The Lure of the Sex You Pay For

A lot of guys I know complain why would they want a girl to dance on them and give them blue balls because they can't actually have sex or why they would ever pay for sex when girls today are much more promiscuous and open to it than ever before. Good question.

The Lure of the Sex You Pay For

POWER

I think the main lure of sex that costs is that you are most assuredly in control (even if you're paying someone to whip you.) It is your fantasy it is what you want your only concern in making this as sexy as you need it to be. You move her where you want her how you want her she does what you say and for the regular guy this is incredibly appealing. It is something you just can't have with a normal girl and yet it is something a lot of guys enjoy even if they don't admit it.

GREAT EQUALIZER

Any guy can have a very hot woman for night. This is a fact. Engaging in the occasional prostitute makes you realize hot one nighters aren't just fantasies only to be enjoyed by the mega famous and successfull. Sex with a woman is right at your fingertips for anyone with the cash. Ironically, it can make you feel like a woman's beauty is less important since beauty can be bought but a personality is priceless.

The Lure of the Sex You Pay For

BEAUTIFUL DARK FANTASY

Guys just have a very unrealistic expectation for their sex lives and with the advent of free porn this is even more true. The logistics of the fantasy are incredibly difficult--a perfect 10, who is open to having sex pretty quickly, who doesn't have any stds, who won't make you use a condom, who won't get pregnant...so much of this screams unrealistic. Yet, such a experience is commonplace for a prostitute to make real.

BUILT TO LAST

Many prostitutes have a fake ass and fake tits. This can be very difficult to get past for many guys and yet no woman you date will ever be built like your porn addiction has led you to expeect and crave--they won't even come close. High class prostitutes are downright gorgeous and average prostitutes are typically pretty girls who got in a bad way. You just won't get that from a regular woman and perhaps you shouldn't want it since craving a body over a person is pretty much the defnition of dehumanzing someone.

The Lure of the Sex You Pay For

I'll finish by saying I don't engage with prostitutes because I feel like the business is riddled in such abuse (of pimps not paying their girls etc.) and I can't help but think about their own personal stories yet I don't look down on guys who do this as simply unable to get laid. I can see why a lot of guys who can get laid plenty with many girls would still fall for the lure of paid sex. As for strippers, I think most people even women don't have that much of an issue but the logic applies the exact same.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • When so many are promiscuous and don't much care who they end up in bed with, so long as they are getting laid, I would say the days of the hooker are numbered. Why pay someone when it's easy enough to just ask a female for sex and get it for free? Though I think the notion of being easy is a nasty one, However, This is the reality with most modern women.

    • good points it's like paying for hd porn I guess

Most Helpful Girl

  • I feel sorry for those girls.. but it is fine for the guys who can't get laid..

    • lol so you don't think married dudes dabble?

    • They do.. I don't get it why

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  • I think there are plenty of girls who are into more things than I am. I don't have many if any outlandish fantasies, but for the guys who do I guess you're right. Maybe you could see it as power, but I can't. I'm too stingy for giving away money.

    I don't understand the great equalizer. I mean I get what you're saying, but I don't understand what that has to do with equality. Pussy is yours for the right price? What does that have to do with equality? That men are easy and girls are too? I knew that without considering prostitutes, but I guess maybe other guys don't.

    I personally find that regular girls are much hotter than most pornstars. Maybe other guys don't feel that way though. Maybe to them pornstars are hotter.

    So I guess what I've come to the conclusion of is that I have a better understanding as to why guys may pay for sex, but I also have a better understanding as to why I'm against doing it myself.

  • Its legal in Europe, it's not as bad as people think.

  • "Many prostitutes have a fake ass and fake tits" Really? None of the ones I have been with had these...

    "High class prostitutes are downright gorgeous" That's true, although sometimes can be very pricy but, it's definitely amazing being with these girls that's of course, not including the fact that they're amazing in the bedroom, all that experience does count for something. :P

  • I have said it before and i'll say it again; I would never date someone who pays for sex. You can't really get any lower than that

    • So a guy raping a woman is not lower than a guy paying a woman for sex? And someone knowingly passing on life threatening STDs is not lower? And someone raping kids is not lower? Wow! you really have a hard on against someone paying for consensual sex.

    • I ment to say you can almost not get any lower than that, my bad

  • Seriously fake asses?

    I've been with about 50 prostitutes (all legal), maybe 10% of those I've sen had fake breasts (though I tend to avoid those who appeared to them, so it might be more than that) but all those I've seen had very real asses - I doubt that's something common to have.

    The lure for me is that I actually get to have sex...

  • Let's be honest here... ALL sex is sex we pay for. In one form or another.