The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

I want to clarify beforehand that I am NOT targeting ALL women or saying they all talk with this mind set, I am simply saying that I have seen TOO MANY posts about this woman saying this.

The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

Calm down woman, you are pissing off a lot of my guy friends you know... -__-

The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

I have seen videos and reaction vids where guys react to hearing women saying it too, but that's just too F*ckin difficult to find, I might try and find it later in the post but for now I will just elaborate on what guys want.

"Guys only want one thing" refers to saying they only want sex, which is utter Bullshit.

I'll start with SEXUALITY

The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

Assuming guys only want one thing when there are SO many different sexualities is actually bullshit, how can you be so blind to believe all guys only want one thing when they all have their own preferences?

I know guys who

-Like guys

-Like girls

-Like girls and guys

-Aren't attracted to either

-Like girls but aren't interested in doing anything sexual with them

-Like guys and girls but aren't interested in doing anything sexual with them

Being primarily sexually, romantically and/or emotionally attracted to men, males, and/or masculinity.

Aromantic

Experiencing little or no romantic attraction to others and/or has a lack of interest in romantic relationships/behaviour.

Asexual

Bicurious

A curiosity toward experiencing attraction to people of the same gender/sex.

Bisexual

A person who experiences attraction to some men and women. This does not have to be equally balanced, they can be attracted to one of the genders more than the other, but if they are attracted to both in any way, they are bisexual.

Gay

Experiencing attraction solely (or primarily) to some members of the same gender.

Heterosexual (Straight)

Being attracted to the opposite gender only.

Pansexual

Sexual, romantic, physical attraction to all sexual identities.

Polyamory

The desire for relationships including multiple people. Ethical, honest, and consensual non-monogamous relationships.

Crediting website:

https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2013/01/a-comprehensive-list-of-lgbtq-term-definitions/

Guys who have tastes ranging from

-Tights/ Leggings/ knee socks

-Short girls

-Tall guys

-Tall girls

-Small chests

-Large chests

-Dominant girls

-Dominant guys

-Submissive girls

-Submissive guys

-Polite girls

-Aggressive girls

-Polite guys

-Aggressive guys

-Girls with certain accents

-Guys with certain accents

-Certain haircuts

-Girls who don't wear makeup

-Shy girls

-Shy guys

-Extrovertal guys

-Extrovertal girls

There are SO MANY more preferences and tastes, with all this evidence it is actually stupid to claim guys only want one thing when they all have different tastes, some having different sexualities all together, therefore meaning they might not even be interested in sex AT ALL.

The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

I know from experiences that the ones who have said this to me in person, are always girls who have had one shit relationship with a guy and now refuse to believe any guy is any different, kind of insulting to the whole gender don't you think?

Like I said at the beginning, I am not targeting all girls, but I have had face to face conversations with over 20 girls who have this ideology and putting them in there place, telling them why they are wrong is just both insulting and troublesome to explain to them when they are so damn stubborn.

The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...

I mean, how would those girls feel if us guys always said

"Oh, girls only want one thing from guys, they only want sex and it's F*cking disgusting"

They would get immediately pissed at us and tell us how rude we are being, so why can't they see why they are in the wrong here?

Okay, I genuinely have to wrap this up, otherwise I am just going to get more aggressive and more verbally abusive, so I am just gonna stop now.

Thanks for reading and take care everyone! <3

~TheSnekHandler (Jack)

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  • I'm sorry that you subscribe to the Victorian idea that sex is something for women to award "deserving " men with. I guess everybody knows that women don't really enjoy sex and consider it a burden.

    Enough bullshit and some truth:
    Women have full body orgasms and enjoy sex more than men. Using sex as a reward is a tool to get you to take them shopping. Men are swine; complain in church if you must. We all don't want just one thing, but getting laid is grouped with blowjobs and handjobs near the top,

    The rumour about guys wanting only one thing, let's talk about that shall we...
  • Men only want one thing. Well, apart from all those other things.. ;)

    • Well played :D

  • I don’t have that ideology

    • That's good :)

  • TLDR... but yeah, they've been brainwashed by the feminine imperative.
    And while sex isn't everything, it sure is far ahead of what's in second place. Same for money.

    A woman isn't much use to man if she doesn't want him sexually. Simple reality.

  • I feel this way because thats what i run into. I've dated guys from different cities, different types ( heavy, skinny, sporty, country boy, emotional) all the same, or they cheated on me. I even went for a guy a tad older, same thing. They initiate sex and leave if they dont get it and if they do they stay for a month or two. My point is, i understand why it bothers you, but its just our pain from the guys that have done us wrong. Its a defense mechanism to try and prepare ourselves if we've been hurt a lot by guys like this.. some of us just lose hope.

    • I get it. We lose hope with women too.

    • Sadly it seems very easy after finding the same type of problem.

  • Someone needs to ask the broad in the first tweet if the fact that guys "literally only want one thing" is disgusting or that the one thing that guys apparently only want is disgusting. There's a certain ambiguity around the word "it" that makes this tweet a tad confusing. I'm inferring she means the first one because otherwise she's calling sex disgusting, assuming sex is the thing she's referring to that all guys apparently only want, which might say something about why guys don't stick around her for very long. *shrugs*

  • If you only want a relationship and not sex you can have that with anyone.

  • I agree with you... People in general have such prejudices and yet we should only be more open minded considering the variety there is...

  • So the OP uses exceptions to make arguments. Let me be the AHOLE and keep it 100
    MOST men and most women can attest do want sex and will leave or cheat if they dont get it in a timely matter that varies from guy to guy. Generally speaking we all want it. It is a dealbreaker not to get it. The fallacy comes in when its listed as THE ONLY THING we want. Thats just not true. We want a friend, companion, accomplice... etc We are fully developed people and have the same type of complex desires as women but focused from a male centric world view which should be expected as we are men.

    • Side note: Why women find our desire for sex disgusting Im not sure since they're fighting for Wah! men empowerment and the right to ride the carousel till their 30's without judgment I guess trying to apply logic and accountability to a wah! man is like trying to slip pants on a fish

  • The problem is that they constantly choose the guys who will hurt them and don't learn from their mistakes

    • Precisely, if they don't want to be hurt, why do they choose all the bad guys and then say all guys are the same, when really they take no interest in the good guys, overlooking them whenever they try to approach them or saying they aren't good enough. Saying they want a "Good guy" yet also saying they want the "Bad boy" type, what the F**k is up with that? -__-

  • Well, guy, the life is far more complicated than that. Women want to see the man doing a lot of courtesy, to see he is really interested in her and he offer any time unconditional and all his support, and are not very interested in sex, because they have a much lower sex drive. There is a very weird type of thinking in women, with them offering almost nothing, but pretending from man to offer all. The men are putting more accent on sex, because men are biologically made for sex, while women are generally far from having the men's sex drive. They very often mistakenly confound some RARE guys that are really just sexual machines, with the rest of the guys that just need more sex than a woman, but are really good guys and can support a very nice relation. For a person not having a high sex drive the need for sex is very bad perceived, more like an animal need. You'll get a very bad image in her eyes. The solution is in general to find out a girl with a higher sex drive, that generally understand men better. This is a painful search. Unfortunately, the most of the women don't understand that men are different, and just because they need more sex, doesn't MEAN they are not having anything else in mind or feelings in heart. Generally men are more interested in sex at the beginning, because initially exists the physical attraction, and if the girl is fine, this is transforming in a beautiful relation. By contrary, some women will do more sex later and some of them will NOT do more sex ever, not even later. The main problem is that women are never doing an effort to understand men. The way the girls are educated and the cultural and social inheritance is weighing heavily in all this real life drama. I rarely meet women trying to think and understand men, because our social culture is saying they just need to wait for the right man while is the duty of the man to complain to the woman needs. This is a very asymmetrical and very stupid expectation in a relation. More than that women are all their life taught that is shameful to make any effort or change for a guy, and they consider is their pride at stake. And above all, the communication between the men and women is very thin and bad. We need to change 10,000 years of women-men relation to have a better life, but I don't think will happen in the next 1000 years. Sorry.

  • Don't get me wrong sex is still a beautiful thing when shared by the right 2 people but seeing you genuinely happy and smiling just because beats out an orgasm 3 outta ,5 times.

  • Good points and people can be short sighted regardless of gender. Ty!

    • Good point! Also, different cultures have different perceptions.

  • This sounds like it was written by a "nice guy" lol

    • A millennial trying to use trendy phrases but failing miserably

    • @Syrian_survivor the "nice guy" phrase has been used ever since I've been using the internet. It's not trendy. It's been used so often by sexually frustrated guys that they inadvertently created the title people use to describe them. If anyone has failed here it has to be any guy dumb enough to vent on some website about girls because he can't get a girl to like him.

    • Who said this guy is complaining that girls don't like him?

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  • I usually encounter women who want sex by the second or third date, as if I am an slut or something. No thanks. They have to be real if they want to be with me.

    • Too right mate, you'll find that if the guy wants it he's "Disgusting" and often rejected, but if the woman wants it soon and the guy rejects her, he's "An inconsiderate asshole who doesn't appreciate the gift he has been given" so either way, apparently the guy is to blame which is dumb -__-

  • Those females that say that are only trying to cover up something about themselves.

  • My step-mom told me this about my boyfriend when she hasn't even met him yet and it really pissed me off. I have more of a libido than he does, and were both just sappy romantics who care more about emotion than sex.

  • I want sex im in no position financially to be in a serious relationship and im too young to be committed when I wanna go to so many places lmao.

    • Then why not save that sex for when you find the right person?

    • Been waiting for a while for the right girl tbh she hasn't turned up if I keep waiting my youth will be gone so i'm here like do I wait or just go for it? And well honestly life is too short to wait you know? I mean when your there in a few years you'll know its harder to resist and stuff.

  • STOP ALL THIS BS MEN JUST WANT SEX, Love is a secondary thing. That is how it is, if you had no libo would you get married? NO !!! Men not lusting after women = no marriage. No children WOW peace and quiet, lot more money for YOURSELF.

  • I'm actually really sick of these Puritans who act like sex is some kind of evil thing.

    The hippies were a lot cooler than we are now.

    • You are certainly thinking well, I see no real issue with sex, as long as it is with people who actually love you, what I mean is: INCORRECT 1) Woman loves man but man only wants sex and then leaves, hurting the woman 2) Man loves woman but woman only wants sex and leaves, hurting the man CORRECT 3) Man loves woman and woman loves man and have sex and stay together, both happy CONTROVERSIAL 4) Man and woman are both aware that the sex is only recreational with no further intent, neither are hurt.

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