Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
This shouldn't take too long.
I see a lot of posts here on GaG,
usually from females, that ask advice on whether a particular guy who talked to them or has texted them is trying or was trying to "trick" them into sex. It's usually accompanied by a lengthy (too lengthy, often) explanation of the surrounding affairs that lead them to being all twitterpated and cornfuzzled about why he would ask them so many times for sex when they're not so clear on the idea of whether they want it with him.
...*facepalm*
1) Guys ask for sex because they want it. That's like asking why you'd ask for a chocolate bar-- because you want it. I can't believe anyone could even be confused about that. "But, but why does he KEEP asking?" Um... because he wants it and he's hoping you'll change your mind. Duh.
2) People. Huddle up here-- There is no such thing as someone "tricking" you into sex. Being tricked is what happens when somebody Rick Rolls you online or sticks a soda into your six-pack of beer and you didn't notice or says they washed your car when they didn't. Getting a dick inside you is not something that happens as a result of "tricking"-- that happens because you wanted it to happen. And if you DIDN'T want it to happen, that's called sexual assault. Were you sexually assaulted? No? Then what are you talking about.
I'm amazed this needs to be said--
Take responsibility for your actions. It's your body and you choose what to do with it. If you want to have sex with someone, and they want to too, then do it. If you don't, then don't. Holy bloody fucking hell this is simple.
Getting mad after the fact that you didn't get everything emotionally that you wanted out of the other person, guy or girl, does. not. mean. that you were tricked in any way.
"But- but @Anon-ymous1! What if they TELL LIESSSSSS? ? ? ?!1 !!!! ? Like that they would be with me forever, or move in with me, or never even glance at another member of the opposite sex again except me, or buy me a pony? And then they didn't do that thing afterward? So that must mean they tricked me right?"
*pinches bridge of nose and squints in obvious mental discomfort*
If you are only having sex with someone because you think a checklist of conditions on your mental clipboard has been met ahead of time, then you didn't actually want to *have sex* in the first place... what you actually wanted was all that other stuff. So, again, refer back to ^ that part up there-- if you want to have sex, then do. If you don't, don't. It's your body, and you choose what to do with it. Acting like a little kid by hemming and hawing about being "tricked" is absurd. It's ridiculous. It makes you look crazy. Note: SOMEtimes, guys do this too, and the situation is no different; they look equally ridiculous. It simply seems that girls talk about this far more.
If someone tells you things ahead of time that will happen as a result of having sex with them, and those things don't end up happening later, THEN DON'T HAVE SEX WITH THEM AGAIN AND BLOCK THEIR FUCKING NUMBER if that's what you want to do. They may be a crummy person in your mind, but you weren't "tricked," because you still willingly chose to have sex with them. You're actually just patronizing yourself if that's what you think happened.
~ Thanks for your cooperation. Hugs and kisses.
What Girls & Guys Said
25 31"Ohhh no, you tricked my pants off how weird."
amen brother!
the thing is that a lot of women expect more than just sex out of you almost 100% of the times they offer it. so if they gave you sex and felt like you didn't give them when they expected out of you then they feel "used."
so with that said when they say you trick them into sex they are basically saying you tricked them into offering them what they expected from having sex with you
For girls maybe there is
What do you mean
Can't give away my secrets I've tricked a guy before
How's that. And no, he wanted to do it or he wouldn't have done it.
Getting the girl drunk , that's the work of a skunk.
Only if she unconscious or unresponsive. If she just has lowered inhibitions it is still on her. Do we excuse people who drive over pedestrians because they were driving drunk at the time?
@zagor Do you excuse people who drive over pedestrians because the pedestrians are drunk?
Drink driving is illegal blow over 0.05 in my country and you’re in for a bad time.
Well... no, but that's rather beside the point. A pedestrian is automatically considered less liable in any accident until proven otherwise simply because they're not the one in the car. Also, we're not exactly talking about driving here.
Agreed. You’re completely right. Good take.
I think this tends to happen for a few reasons. Women do tend to have a mental check list of what they want in return for the sex. They’re looking for security most often which tends to come in the form of an exclusive and committed relationship and that leads to other forms of security. If they let you have sex with them and it turns out they don’t get what they wanted then they’re all miffed. So I think they view sex almost like currency in many cases to purchase what they want and are just so pissed at giving away that money for a hand full of magic beans. Understandable, but there’s not much trickery involved.
I’m sure many of us have heard stories for guys having porno quality sex while dating, but once they said “I do” the drought began immediately.
Well-said.
Thank you.
In my particular case im a V (this is another story anyway) I am attracted to a guy I went out in 2 dates (we never had intimacy though in those 2 dates because the sex subject never came to our attention in those 2 dates, we jsut had teh dates had conversations and eat) at the end of those 2 dates we end up making out because we both wanted he hugged me tight and that felt good. He knows Im attracted to him cause I told him he had that je ne sai quai. He is 45 im 47. He always had wanted to have sex with me sine the 2nd date anyway but I told him no (for soem reasons I won't discuss here) and he understood but the idea of having sex with me did not go away for him. So far we haven't had sex because 1
. The last time we saw in eprson was back in March and ever sicne we haven't not seen each other again, in dates or in any other moment and we stopped contacting each other by text. We are not ina relationship or a gf/bf or a couple we are just friends. I beleive he got bothered with me because in April I could not go out with him for sex so he simply lost interest. So I thinkhe only wants me for sex anyway even if know each other from 3 years, my family knows him and he is not a complete stranger that even my brother knows him.
Nice my take!
Nah, it's just some dumb bitches and sadly a phenomenon common in the west.
You can't just give consent and take it back. It doesn't work that way and if you were "tricked and manipulated into having sex" that is not a reasonable as most of the time these woman who are alleging rape are fully aware they gave consent and know what they are getting and just because other needs were not met. It's fucking retarded.
No Judiciary system is going to teach common sense or prevent anyone from being gullible especially a grown ass woman.
As an adult YOU are responsible with what you do with your body so don't go around playing the victim and magically regret it if things don't turn out your way.
I dont wanna read all of that.
Im not too sure how I feel about it though.
It's not exactly long.
i agree with you
in todays world of no down side sex (condoms prevent pregncy and STDs) loosen up you did not not have a dick fall in you you had fun.
😂😂😂😂
Well put.
But what you know, complaining, insecurity, blaming is all that some girls are good at. They want unnecessary support, want other people to believe what she thinks is true! She wants to hear it from others about whats in her mind.
Nicely put
But I never had sex lol
I guess it is always like that
They get "fooled" and blame others for it
Because people don't value this act anymore , having sex is the peak of intimacy , so make it harder to do this and take time before doing it.
You can trick somebody into anything. That's why it's called tricking. You tricked me into reading this post.
Exactly
You can trick people into thinking there will be a relationship, but not into having sex.
I suppose.
👍👍. Well said.
Agreed 100%.
Good take.
Thanks.
Girls do this because they want to be both a slut and a virgin/good girl. YOU can't BE BOTH! Some stupid retard men believe this though... oh well she may have had sex with 10 guys but 9 tricked her so i only count it is one. Boy do i got a good girl on my hands. What a fucking cuck! This is the guy who his girl cheats on him by "accident" and he stays because it wasn't on purpose. Even if you can get away with some bad behavior do you really even want to date a man this dumb and pussified? Damn.
NICE.