The story about my first blowjob, what now?

[Anonymous]

So after a long research I felt like I was ready to give him oral sex. At this point we are at my place, he's sitting on my couch and I'm on my knees between his legs. He's guiding me and once I understand what he likes I'm in charge. I'm sucking him the best way I know, no teeth, almost no hands, a little bit of eye contact (was weird as fuck). And all of the sudden there's something else on my mouth. I step back and look at it, he came without even telling me that he was about to come! I try to ignore and he tells me to keep sucking, but he keeps coming. Now I stop cause I feel like it's enough and he smiles at me. My head is all over, I see his lips moving but can't hear anything and I throw up. Right there. I run to the bathroom at this point with my hands covering my mouth. I get myself together and got back to him, I told him sorry for what just happened and he says it's okay. He even helped me cleaning up the mess I made! He stayed the night, cooked me dinner and ended up giving me oral sex. Next morning when he left the thought that I throw up giving my first blowjob hits me like a train from my back. What will he think about me? Will he ever want to be with me again?

[tinyclit]

That certainly is unusual. I can't think of any reason to throw up just because he cummed in your mouth. Now if he was shoving his penis down your throat and choking you, then yeah, you'd probably throw up. That is very understandable. I think guys who like to do that are very strange and to be avoided. But at the very least next time you should be expecting him to cum. I mean heck you should want him to cum. That's the whole point of the blow job. Always swallow all the cum, then lick and suck his penis squeaky clean. It's a blast. Guy's cocks are designed to be sucked and licked.

[Asker]

I just felt dizzy when I finished him off

[tinyclit]

Maybe not enough oxygen. Break things up, don't do too much of any one thing for too long. Alternate sucking, licking and stroking. Every few minutes hand his cock over to him to stroke for awhile, then back to you. For finishing try the classic cum swallow. That's where you put your head back, beg for cum, open your mouth extremely wide, have him stroke his cock and cum into your mouth, then you swallow his cum, then lick and suck his cock clean. We do that every time here and it's great. My husband cums into my mouth, watches me enjoy swallowing his cum, then he has his orgasm while I'm enjoying sucking and licking his cock clean. For him cumming and orgasming are separate and watching me enjoy swallowing his cum is what causes his orgasm. The more I enjoy it, the stronger his orgasm. I love it!

[TazWax]

That is so embarrassing I would die. But it really doesn't seem like he was affected by it much.

[Asker]

I'm still dying tho! I don't know if he was faking it or what

[TazWax]

But he stayed after it happened. Most people after they get vomited on they don't just stay near that person.

[ConfusedByLife]

Don't be so hard on yourself.

It would have been polite for him to warn you so you would be ready for it. Next time you won't likely have such a severe surprised reaction. Just swallow it quickly.

He sounds like a considerate guy; feel free to talk about it with him and tell him you appreciated his help, and next time ask him to warn you when he is close.

Good for you for working hard to please him, and it sounds like you guys will do fine together.

[Asker]

Thank you for your words. Do you think I should bring up what happened again? Or leave it like that?

[ConfusedByLife]

A quick chat to clear the air would probably be good. He may be worried that you're freaked out about it and thus anxious about the situation. Just talk it through and set some expectations for next time, ways you can work together to be more comfortable. Oh, and have a bucket nearby next time, just in case :-)

[brewersfan01]

hahaha hularious story. sorry that happened to ya. He propably will want to be with you again, i dont see why he wouldn't. at least u didn't puke actually on his dick (my buddies case), that would pretty much end it.

[Asker]

It was pretty fucked up, it hurts my heart to even think about that, I guess I'm the one who doesn't want to be with him for a while since I'm that embarrassed

[genericname85]

it´s ok dude xD it´s your first time. nobody can blame you for not doing it perfectly on your first time :P also he came so job well done ^^

[Asker]

now that you say, he came!

[genericname85]

well you said that xD i didn´t know.

[Asker]

Oh no he did, but I was focusing so much on the vomit thing that I didn't even realized it lmao

[PowerAndGlory]

I would. First times are always awkward.