The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This Take isn't weird
Obviously, if I'm doing this myTake, I've got a foot fetish. That means I find female feet attractive and that's all. I know there is a slight stigma attached to fetishes and with the foot fetish being the most common (by all accounts), foot fetishists often seem to be stereotyped as pervy loners. I'll be honest, I'm sure some of us are. But pervy loners are not exclusive to foot fetishists. I have a foot fetish and I am (mostly ) a normal guy. I want to get married and raise a family. I want to meet someone I can speak to and connect with. I find many parts of the female body sexy aside from feet. Feet just happen to be one more thing I do find sexy. I don't do anything criminal or weird and would never violate someone's boundaries for my own gratification; something which many guys without foot fetishes can't say.

Plenty of women seem uncomfortable with the subject so I thought I might do a Take explaining the benefits a man's foot fetish could have for his female partner.

NOTE: This all applies to me and the majority of foot fetishists in my experience. Everyone's sexuality is a little different.

1. Foot rubs

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Yep, this is the main one. Some women LOVE foot rubs but can't get their partners to do it because they're either too lazy or don't like feet. If your boyfriend has a foot fetish, he will jump through hoops to massage your feet. You can come home, pop off your shoes and most guys with a foot fetish will volunteer to give you a massage for the next hour anyway you like. They'll practice and find ways to make you relax and enjoy your massage so they can do it more often. Your feet basically have their own personal masseuse now.

2. Footwear

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

At some point most guys will complain that their girlfriend has too many shoes. Guys with a foot fetish however won't complain. Hell, they'll probably offer to pay for half of them. To them (us), the wide variety of women's shoes make women's feet sexier and draw attention to them in the same way that other forms of clothing (e.g. lingerie) do for other parts of the female body. If you go shoe shopping, he will be interested and it's a personal fantasy of mine to go shoe shopping with a girlfriend and she teases me the whole way through. The wide selection of female footwear will catch his interest as much as yours which provides plenty of opportunities for fun and you have an excuse for buying more shoes.

3. Variety

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

In long term relationships, sex can get boring and it helps to have options available to freshen things up. A foot fetish means there is one more way to experience sexual pleasure. Obviously, it shouldn't be one sided but if you're looking for another way of turning your man on and he has a foot fetish, you basically have 2 'On' switches to his sex drive on the end of your legs, giving you the chance to bring variety to your sex life and explore new things. Who knows? You might like it.

4. Intimacy

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Many men with foot fetishes seem to be secretive with it. Obviously most people don't broadcast the details of their sexuality for the world to hear but even for foot fetishists in relationships, it can be hard to open up about this in case the woman rejects it and believes he is weird. Therefore, if the woman accepts it, it can bring her and her partner much closer. They will have a stronger bond as he will have shared secrets that only she knows of him and have kept it between them. This is guaranteed to make you special in his mind and can lead to a great amount of trust.

5. Pampering!!!

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Women generally love to be pampered. Foot fetishes are an opportunity for that. Not only will you get foot rubs (see 1.), he will love to get/give you pedicures, foot baths or paint your toe nails for you. He could also buy all this for you as a present and the pedicures could be his present too.

6. Attraction

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This means that there is another part of your body that can be attractive to (some) men. Everyone has body parts that they are proud of and some they aren't so proud of. It's natural. I know some women (that I've seen online. I don't really stare at girl's feet irl you'll be glad to hear. ) that look pretty good but have incredibly sexy feet (people disagree on what this means. Some fetishists love toes, some prefer soles. There is a wide variety). That makes them more attractive to me than women who have 'ugly feet' but look great otherwise. It opens up more options as well as meaning there are now more parts of your body that he is attracted to and only you know that. You can tease him in public without anyone else ever knowing by just dangling your foot in his view.

Conclusion

Foot fetishes come in many different forms and, like most forms of human sexuality, they are too unique to just sum up easily. But in my opinion, foot fetishes provide a genuine opportunity to bring a couple closer as it offers unique opportunities such as those I outlined above. It makes that person unique.

I hope that I will be able to explore my fetish in future with an open minded and mature partner and I will make sure that she reaps the benefits.

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  • Lol I never thought of it llike that

    • Hahaha 😂 will you date guy who likes ur feet?

    • I'm not sure, I don't like to be put on a pedestal

  • Good take!

    • Thanks 😊 you like it

  • Fetish of any kind will keep me away.

    If I want massage I would opt for foot massage at a spa

    • Lol But if your boyfriend do for you and like your feet

    • he better behave normally I dont like such attention

    • Hmm you are not the right person t speak on such topics 😏😏😏😏 Thanks for the comment Ms. Kangy

  • Interesting take, thanks for sharing it ;)

    • Hahaha 😂 welcome Thanks for reading

  • Too bad i am ticklish😂 i would probably go all karate on him if he touches my feet

    • Aha! Now I know your weakness! I'll take advantage of it XDXD

    • @TheFlak38 oh no😂😂😂😂

    • See the bright side. You can excercise kicks and punches on me.

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  • Women are hypocritically closed minded. They are all freaked out by this and have no sympathy or understanding. In my experience it's always best to just be quiet about it.

    • How so you can't categorize all women into the same category. There's a term for certain women called "freaks" and they are open minded sexually.

    • @Brah63926 there's a scientific term for that called "extraneous variable". There will always be an exception to everything, but you're supposed to ignore that variable.

    • Still disagree with the fact that most women are narrow minded.

  • lol, My ex girlfriend works with taking care of mentally challenged people in their homes and this one guy she takes care of has a foot fetish. She wears sandals to work and lets him play with her feet and massage her feet.

  • So did you notice very positive remarks about this fetish?

    • Hmm You tell what positive thing you notice

    • Someone even said you could worship her feet and massage them all u want.

  • A lot of women will prefer to go to a nail salon to get a pedicure.

  • Haha my feet probably stink too much for anyone lol

    • Don't worry i will take care of them 😂 😂

  • Of course this is weird man. But whatever..

  • I don't have many shoes, I hate feet, and my feet are extremely ticklish so I don't think I'd enjoy any of this.

    • Courage The_ Cowardly Dog Is your point that whole shoe high heels give bonions? or have the feet been in an accident?

  • This was actually pretty interesting, thanks for sharing

    • What you found interesting?

    • @The_Revolver has expressed interest in a foot relationship

    • I have expressed interest in a foot relationship

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  • So you like pretty feet?

    • Yes 🙃🙃🙃

    • Message me

  • what if the person is attractive but has ugly feets?

    • Hmm good point

  • yeah he won't kiss my lips anymore
    he won't love me but my feet

    • This is wrong if he don't love you n only like ur feet.

  • Are you.. advertising yourself or something? O_e
    Anyway, I've dated a guy with foot-fetish and it was not that weird.

    • Hahaha have he done anything for your feet?

    • Yes, he actually did.

    • Hahaha I know it 😂 ... What special he did for ur feet?

  • My feet stink! Any guy that likes them is sick. LMAO

  • it scares me that someone took the time to write all this, seems like your looking for validation and that means in the back of your mind your trying to convince yourself that it's not weird, when it really is.

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