The meaning of slow sex, does it mean he's more into you?

a guy I've been seeing for a while, even though things have been complicated and tense on and off (he was just getting out of another very long term relationship) told me the other night before we had sex that he wanted to have sex with me really slow, does this mean it's more meaningful?
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  • Good for him... thee is a difference between fu*king and making love! Enjoy a guy that wants to take it slow. Hopefully there is a lot of foreplay (slow) also. Going slow as you probably know gives the girl time to get into it as opposed to having the guy just get off quickly.

    How do you like the slow sex? I know I enjoy it.

    • I would like it if it meant something, but I'm not sure. he seemed very cuddly afterward and it did feel more intense than usual. usually it's pretty down and dirty fucking.

    • There is a time for "down and dirty fucking" and wow it is fun...but I like taking it slow most of the time and enjoy the feelings and experience. Do you have sex more than once (in an evening/night) if so is the second or third time any faster/slower?

    • what was significant about this was it was the first time he had ever said he specifically said "I want to fuck you slow" like he really meant it (we say fuck a lot to each other, we don't use it in a derogatory way). I know it has nothing to do with lasting longer either because he always lasts along time.

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  • Slow doesn't always mean passionate...anyone can say "i want us to go slow" or anyone can decide to go slow so they don't cum fast. what you should ask yourself is, was he passionate? did he do it like he cared?

    • well it was the first time he'd ever mentioned going slow, and it felt more intense than before, usually we do pretty much straight up fucking.

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  • no, not necessarly. He could have just wanted to go slow at that time

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  • I prefer not going super fast like most girls want. When I go at my own pace I enjoy sex more. He probably just likes slower sex and knows you don't

  • Sounds like it. It's how I am and I want nice slow love most of the time and want it to last!