ‘making love’ is constantly touched on. Most focus on the depth of emotions and passion interlinked to separate the two. The intensity in these aspects defines ‘making love’ as opposed to only fleeting glimpses when merely ‘having sex.’
One can’t deny this explanation, but on many levels, it is transparent which doesn’t adequately represent ‘making love.’
Meaning is inherent which being in love is all about. There is an inextricable link between individuals. They are two as one in being, mind, heart and soul as well as many other other plains of connection. They beat as one as if they are a fine Swiss gold in perfect synergy. The making of love is the ultimate compliment and culmination. A lightning in a bottle type of magic where soul stillness is felt. It feels as though time is standing still in awe to give due homage.
The depth of the magic is all about the ‘knowing.’ An intuitive lifeblood where both sense the other at that moment and what they desire. Communication is a key to great sex but there is a higher form of consciousness when making love. Words are never needed for you already ‘know.’
Before anything even goes down the wonder has already colluded. Both are so in sync that they are wholly pleasured and satisfied by the intensity they feel in all regards. When you finally touch there is such a release. The first touch, feel and kiss sizzles and lights up the individual bodies with goosebumps that tingle. You are so torn, begging for more and, so much more of the touching and kissing. The joyous release can be heard in the exultant moans. All while entrapping in the depth of pleasure.
When sexual acts or the ultimate culmination of intercourse ensues the ‘knowing’ holds centre stage.
Making love is often seen as soft, gentle and intensely passionate. It can be. The same as it can be almost carnal delving into downright dirty. In fact, it can be represented by innumerable sexual acts.
It can see a drive on a busy highway being interrupted by picking up a vibe and parking on the side of the road where you grace the bonnet of the car as cars flying by beep their horns on witnessing the action. Even if it ends with a night in the lock up if a cop goes by it is irrelevant for all you desire is to suck the marrow out of all you feel. A quiet night in made lurid by one knowing the other is feeling very naughty and really wants to be dominated while giving oral sex. Or bent over the couch as they have their clothes ripped off. The intense session where it is all about liberal plunder and waking up sore and smiling. Then stepping up to the plate to once more go at it like jack rabbits. The times where you leave a nice crimson shade on the others skin as you have them tethered to a post with a collar.
All about the liberation that love defines. The making of love facilitates the liberation. The completion one feels is profound by being fully unlocked in a sexual sense. Any vulnerability in the form of inhibitions is evaporated away by the green-lighting of all that transpires. This oozes the intensity of feeling. They beg for it, the release, and the associated completion.
This is love in a nutshell. The freedom seldom approached in life let alone fully felt. At this point, life goes to another level. Inhale it in and allow it to intoxicate all your senses and appreciate every precious second of it like it is magic. Precious, rare, and could disappear as quickly as it appeared. Let making love be the joyous orchestra to all you feel together.
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Thank you for your kind word. coming from you it means a lot :)
Making love and having sex are completely different things I had alwyas know that. Making love is more emotional connected for the one you love, there are more kisses, hugs, caresses, involved, and things are done in a slower speed something soft, gente thing and counting each momento and minute. While having sex is just the pure physical act of fukcing end of story.
the intensity is intense
in the making love or the having sex?
making love
Regardless of one's level of sexual adventurism, Making Love is more an involvement of an exercise of using your mind, body, and soul together in unison when having sex. Whereas the " Wham Bam Thank you Mam " level of F-ing in and of itself is compared.
yup, it is a whole different level of experience
Sex = good
Sex with someone you love = better
Making love with someone you have sex with = the best
Thank you. That was quite a bit to read but profound.
thank you for the comment. You are a true gentleman
There is no difference between the two. The physical act does not change.
Good take
thanks for the kind words
👏👏👏👏👏
thank you
Damn that’s good I knew the difference but never could explain it
thank you kindly
Too true. People are forgetting what love is.
very much so
hmmm i like a bit of column A and a bit of column B
mix and match works
Having sex and making love are intertwined concepts
on many levels, yes
Thank you
no probs
Ahmmm, yeah for earth slave stock to elevate, yes.
For us Atlantean Masters, Making Love is a matter of degree, always emergent, evident in our mere poise.
spot on
I'm glad you liked it. I admit to a bit of haughtiness, with an underlying sincerity, always artfully intended.
Only Christians know how to make love. Everybody else does it wrong.
I don't need to learn anything cuz we black men are masters on bed. 😎
good for you
Yes yes.
quite literally... ;)
I agree with most people here. Sex is termed with casual sex or one night stand.
Whereas making love is termed in long term relationships.
definitely more involved
Nice mytake. Making love comes usually with a lot of trust, emotions, feelings.
Having sex is like wham bam thank you mam.
yes, you are involved on many levels
Great take
thanks for the kind words