You may have heard the (all too common and terrible) advice that you should spell the “ABCs” out while going down on a woman to make sure you’re hitting the right spots. If you’ve done that, please stop now — it does. not. work.

Instead of engaging in a spelling bee during oral sex, take some advice from me — a seasoned lesbian with over two decades of experience both receiving and giving oral sex.
Going down on a woman can feel like you have a new superpower when she’s all blissed out after you’ve rocked her world. But if you don’t feel confident you can please her, you may spoil what should otherwise be a fun and sexy experience for both of you. The oral sex tips below are some of the most fail-proof techniques I’ve come to love for both having and giving mind-blowing orgasms.
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