Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
So. Why the fat shaming, you ladies shout? Why can't we men accept that all women are beautiful? The answers lie here. And you will be offended, so if you're a person who can't stand being offended online, please click back right away. Consider this GIF a nice intermittent to give you time to click back and avert thy eyes. Oh and note: this mytake covers white men. So if you date black men or hispanic men, feel free to click away and enjoy your evening.
So. In not particular order.
1. Yes, the vast majority of men prefer a healthy, fit woman. No, we don't require Victoria's Secret models to be happy.
Yes, I know that was cruel. However, you need to briefly have a splash of how men view things. See, we prefer a slim figure. If you don't believe me, see a study of nearly 60,000 men from various continents. http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2015/03/26/taylor-swift-body-preferred-over-kim-kardashians-evolutionary-study-finds.html
In other words, the real truth? Women might scream with joy at how "gorgeous" Ashley Graham is...
Buuuuttt the reality is most fit men who are not desperately thirsty or drunk would react like this if she approached them at the beach---
See, go on tinder, and that is why soooo many overweight girls have pictures of themselves slim... and then a disclaimer of how they are in fact chubby. And yes, I know there are fat men too. Fat men are disgusting. However, this is about why chubby girls have such a hard time getting and keeping men worth having around.
2. Market Share
Allow me to explain. See, the vast majority of men prefer fit, healthy women over overweight or obese. But now the obesity rate is creeping up and up, but male desires and preferences haven't changed. Meaning, more men competing for a smaller and smaller percent of women. Currently, 63% of White Americans are overweight or obese, a pretty bad number. http://www.kff.org/other/state-indicator/adult-overweightobesity-rate-by-re/?currentTimeframe=0&sortModel=%7B%22colId%22:%22Location%22,%22sort%22:%22asc%22%7D
Now, the 20 something girl crowd isn't that bad, but it's bad. So this results in:
1. More and more men hitting on the fit women, which makes them more confidant and more demanding--they might have been a 6 or 7 in a room of healthy weight women, but compared to how many obese women there are, they become 7 or an 8.
2. More men by necessity, must either date fat women or be celibate, or perhaps do the nerd thing and try to get a Filipino mail order bride if they want to avoid a woman with a big beer gut.
3. Obese wives later on--when a girl is in the prime of her life and overweight/obese, that typically turns into obesity later on, as metabolism drops, exercise drops, and eating habits continue. You know why "erectile dysfunction" is such a real thing? Because for us men, being intimate with an unattractive woman is like playing pool with rope. Ain't happening unless you use chemicals to change things.
And finally...
Every fat girl is a slim girl who could have been.
Why is this important? Because this is the difference. On the left is a girl that decent quality men ignore in real life, swipe left on tinder and bumble, delete their messages on okcupid. Women who end up miserable watching tv alone at home and have lonely lives. Some low quality men choke it up and date them. Many would rather watch Game of Thrones, porn, and play videogames than date a landwhale.
On the right, is a girl decent quality men look at and say, "risks of marriage? working hard to impress? worth it!" That's the girl decent quality men would pull a handgun to protect, who look at and suddenly decide, yes, having kids is a possibility of she wants it. It's like comparing how men value a 25 year old rusty pickup truck vs a Dodge Challenger. It literally inspires us to greatness, and makes us think that giving you a happy life is very very high on our list of priorities.
Or let me put it in a way you understand, ladies. Imagine if every nerd, every fat guy in class, every creepy loser you know, suddenly could become Tanning Chatum, Taylor Lautner, Christian Grey, or Robert Pattinson. Imagine it. Imagine every guy who looks like this:
Could end up looking like
THAT is literally the male version of the "before and after" pic I posted above. But every girl who lets herself go and turns into the blob is literally akin to taking a beautiful gem and turning it into gravel.
And now you know, why the vast majority of white guys strongly dislike fat/obese women.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1A obese man or woman is more susceptible to dozens of diseases associated with obesity. Some of those shorten life expectancy and quality and some of those diseases are: Type 2 Diabetes, Heat Disease, Cardic Aresst, Stroke, Knee and Back damage, Etc.
A person wants a mate who has solid health and body, and a person who can live and experience a well lived life by their side. Be there for their kids and grand kids.
Being overweight or obese also reveals characteristics or lack there of. Some people smoke, drink, or eat for relief. However eating is the most obvisous addiction as it reveals itself on the putter body. It shows lack of self control and other possible issues. Mental issues being the forefront for many comfort eaters be lack of confidence, hurts, emotional pain, self hate, depression, worry, doubt, anxiety, social anxiety, etc. These are all things that should be treated and handled. I am sorry for whomeever has these as I too have had depression but eating isn't the solution.
The main goal for anyone who uses drugs, alcohol, food, any substance for the matter for relief is to be self reliant. Have no crutches when things get bad. The goal should be to avoid using the devices that relieve our stress because once there gone we plumit to a possibly even bigger depression. Also having a crutch is not a good behavior. The goal should be to handle stresses and issues with a family or friend in a healthy and constructive way besides pushing the issues under the rug that overeating and other addictions do.
Men and women want a mate who is taking initiative of their life, not pushing issues under the rug.
There isn't hate, if anything it is a outcry for people to be healthy and pursue the best versions of them leaves besides telling people being fat is okay. Yes a little overweight maybe 30 pounds max is doable however obese is a health risk. There is many issues associated with being obese and for good reason. Yes very few are well off being obese however a healthy lifestyle is always better.
The fat acceptance movement is the most dumbest, idiotic thing to have ever plagued the Western world. It's only the entitled, lazy slobs who would come up something like this. It's also our society's fault to allow these fools into the mainstream. I say, we boycott any fashion magazine, retailer featuring lazy slobs. We should not accept obesity.
Why isn't there more women like you
@MackFreeze Because too many Western women have bought into the PC culture and feminism.
Are you in America or not?
@MackFreeze I am. I live in Washington state
Well I live in California so no wonder I don't know people like you
Let the truth be told... if someone is comfortable in their own skin so be it 😎