The sex wasn’t great - should I tell him?

Been seeing a guy and we have now slept together. He was in a rush and had to leave the house in 10 mins but we went for it anyway. He said he came but I didn’t and I didn’t really think it was that good. It’s only a casual no strings attached but I feel like he’s potential to be better but because he didn’t have much time that maybe why I didn’t enjoy it? Should I tell him that my true thoughts? Should I ask his thoughts on it? Do we try again?
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  • Yes try again, but don't point out that it was "bad", instead just focus on the next time by telling him what you like and want and ask him his likes and dislikes. That's what makes it better by getting to know each other. But don't start by putting a negative on it you know? Don't even mention the first time (unless he brings it up), just focus on the new times and making them better.

    • If you mention anything about it, just that 10 mins wasn't nearly long enough and next time it needs to be longer, when you can both relax.

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  • You can just tell him. You aren't being unreasonable and you don't have to be rude or unpleasant when you bring this up with him. Maybe make it a little bit sexy by saying he owes you a leg-shaking orgasm

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  • Maybe just make sure you have a bit more time together next time and if it’s still rushed and disappointing you could talk about it with him.

  • Tell him you are disappointed that you didn't cum and want to give him another chance

    • just curious why do all your pic questions on gag get removed?

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  • Don’t tell him. Just chalk it up to a bad experience. Next time make sure you have an adequate block of time and focus on foreplay.

  • I think you should at least give him a chance to prove himself spending more time on it.

  • No have sex when you guys are not in a rush then if its shit say somthing

  • This level of confusion at your age is astounding.
    Try it again if YOU want. Dear lord.

  • Why are you concerned about being honest to a guy, but not concerned about having his sperm in you like its as casual as a handshake? That seems backwards as fuck tbh.

  • No, not yet. Give him a chance and see how it goes.

    • What if he thought the same? How do I know what’s what

    • Give it some time and then see how you feel. If nothing gets better, than talk about it.

  • Ten minutes is not long enough to give any woman satisfaction.
    Try an hour unless he was running home to his wife.

  • Of you didn't like sex with him. Dont try again

    • I just want to see if it does get better

    • I dont think so.

    • What do you know. He was having performance issues. So ofcourse he was shit that time

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  • actually you should kill him

  • yes be honest!

  • Well. its kinda hard for anyone to get pleasure when you have erectile dysfunction


    Yeah. Try it again in like. A year when he can at least get it up.
    Then he will fucking blow your mind.

    • Trust. Me. That little performance wasn't shit that he can do. You don't know his full potential

    • There’s no erectile dysfunction. Are you ok?

    • Ask him that again.

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  • What did you expect would happen in a 10 minute time frame?