I begin to seriously wonder what sort of people are on GAG. There are so many posts about women only wanting bad boys. There are so many posts about men only wanting to use women.

Let me make it simple because these posts are related to one another.
The reality of bad boys
The men who "use" women are the "bad boys" because the women are women who very, very often have little to no self-respect, little to no self-esteem, and little to no standards.
Many such will say that "bad boys" are confident, sexually appealing, etc. Personality-wise they're very often assholes and it's very often obvious early on. Condensing, ignorant, etc.
So why would a decent / respectable woman be attracted to such?
Even in the old 1950s-era movies the women attracted to "bad boys" almost always had some underlying issue. Sneaking out, sneaking cigarettes or booze, etc. Not "good" girls.
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The reality of free prostitution
These are the women who cry they are "used", who are oftentimes attracted to "bad boys", unsurprisingly tramp around in overly revealing outfits. Who will flirt & sleep with almost anyone "good-looking" who comes around giving them a little bit of attention.
They act and dress... cheaply... and in ways, you can call behaviors a sort of free prostitution.
It is why these sorts of women after all cry about equality. To excuse their behaviors.
That men sleep around, etc. Yes, "bad boys" do because there's always some woman who'll sleep with them for the price of a pint of beer and some cheap overused compliment.
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The thing is, is decent men that respectable women want don't sleep around any more than decent women that respectable men want do.
But as the saying goes - birds of a feather flock together. So if you're easy, trampish, sleep around, cheat, unreliable, etc., etc. .. you will only ever attract like people.
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... is why men send "dick pics" because some no-self-respect bimbo slept with them due to a pic & they're continuing until another no-self-respect woman does it again. No other reason.
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The perversion of feminism
Lastly these sorts of "used" women dressed revealing and who'll sleep with any douchebag (aka "bad boy", who target such as these men know it's easy pickings) cry feminism.
When they embody, to a t, a lot of what feminism was against...
Why many modern feminists are not just stupid and tyrannical about inequality but uneducated and ignorant as they've gone full circle & made themselves sexual objects that great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and depending on age their mothers "fought" not to be.
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Feminism was a lot more than just equality. Anyone who has studied it would point, laugh and call people who say it was just about equality the greatest of all idiots in the world.
What when even during colonial America women by general standards were equal to men.
Women could actually own property themselves (they just couldn't own property under their own name if married which in many ways is still the case today) & in some areas, such as in New Jersey or Massachusetts or Maryland between 1670s to 1770s, they could even vote. People should quite honestly really try to educate themselves instead of listening to shit.
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In Middle Eastern countries as an example women who try for feminist ideas are not just going on about equality - only very stupid & very uneducated ignorant people think they are - they are trying to stop the perversion of women seen as nothing but sexual objects, chattel, property that is owned. That isn't equality when westerners whine about equal pay.
Not when as said even in colonial America women by generality could be equal to men.
They owned property themselves, they could even vote, but they were still minimalized, looked down upon, etc. for being women hence aspects of feminism. It wasn't simple equality, it was about been respected..
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And why so many modern-day feminists - particularly the ones as I mentioned above - are a disgrace because it is very hard to respect people who do not even respect themselves.
What Girls & Guys Said
1 2Wow! I opened this expecting to agree, and I... don't!
I can see some of your points, but not all. :D
Nice postbelieve the term "bad boy" is much more personality oriented than him actually being bad.
You explained a lot here, nice mytake :)