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I'm a women in her early 20's and recently I've taken an interest in the 'open fly' paradigm. That is, I find it fascinating to observe an unsuspecting public's reaction to a particular revealing fashion faux pas: the unzipped fly. For the past few months I've intentionally left my zipper wide open in various public places, acted oblivious (as people normally are with that affliction), and quietly taken note of strangers' leering eyes and blatant stares, their cruel smirks and pitying aversion, their secret pictures and whispered comments, and, most of all, their cold indifference to someone else's humiliating predicament. Very few ever muster the courage or decency to tell me. Of course, I do this because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist and it's a cheap thrill; so that's more of a comment than a complaint.
Now I know what you're thinking. 1- I'm a total weirdo. (Fair). And 2- So what? What's the big deal? Who actually notices or cares that much about an open fly? Believe me-- my open fly is painfully noticeable. The first time I did this was in the usual way-- on accident. A while back I came home from a lengthy and very public shopping excursion, only to discover that my fly was open and had likely been like that the entire time. I wear pants that are high-rise and form-fitting, so the tightness of my jeans and length of the zipper made it gape extraordinarily, revealing a comically large area of my panty-clad crotch. At first I was humiliated, being forced to concede that no bystander could have possibly missed such a spectacle. But then I recalled some of the hungry stares I got, and realized what had actually caused them. Since then I've chased that feeling countless times over, and grown an addiction to putting on repeat performances.
I've done this at the mall, at the grocery store (in stores of all types really), in waiting rooms, at the pharmacy getting my covid shot, getting a pedicure (with my crotch at eye-level with the poor pedicurist for christs sake!!), on zoom meetings, at the library, on the subway-- you name it! If a good Samaritan actually bothers to point it out to me, I simply feign embarrassment, zip up, and then find a concealed place to unzip again after they've left the scene. One pair of jeans I wear actually has a faulty zipper that lost its grip, so I just go about my day and let it slide down on its own now. It's a real rush!
I'm kind of obsessed (as I'm sure you realize if you've read up to this point) and, even though I would never dream of confiding this to someone I know, I wish I could. And I definitely wish more people would do this too! It's so fun! I find it oddly arousing to see men with their fly's unzipped now and savor the view whenever I notice. Women too actually! So leave your zipper down and walk around! I guarantee you'll get a kick out of peoples reactions!
What Girls & Guys Said
12 32Sweet, I want to see more, I can't see what's inside :)
I seldom notice open zippers but I find myself looking at butts more then in front. Like I think when I see a woman in front I tend to look at her breasts. But I would imagine that this would be a fun experiment!!
lol. I do not wear clothes with a fly
ur into a bit of public humiliation huh, nice it’s a turn on when the girls pretends not to know…. Like ur skirt is tucked into ur panties or ur skirt got caught on the back of the chair or while sitting ur jeans sag in the back… plus even better if they aren’t sexy panties cuz ur not into it or ur at work/school/laundry day. Not sexy like regular cotton hanes panties ;)
if you had ur fly open like that I’d always be looking if I can see what ur panties. I have a panty fetish.
I always find if funny when a girl tells me my fly is open. I mean, why are looking down there in the first place, lol.
“Why are you looking down there in the first place?” 🤔
@loves2learn Who me? I wasn't, lol.
In our neck of the woods, nature has a rather quick way of letting us know if our zippers are left down in the winter.😳
Accurate. I mean why wouldn’t they be looking? 🤔🤣
@loves2learn Good question, lol.
Lol I wouldn't tell you. If you're gonna leave it down you might as well start giving people more to see. I've modified a few of my jeans so the inner fly flap can fold the other way and reveal even more. Definitely garners more attention but ironically people are less likely to tell you about it. Either the show is just too good to interrupt or it's just too embarrassing to even point out haha
I'm thinking the exhibitionist in you would love wearing shorts skirts and letting people see you panties or more.. Denim Skirts are great for accidental reveals.
I've done zoom without anything on below my waist. Nobody can see it anyway.
I know a chick that has her clit pierced.
She has a thin gold chain attached to her clit ring.. she loves to go swimming with it, says it feels great. Anyway, what I was going to tell you, is that she’s kind of into what you are. She wears short skirts , no undies and lets the gold chain hang below the skirt. She loves people watching it!!!
I guess that you could do the same with a belly ring too. I love walking with her, but I’m a perverted guy...
Guys love looking there an open zip is like a magnet. It makes me laugh to myself.
I imagine most guys wouldn't call it to your attention for fear of being perceived as being a pervert or because they do not want to embarrass you further.
To suggest that one's decision not to point out your open fly is somehow a character flaw is rather self righteous of you, especially since you leave your fly open intentionally.
I suggest you try growing up a bit and being less self centered.
Relax man no offense intended. I don't think any less of people who don't say anything for the record. But unlike you I've actually gone out and collected the data (so to speak) there's a whole host of reasons why people don't tell me. Let me break it down. Some are admittedly in your camp and don't want to embarrass me further. Most probably don't care, especially not enough to involve themselves in an awkward situation. But some very obviously enjoy that I'm embarrassing myself and stand by to relish the show. It's pure and uncomplicated schadenfreude. Like I mentioned in another comment-- I guess one of the draws for me is that I like public humiliation or something. And then there are people who are clearly aroused by the sight and want to savor the view. Both of the latter examples are the one's who think to take pictures. I, of course, stand by at flattering angles and act oblivious. A couple of times people have forgotten to silence their phones (one poor person even forgot to turn their flash off once) but I just pretend I don't notice and let them get away with it lol
Way to make me feel bad... lol. Ok I can see what you mean and understand why you enjoy being a naughty little pervert. I don't do it on purpose but there have been times when at the beach or in a pool when my shorts were wet and clinging to my body and my junk was on full display. I kinda liked that people stared at it. Seems like women under 25 and women in their mid forty's on up do the most bulge watching.
omg, lol, i have to try this!
Do it!!! It takes a bit of courage to step out in the open like that but there's really nothing to it. Once you start to notice all the leering glances and double takes you'll feel the rush. And if some dastardly bystander takes a sneaky picture then you'll really see why its so exciting! Trust me I do this everyday at this point. Very few people ever dare to say anything about it. Just make sure you wear a pair of pants that has a long enough zipper to make it interesting otherwise people won't really take notice anyways. But for real girl just do it lol
Very amusing and kind of bizarre. Reminds me of an ex of mine who liked going out wearing a short skirt and no panties, with her completely shaved vagina. Men would literally trip over their own feet when they saw it.
You know I've heard of this before but never thought I'd have the courage to try it. Since I've started doing this though I think I may actually be able to work up the courage!! I'll start by going commando with my zipper down and testing the waters. Things are a little more contained that way but I'd still be showing off some sensual skin ;)
Who the hell wants to walk around with their fly down. That is just plain weird and stupid in my opinion.
That so goes with a huge panty fetish. Panty lines panty peeks. Whale tailing etc. And fuckn 🔥
I like the way you think very sexy what you do more pics please
This came to mind...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/cVGe5ty1Ad8lol thats very funny and incredibly sexy. I would most definitely be one of the bimbos who takes a picture and stares. Of course I see the exact same behavior when I put on my zipper down shows. It's so fucking hot.
I feel like after diving deep into this thesis for the second time, I'm left with more questions than answers lol. I I somehow find myself equally as turned on by the concept of a girl getting horny from seeing a dick print and someone like you being turned on from doing these little experiments. I have strong voyeur tendencies I guess? 🤷♀️ Curious as to any recent experiments/hypotheses over the past eight months 😆 DM me or I'll try to remember to check back here! 🌹
omg finally. I’m a guy who’s been doing this the past few years, because, like you said, it’s fun! I seem to have some form of embarrassment fetish, so I find there’s just something enjoyable about leaving my zipper down (with the piece of material behind it folded entirely back) and gaped open with my underwear on full display for the public to stare, ogle and laugh at. People can call me weird, I don’t care, the thrill of it is too addictive! It’s difficult to put my finger on what exactly I find enjoyable about it, I kinda just get turned on by it, but who knows. It all started in my last years of college, and since then I’ve gathered a large amount of experiences, with a variety of different reactions from the public, and I relished every single one of them. I always thought I was the only person to do this (on purpose and actually enjoy this), and I searched the internet high and low for stories where people admit to doing these shows intentionally, but couldn’t seem to find anything, but now, at long long last, I came across this. If you have any good stories of you doing this, I’d love to her them, and if you’d be interested in hearing some of mine, I’m more than happy to share them ;)
I call bull shot on this profile and this entire experiment.
All you want is just attention. Bitchies like you do this to wacth people reation if you can do this why people are can't stare this!
I certainly don't mind when people stare lol. That's pretty much the point really. But I get where you're coming from
You do realize that as a woman an open fly means virtually nothing, right?
I mean if I'm wearing yellow polka dot panties it makes for quite a show. You're telling me that if you saw me sitting across the subway aisle inadvertently flashing colorful underware through my gaping fly you wouldn't feel a little titilated? Lol my personal experience says otherwise
No one cares much if a woman's fly is down because there is nothing behind it but a pubis, and maybe polka dot panties, but again, nothing behind those either. Not very titillating, really.