The Time I Almost Got Raped

The time I almost got raped

It was a a typical summer night and I was just relaxing at home when I got a message from this guy. This guy was someone I had shaken hands with before months earlier, he was a friend of my friend's boyfriend. The message said "Mary (my friend) wants you to come over and rape me".

I found the message very distasteful, but I did respond "ok?" He continued messaging me and maybe after 10 mins my friend, Mary, sent me a message too and asked me to join her, her boyfriend, the boyfriends friend (the guy Who messaged me, lets call him Jim), and a mutual girlfriend of us. Normally I always say no to late night invitations, but I felt spontaneous and agreed to come.

Our mutual friend, named Sophie, and I went over to Mary's boyfriend house where we were greeted with alcohol and just friendly small talk. Neither Sophie nor I was in the mood to drink too much and settled for a beer and a shot each. While we were just hanging out Mary started acting really strange and Sophie and I just assumed she was drunk. She started to undress, and even told Sophie to go down on her several times. She even got Sophie to shave her down there. Again, I just assumed she was really wasted, it wouldn't be the first time she'd been really drunk. Notice, he barely said anything to me the whole night, something I found weird since he seemed so interested in talking to me just a few hours earlier.

The Time I Almost Got Raped

After an hour or two all of us went over to Jim's friend, Daniel, for some after drinks. To my surprise Daniel was a 40 year old man, but he seemed sweet even though his friend was not so much. Mary was just acting weird the whole night besides that everything seemed ok. We got offered wine, and we had the whole glass. Then we got offered the second glass, but like I mentioned sophie nor I was into drinking that night. But Jim would say "it has drugs in it" jokingly and I didn't give it that much thought, even though he said it like 5 times.

Sophie and I got tired and bored after an hour and decided to leave, asking if Mary was ok and left. She was with her boyfriend so we assumed she was going to be ok.

A week later Mary told me something that didn't only disgust me, but angered me. I learned that the reason she was acting so weird was because she was drugged by Jim. Sophie and I were the original target and Jim's plan was to drug us the second we stepped into the door. But Mary's boyfriend told him it was "too extreme" so Jim decided to wait aka the wine. So when he said "why won't you have a sip, it has drugs in it" he meant it, it had date rape drugs in it. And after we had left Daniels house Daniel raped Mary. Her boyfriend knew this was going on and did NOTHING.

I Just couldn't believe it; how can someone have so little respect for women like that? And I can't get over how fucking close Sophie and I was to getting raped by this creepy and disgusting low life of a man.

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  • AAAaaaand that's why you listen to your gut, if something doesn't feel right (like a creepy text message from basically a stranger), proceed with caution. Alcohol is a recipe for disaster in those kinds of situations, whether or not it's got drugs in it too.
    I'm glad to hear you made it through that situation unharmed, but let it be a learning experience for you. The world is full of really awesome people, but there ARE a disturbingly high number of really nasty people out there as well, and they aren't always the ones that appear creepy.

    Be careful!