The REAL reason you don't approach girls for sex is because you know you're shit at it. I'm right, yes?

[purplepoppy]

I've been on GAG a while now and I've heard all the bullshit excuses. Girls only want jerks, girls only want 7ft alphas, girls only want rich guys... In short we want every guy apart from you, right?

Well here's the thing, right now a guy poorer than you is banging a girl. Right now a fat guy is pounding a girl. Right now some burgerflipper is getting head. Right now some nice guy is getting ass.

Why? Because they simply asked for it, confident that they could PERFORM.

I bet the real reason you don't approach girls isn't because your afraid of rejection, it's you're afraid of your own lousy performance being judged.

[Ditto626]

Well to be fair a lot of men and women are afraid to put themselves out there and try and date someone. I've talked with women who I think are absolutely gorgeous and they feel self conscious about something with their bodies when I think they're absolute bombshells.

That being said I can speak for myself as a not so attractive guy. I've had girls back in grade school give me dirty looks simply for talking to them. They looked at me like I had the plague or something. When I was 16 some girl I didn't know felt the need to tell me I looked like an axe murderer. I grew up in a small house, my family didn't have money, and they argued a lot. There were also other problems like my mom losing her job when I was in highschool and my dad got sick so money was tight and I helped them with whatever money I had. I didn't get to have fun in college because it was strictly business. Now I feel like I shouldn't bother because I feel like I'm so far behind everyone financially and I don't feel like an adult. So there's more reasons why we don't approach women. I'm also overweight, short, ugly, and have some health problems. I'm totally a guy women want to have approach them at bars or the store while they're trying to shop.

[ToastyOats]

Your right, 100%. Standards of performance are basically non existent for women in the bedroom. It is easy for them to have a lot of partners too, but their perspective on quality of sex is not just skewed it's also totally alien to masculine desire because of the artificial culture created by mass media.(whole other subject) regardless, the appreciation of sex as a skill should clue you into the necessity for practice. Unless your just selfish, which seems likely. I would think the enlightened woman would choose her man for a myriad of more important qualities and accept that people become better over time. A negative and judgmental woman would make a terrible mother to small children and tend to end up alone in the long run. Your question is the question of of green girl.

[Anonymous]

I have to agree. My boyfriend is broke, overweight, under 6 feet (but near it I admit). Most people are surprised I am with him. They were also shocked because his ex was pretty hot also. Ask girls out, don’t be creepy about it, and be a nice person. I like a man that genuinely listens, cares, and appreciates our relationship. That’s all I need. Maybe some girls are more shallow, but it’s not everyone.

[meggykentums]

I actually agree with this in part. Although I think a lot of guys are too shy and don't want to be viewed as fuckboys. Not just a lack of confidence in their abilities, but a lack of confidence in the way they come off by trying to he confident.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No, the real reason I don't approach women for sex is because I'm not a lesbian or bi-sexual... Lol

[Bright_blue_eyes]

WOW.. you are frustrated with guys? Why you are frustrated with us? Do want us to walk right up to you and ask you if we can fuck? If that worked, I would totally do it. Most girls would be mortified by that. In fact, I'd get slapped or arrested. Or are you suggesting something a little more subtle and saying we should be confident and just approach girls to start a conversation?

I'm not shit at sex, but I'm also not going to walk up to most girls and say wanna fuck? That would be awesome. LOL I'm not sure I could do that without laughing. What a douche bag I would be. Believe me... we love the idea, and of course we wish it were that easy. BUT it's not. Most women would freak out!

As a hot girl you may not know what rejection feels like. It SUCKS! I do want to hear what you suggest we do? For all those girls how like the "let's fuck" idea.. I'm going to fall all of them to Dallas, and we're going to have a huge party.

[Bright_blue_eyes]

Please excuse my typo. I said I'm going to "fall". I'm was trying to say, I'm going to "FLY" all the "Let's fuck" girls to Dallas for a party.

[loves2learn]

I’m sure confidence is a factor. Could also just be their personality.

[weysally]

I like what you wrote

[OlderAndWiser]

I approach girls, when I am not in a relationship, and if a girl rejects me, I go on to the next contestant.

[midnightcavern01]

They could be intimidated by them

[normalice]

Main reason I don't is because I am socially inept in real life. Even If I was 100% confident I could achieve a 5:1 hers:mine orgasm ratio (which im not) i haven't any clue how to start talking to a girl.

[The_Maphio]

Harsh, but quite on point. The amount of replies by dudes is testimony of the nail having been beat on the head. Nothing beats provocation as a way to get replies from people with little restraint. Or deep personal insecurities.

[kkirk4442]

You apparently don't understand what goes on in the mind of a lot of guys.

[Jenny4455]

a lot of the guys responses to this have cracked me up 🤣🤣

[exitseven]

I had a friend that would ask out any girl he thought looked interesting. He used to say that the worst thing that could happen is that they say no. A lot of them said no but he got laid a lot more than I ever did.

[Phoenix98]

Nope it's because it's a waste of my time, I'm just not interested in casual sex and I have more of an interest in making money so my interest is on my job/career and other side business's/projects.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. The reason I don't approach is because I've had better luck by not approaching.

[cth96190]

I did not approach ‘for sex’ because I wanted someone to love and make my wife, not someone to just fuck.
When I was younger the females would have said no, anyway.
They wanted sociopathic abusive shitbags. Then and now, it is the shitbags who make women wet. Decent men need not apply.

[Browneye57]

Could well be. But I thought girls only went for ex-cons. ;)

So, confidence is #3 on the three things they need to get the ladies. Do you know what 1 and 2 are?

[ChiTown33]

Here's one for you right now toots. All 3 of them " losers" are probably getting a STD from that whore that would take her panties off at a free drink.
I have a question for you? Why is it always about sex you women. Is that really all you have to offer! Because if that's so it's incredibly sad!

[KatherineJ]

I don’t approach girls for sex because I’m straight.

[AntiChrist66666]

most girls are not worth my attention. you mildly entertain me right now

[AntiChrist66666]

peons and ants, most of them. quite worthless. you seem like a slightly big ant. you got my attention. but i don't have all day

[Nobodyherebutme]

That's about right kid. It's always insecurity. But that dissipates gradually with age. When you're an old fuck like me you just don't give a shit about rejection anymore. I'll approach anybody now. All they can do is say no. Life will still go on.

[AD240pCharlie]

The reason I don't approach girls is because I'm autistic and don't give a shit about human connection. If I like you then I'm gonna talk to you but odds are I won't since I just want you to leave me to do my own thing.
That's not counting the fact that I'm extremely uncomfortable with physical contact to begin with so unless I've known you for a long time I'm probably not gonna want you anywhere near my dick.