The REAL Reason Why Men aren't Having As Much Sex Today

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today


This is my response to another myTake that was featured recently discussing the reasons why men aren't having as much sex today. Though i agree that us millennial men aren't having as much sex nowadays compared to past generations I have to say that I totally disagree with the reasons that other myTake pointed out for the fact they sounded pretty misguided, fallacious and most of all very condescending.

Till then here are the true reasons why me millennial men aren't having as much sex.

We figured out sex is not worth the effort anymore.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Obviously we millennial men have always been exposed to pornography, explicit music, reality shows and many other things that glorify sex too damn much. We’ve learned the hard way that all these things are delusions just created as marketing strategies to consume our lives away. We also learned that these things also come with lots of negative consequences that we simply aren't cucked enough to endure.

We hate being exploited.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

That saying above pretty much explains that no women out there will have sex with you unless you got something to offer her first, this is no different than prostitution logically speaking.

Lets not forget that unlike actual prostitutes most women don't like to get to the point, even with the first transaction they still love playing hard to get and will expect more transactions from you in the future and is when you’re officially broke that they decide to have sex with you, if again they feel like it.

If this isn't exploitation then i don't know what exploitation is.

We are tired of women misguiding us.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Dont know where to start with this one. When is not about free stuff as I mentioned earlier is other things like favors, attention, social status and the list goes on.

Bottom line is we are sick of women not meaning what they say or saying what they mean and this can be very frustrating and energy draining. Especially if you’re only getting one thing out of all of this that most of the time it isn't even worth it.

Women today are more demanding than ever and we refuse to live up to their expectations.
The person who wrote the mytake I’m responding to with this one is a prime example. She wrote how today supposedly men aren't getting sex because we are...

- Weak
- Lack looks
- Too nice
- Too desperate


And many other patronizing remarks as if we are the only one at fault for this. Not only does it seem like most women nowadays have a tough time realizing that it takes two to tango, but for some odd reason they believe it can never be their fault if the dance did not go as well as planned.

Like Wtf? Why must we men stop being ourselves and jump through fire hoops just for

We want to avoid law issues like false rape/assault allegations, paternity frauds, etc. at all cost.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Yes this one is one we millennial males have to put up with for quite a while and it didn't really took #metoo for us to become aware of this one.

Today even if a woman has consent sex with you there is still a good chance that she can change her mind and deny that consent if she feels like fucking up your life afterwards. And don't even get me started with the jumpy agendas women have nowadays. Today you can't even start a conversation with any woman in public without making her feel startled one way or another.

Bottom line is that it's not even worth trying. What is the point of trying something that is gonna get you falsely penalized sooner or later.

We rather spend our time and money on more meaningful things.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Yet another one where I do not know where to start from.

Obviously there is no way you’re gonna get laid for free as I mentioned earlier and the fact that even if happens it might backfire on you makes this subject even more apathetic. Till then there are a lot of other valuable things that will last longer that you can spend your money on.

I myself would rather spend my money on video games since not only are they more fun but they last longer and will always be available for me whenever I’m bored. If for ever reason I feel like seeing tits and ass or want the company of a woman I would either higher an escort or hit the strip clubs. Not only are these women just as available but they will always give me what I pay for and will not make me a #metoo victim afterwards.

We don't want drama and other toxicity in our lives.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

When is not becoming another #metoo victim drama, clingy hoochies and jealous ex are the other things you gotta worry about.

Women admit it themselves that the best place to find women that are DTF are nightclubs and bars. Yet aren't these the women who...

- Get stupid drunk?

- Flock to any random dude?

- Have other jealous dudes hounding her?

- Fuck random dudes and not remember their identity or consent the next day?

And the list goes on

Women today are just terrible performers.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Is clear that sex is the only thing women have to offer nowadays yet they’re not even good at that one thing.

Even during the act they still to put all the fault on the man. Either he had…

- Erectile Dysfunction
- Premature Ejaculation
- Low Stamina
- Performance Anxiety


Yet you never hear women get any blame in this department. Like come on, why must the man do all the work? Where is the harmony? Do they not know they have to play their role too?

I can write a book on how awful most modern women perform in bed.

- They feel too complex to try almost anythings
- Never let you try out your favorite positions on them for whatever reason
- Never encourage you to perform on your terms
- Complain about pain and discomfort too much
- Love faking orgasms


Just to name a few. Bottom line is what the hell is the point of wasting your time and energy on something that not only will you not enjoy putting the effort on but will also get you scorned like its your fault even if it isn't?

Most women nowadays just don't look sex material.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

I’ll admit that we men are totally at fault for this for our thirst and low standards.

Women nowadays just do not put any effort in even trying to look attractive. They rely too much on makeup and other deceiving beauty techniques and never have any fitness routine. Even worst they feel too privileged to condone any of these things and demand that men accept them the way they are.

Is like I always ask myself, why are women allow to have standards yet when we men have them we end up getting crucify.

Conclusion

There you have it folks, the real reasons why we millennial men aren't having as much sex as the previous generations. We got both moral and safety reasons why we should not let our boners show us how we should live our lives.

So if you’re a millennial never feel bad or discourage if you don't have a sex life. Just remember that in today’s society having a sex life can be a life sentence.

Also ignore the women who try to shame and discourage you for your so called inability to get laid. Just remember that you're not the problem and you never know their true intentions. They are probably just trying to shame and play with your ego with the only thing they have to offer.

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  • I don't feel like ranting about Feminist Derangement Syndrome, #metoo or other SJW aberrations today.
    I suggest a simple solution. Recruit a life partner offshore. Before you do that, look at their cultures to see if you are walking into a minefield. You want to search where Western culture has not corrupted women and/or the locals see Western women for what they are; spoiled, entitled, angry, corrupt and ruthless.
    Latin America and the Orient are places to consider. Notable are Philippines, Malaysia, Belize and Guyana because they speak English to varying extents and have Christianity in their cultures.. If you speak Spanish, your choices are wider.

    • hey I'm pretty sure that offshore spouse will become just as miserable as the rest once you bring her in and she realizes how much rights she has.

    • No, you are not. They bring their cultures with them and very often see Western women for what they are.

    • @CasaNorba @Dargil That sounds like a 50/50 shot to me.

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  • It’s cause so many guys are creepy and desperate as fuck why would anyone want to be with a creepy desperate guy just look at the guys on Gag so desperate and so creepy quit giving women compliments it’s so unnecessary and quit putting women on pedestals that’s not how you get women that’s just being desperate and creepy

  • I'm just confused as to why you choose those black women in particular? When majority of us look nothing like that 😂😂

    • and I'm just confused on why you and another person who already answer this can be so damn ignorant and perceive this mytake as racist when I never said this was exclusively to black women or any specific race. seriously, disregard that one fucking picture read this mytake from beginning to end before jumping to a conclusion.

    • All I asked is why did you use those particular pictures of black women I did not say it was racist I was just wondering why you chose such an attractive women to represent bw

    • because according to almost 90% of America the only place to find women who are DTF are nightclubs and at the time I was writing this I couldn't find another meme that pretty much reveals how deceiving this method of getting laid is

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  • A lot of this stuff is half-true. The half that isn't is blinded by inexperience and speculation.

    The true part is that lots of women do behave similarly and I think it's partly biological and sexual dimorphism in the brain.

    But the false part is the part that you don't realize that lots of women will also love you for who you are and break their own standards or double-standards and make exceptions for you because... (idk why) ... but they do.

    So, you can't stay stuck in this mindset.

    The other untrue part is that aside from biological similarities in brain structure in all females (and males) girls are wildly different from each other. And what I mean is you could run across 100 women a day, all under age 30, and the variation is actually crazy. It blows my mind every time. Some girls will make dreamy eyes at you upon first sight, others will give you a snarky face -- even if you're expression is just totally flat minding your own business.

    And they could be the same age, race and at the same fitness level.

    I will say, though, one thing I observe often that drives me crazy is usually they always give a reaction of some kind. Especially the ones that give out the nasty snarky reaction, it's like I didn't ask or care for your opinion in the first place so don't give it to me. That's one thing that bothers me when I'm just out and about doing my thing.

    But like I said it's all over the place.

    • those untrue part are extremely temporary. women will only make an exception for you if they see something they can get out of you. the minute that thing becomes obsolete you will become just another turd to them and you will no longer be that special snowflake

    • I agree. But that's how it works. That's why I work hard to be in shape so I'm always at least a little bit in demand.

      That's why you marry unicorns my man: external-content.duckduckgo.com/.../

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      Follow the 6-month rule. Girls always put on a front in the beginning. But after 90 days and then 6 months she's just genuinely like that -- that's a unicorn. Capture immediately with the master ball of dating, a wedding ring with rocks.

    • I've been in touch with a unicorn for 6 years. She's exactly the same. She's also newly single. I would not hesitate to do anything with her commitment wise if she gave me the chance.

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  • The rabbit hole goes deeper than this. These idiotic women didn't just happen. They were created. So called feminism is really Marxism. There are people behind the scenes manipulating this for financial reasons. Once our traditions were undermined and nihilistic anything goes behavior took over it opened the flood gates for this kind of thing. That's where these demons come from. Women are easy to sway with communist ideas since every woman gets a rich husband, the state. Men are no longer needed to help them raise children they just get welfare. The problem is that with no fathers they raise little commies school shooters. Just take a look at this video, it's a good over view of what's going on.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/MPojltjv4M0
    • 100% spot on!

  • Yep, this is spot on. Sex is fun, but it simply is not worth all the bullshit that women bring along with it. Apparently it is too much to ask that women bring to a relationship what they expect men to bring.

    And I love all the women on here attempting to gaslight... "That's a very long way of trying to make yourself feel better about the fact that no woman wants to have sex with you" ... When they get that hysterical and try to change the topic, we know we are right.

    • thanks brother! But are you aware that the person you are quoting is still a virgin that posts a lot of questions on masturbation here almost daily

    • Have you ever smiled or laughed or drank decaf?

  • Reverse the scenario:

    Try being a girl who's a little overweight. Doesn't party. Doesn't sleep around. Isn't a hoe and doesn't really have much experience with a lot. And then trying to date someone but getting shot down because "every girl is the same."

    There's no win win solutions to this problem all you have to do is find the right person.

    • "all you have to do is find the right person" doing that nowadays is like trying to find out which snakes are venomous and which ones aren't

    • Trust me I know but they're out there I've been able to come across a few good ones and I'm sure you will too We're not all whores

    • "Every girl is the same" At shooting guys down yes! Women wouldn't know a good bloke if they came up and bit them on the ass! The amount of times i see girls with a idiot & yet the nice guys get shit on all the time. I said in a blog "Nice Guys Finish Last" and it is soo true!

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  • Good my take.
    It may be that MGTOW is the way to go. Sadly feminism had ruined the relathionships hetween man and women I would recommend coach red pills videos.

    • tell me about it! but I just love how they always try to make it sound like we are the ones that ruined it

  • I love a piggy back mytake ❤️ your welcome

    • You are no wowgirl 😏

    • glad to see you finally caught up to it. and I know I'm no wowGIRL. if I was I probably would of blocked you after writing this out of fear of you coming after me to disagree with me later on. Its happened to me so I know how it feels though

    • I don't care enough to attack people or if someone disagrees with me. But, tag me next time please so I can see it sooner. Happy holidays.

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  • This is exactly what I expected, some fart whining about women not treating men fairly. That's not the "REAL" reason men aren't having as much sex.

    • Just out of curiosity, what is the real reason? I mean there are many different reasons from both sides of the argument over different situations. What do you think?

    • It's not just men who are having less sex, it's women too. GaG, at times, is more or less a battle ground between the sexes, so this site is unreliable. But, multiple studies have shown that technology is affecting our social skills, and therefore our sex lives.

    • @whitehide dude wtf are you talking about? women nowadays have an even hire upper hand in dating and sex thanks to the technology of today

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  • "That saying above pretty much explains that no women out there will have sex with you unless you got something to offer her first, this is no different than prostitution logically speaking"

    So you're just mad that many guys can get sex without paying and can actually have a family 😂
    Women love shaming you or so we are told, and then you call them 'prostitutes', and anyone who calls you an incel with evidence you'd call them desperate for pussies 😂, so you are like a woman in your view.
    Speaking of evidence, your source of enlightenment is from gentlemen such as 'Zombocom1911(Reddit)', lol. Oh I'm sure they all have great anecdotal evidence and a sobby tale to match. But that's not 'logic'. Anyone who is educated in 'logic' would just laugh at what you write tbh, I understand that there is something magical about that word that makes people feel smart, but if you don't know the difference between inductive and deductive then you should stop using that word. And surely I wouldn't engage in any type of discussion with people who need help differentiating inductive and deductive arguments.

    The only people you can influence are those who are already incel before they log into this site hoping their content can reach any female. You might celebrate that there are more than a few of them. A peaceful celibate who has a GAG account with nothing but negative and bitter things to say about women, lol that's rich. "Logically" one must wonder why such a peaceful person needs to go to a site where many users are female if he just wants to warn the males about the danger of women, or maybe he just hopes to reach the females, like the incels.

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    • "so you're just mad that many guys can get sex without paying and can actually have a family"

      who said i was mad? and you are one naive moron if you think sex is ever free.

      "anyone who calls you an incel with evidence you'd call them desperate for pussies , so you are like a woman in your view."

      first off pulling things out your ass isn't evidence and I'm pretty sure they're TRYING to usr such shaming tactic on me for a reason, so why am i the asshole for calling them thirsty for pussy in return? and its the other way around because after is women who shame you by assuming you're an incel, lame, virgin loser, etc. whenever you speak the bitter about them. hence why you are the real she-man here at the moment.

      "Speaking of evidence, your source of enlightenment is from gentlemen such as 'Zombocom1911(Reddit)'"

      not sure who that is but if he's an incel then its clear that you spend more time rolling with incels than me, ironically.

      "The only people you can influence are those who are already incel before they log into this site hoping their content can reach any female."

      i sure influenced you now that you're here throwing your two cents hoping you're getting pussy points in return.

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  • Wow girl and her misandrist crew is on her way, lol that was awesome though!

    • the truth will always hurt. and if they are offended is because it obviously implies to them

  • Sad but true in most cases, very good mytake.

    • thanks, glad to see that people are waking up for once. unlike the self-righteous blue pillers and feminists that have comment on this so far

  • Are you serious. Please do not speak for myself and other men. Can you be any more disrespectful, clueless, chauvinistic, ? I hardly doubt it.
    Yes you are better off playing video games and never moving out of moms basement. I have so much more to say, but why waste it on a social loser like you.

  • This Take might have some truths in it, but I haven't seen any evidence backing them up in my country.

    • you are one lucky mf!

    • @Dchrls78104 What country would that be?

  • People never changed much. What changed is our environment.

    Even your whole rant revolves around sex and the games people play with it. This is why having people wait for marriage to have sex or being forced to marry whoever you slept with was so stable. Not because it was a good match, but because it shifted the focus away from pleasure and into developing as a team and family.

    It's just much simpler to not even allow this whole broken game where each person selfishly does what's in their best interest in the short term.

    By delaying sexual gratification men are forced to see women as more than a hole and women are forced to compete like men instead of relying on being a slut to get her way.

    People call religion backwards but from this perspective religion is trying to have people move past their basic desires. Women would have a far easier time securing a good man and men wouldn't be such slaves to their dicks.

  • Is there evidence or proof that there is a sex drought going on?

    • according to the person I'm responding to with this take and many other women there is. along with most people from the generations before us. but i think its a good drought

  • The most fucking beautiful piece i've ever written. I mean if we wanted to add we could've mentioned stuff like the cost of house prices now vs then and the cost of living is higher. Also let's say we get past all this and then she cheats on us after £500.00 worth of dates.

    • Read* I wrote pretty much all this in my head.

    • Congratulations on writing that piece. However, don't think to highly of yourself being able to use words and make a few sentences to express a thought.

    • @TahoeHiker Thank you. And no worries I think highly of myself when I express words into thoughts and other men confirm the reliability of the points stated.

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  • All valid reasons and excuses for incels and lames.

    • a valid response for manginas that thirst for pussy points.

    • Whatever. I don't need anyone's validation.

    • I know that is true in my case and I'm sure someday you will genuinely believe the words you typed to apply to you as well.

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  • So fucking real, I needed to hear this after encountering the exact kind of women that wrote the take h are responding to in the comments today. Point out a legitimate issue as you did, response?

    ”youll never get laid with that attitude”

    i fking hate women more every day. I know there are good ones, I’ve met em before, but they r so fking rare and always 30+

    • You have to look further than just your own country. I did that here and guess what? Matches below 90% and no single German woman, not even Dutch (I'm from Germany) did dare to reply, even when she was online. I know there are good Germans out there, maybe I ran out of luck? So I expanded the search radius to whole-world and I found 5 (!) rows with 99% matches all over the world. I talk here about #Okcupid where I have answered 2.8k (!) questions.

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