before :
After :
First one me before getting pregnant , second one after giving birth less than one year ago.
it is enough reason that my husband have less sex drive , and premature ejaculation that lead to not hard erection in many times during sex !
is it me? I see that he took viagra without telling me but i just asked myself is it me the reason because couple month in the begging of our marriage all was ok , but then i get pregnant and it become worse and worse !
What do you think
Having kids can put a lot of pressure on both parents, but stress and pressure is a common reason that men have problems in the bedroom. That has nothing to do with your body - which is perfectly fine and arguably better than most women who recently gave birth - it's simply that he's feeling the weight of responsibility, and may be stressed about fatherhood and about earning money, advancing in his career, etc.
Talk to him about that - you don't need to bring up his sexual performance, just say that you can tell that he's stressed - and see if you can't help him relieve some of that stress somehow. Maybe give him 30 minutes to just relax when he comes home before you talk about the day or ask him to do chores or whatever.
Remember too that men relax and de-stress differently from women. Women like to TALK ABOUT IT, but that does nothing for a man. Instead, men de-stress by DOING NOTHING - being left alone to watch TV, check his email, or even just doze for a bit. You'd be surprised at how much better 30 minutes of alone time can make for him at the end of the work day. It's nothing personal - this is just how men operate.
Looking at the pictures (thank you very much), I would not think it was you, or could even be a possible of it being you.
I cannot speak to his issues, but having child changes a lot of things within a relationship, and issues with sex usually means there is more going on beneath the surface. Physically I would say you are not the problem... but emotionally the relationship might be going through rough spot.
I can say much more than that.. because there are too many other factors... but the pics look great. Thanks.
Looking amazing girl!
Really sounds more like his issue then yours!
Make him go see a doctor and ask the doctor why this is!
He might be tired sexy time? Then try sex first thing! My sister did this it helped so much.
For the premature try condoms? Jerking him earlier for longer sex! For him not enjoying you so nothing to do with your body!
Girl if he won't have you then I'd surely adore you make you moan for mistress with a huge smile on your face !
No. Is he in his 30’s cause that could definitely be the case. Men start getting ED at their 30’s.
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Sounds more like his testosterone levels are just down a bit from the stress of fatherhood. It’s super normal and most couples go through a phase of this when they have a baby.
I deal with this sometimes too and it never has had anything to do with how my partner looks and everything to do with how my sleep, exercise and nutrition have been doing.
Also you’re smoking hot and I can barely tell the difference between the photos.
So how can i help him , so i can return our sex life to the best version of it?
You look better then before having the baby in my opinion
There are kids on this site. Want to be labeled a pedophile?
You look irresistible in both. Even more so in the 2nd!
If he is having problems it must just be something physical with him and nothing with you. Is he seeing a doctor about the issues?
It may not have anything to do with you? Guys can develop ED almost at any age anymore.
You look stunning in both darling.
He’s probably over tired. I don’t see a difference before vs after so it’s prob a stress issue. Time to cuck him ;-)
Sounds like I'd be looking for good divorce attorneys in your area if ya ask me... I don't think anyone would say you weren't attractive
You guys have had a baby. Sex pretty much goes out the window when you have kids.
That's not true, most couples with children are having plenty of sex. Where did you get that idea?
My family, friends etc.
Obviously, there are some physical changes before and after pragnancy but that doesn't change much, ideal thing is you should have a mature and healthy talk with your husband and discuss this matter, communication is the best therapy in any problem in relationship.
P. S. - you look very hot in both of the pics, nice curves ❤️
Not seeing much difference between the two pictures. What are you trying to show us?
I was waiting for the 3rd photo to see you naked 😂😂 are you for real?
What that she expected her body to not change after having a kid? 😂
@butterly248 maybe and i think that she's a troll or just another attention seeker, i don't even see any changes in her body except more nudity 🤣🤣
I agree.
The after you is much sexier and your husband has issues.
Her ass definitely looks better before though
@FYI345 I sure don't think so.
@FYI345 is it enough reason for his sexual issues
You're so fucking sexy in both. I see no reason your looks would change his sexual behavior.
There r other ways to spice up things dear
What does that mean?
If we could connect in private that will ne good.. can't say here for u know...
If you mean to do chane in bed , i do everything , ( blow jobs , foot jobs , different sex positions , massage with candle and music, different lingerie, ask him always what could i change or do better , he always says that everything is great !
I'm not sure why. You pretty much look the same and as a plus you have no stretch marks
That we can see. This maybe edited because after having a baby you will get stretch marks
Oh I see
Plus they have had a baby. Sex pretty much goes out the window when you have kids.
I think you look great :)
There is very little difference in the photos. Whatever is going on, it's not because of how you look.
You look sexy in both. You should be proud of your post pregnancy body
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