"There's no such thing as a bad blowjob" true or false?

[Anonymous]

I'm thinking about giving my boyfriend his first blowjob, and it will be the first one I've given too. I've heard there's no such thing as a bad blow job is this true? What are the do's and don'ts? Do I literally just go straight down there or do I have to build up to it? I'm a bit nervous about what will happen.. Do guys prefer it if you swallow it or they finish somewhere else? And the taste kind of scares me what if it makes me heave or something haha. How long do guys usually last for? Will I be down there a few minutes or a good half hour?

[i1T2daty]

There can be good and better blow jobs. Don't worry about deep-throating it, that's a parlor trick. Stay alert to his reactions. He will let you know, either subtly or otherwise, what he is particularly enjoying.

The head has much more sensation than the shaft so when you want to amp it up, focus on the head. When you want to tone it down, focus on the shaft. Decide which of these you want to do ahead of time 1) swallow it 2) let him come in your mouth but discreetly spit it out 3) let him come on you and where 4) let him come on himself. Whichever it is, don't act like it totally grosses you out as that can ruin it. You don't need to use your mouth only. Using your hands can actually be a bit more of a turn on since you can vary the pressure and the target. Using your mouth to lubricate him and your hand to stroke him is a nice combo, twist your hand around the head of his cock and he'll groan in ecstasy.

Most of all, make sure he gives you head as well as you giving him head.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

There are two types of bad blowjobs in my opinion. The first is the painful type because it hurts and it's not a good pain most of the time from teeth or other elements such as sucking too hard or bending it too much. The second is the boring type because it misses all the spots. This can be caused by a mismatch of size where the penis is too big and the mouth simply too small or through anatomical or methodological ignorance or innocence meaning you simply don't know where to go, what to do, or understand how it's done and to what degree.

While anticipation is a good idea when you know what you're doing I recommend not building up to it for very long since it's likely that you don't and when anticipation fails disappointment sets in. You want the mood to be exciting and exploratory rather than sexy and determined. As for how it ends you can deal with that on the fly.

[Troian]

There can be bad blow jobs. It can happen, if if feels too much teeth it might hurt him.
Take your time, begin slowly.
Try to notice what make him react the most and you should be find. Some men like when you use a hand, when you lick first. Just don't rush things.

About the swallowing? I know I do it but it's up to you. Don't force yourself :) Some men can last five minutes but some can last 15 minutes, so don't make crazy movement from the start or you'll be tired and your jaw could hurt.

[linds34]

I'm sure the first one won't be the best one you ever give, but I've never heard any talk of a bad blow job! I'm sure he'll like the fact that this is your first time. How long it lasts depends on the guy, could be anywhere from 2 to 20 minutes. And guys like if you swallow. I swallow and it doesn't bother me, but you don't have to of course.

[easyzombie]

If its his first time it will probably take him really short amount of time to go.. Yeah you can slowly build up and go to the bottom I think it feels better for them. Use your tongue and lips a lot, make sure it really wet :) Use your hands as well and look a him while giving him a blowjob guys like it :)

[Jonny_]

Blowjobs aren't really my thing, I don't have the greatest sensitivity so I don't really feel much from it on most occasions. In saying that i've had one or two bad ones which were bad because she was too rough or it involved teeth... I personally don't general orgasm from blowjobs because of my whole sensitivity thing, but from what i've read on my time on this site you won't be doing it for long in general. Depends on the guy.

[Geordischmidt]

If you let your teeth interfere or if the guy is much bigger than you can handle, then, yes, it will be a bad blowjob.

[kambo_trick3y]

Pft, try biting down on some guy's member and see if he still believes that.

[Asker]

I'll make sure I won't use my teeth then haha.

[godfatherfan]

99% true
if there is a lot of teeth, ouch. hurts pretty bad.

[SüßeJäger]

I remember the worst bj I ever had. It was wonderful!

[cavmanier]

I know huh :-)

[26ukdude]

Every guy is different, semen doesn't taste that bad, a bit weird maybe. Why dont you try some first when he's had a wank? I normally last 2-5 minutes. I prefer it if a girl swallows but its not a huge issue, my only pet hate is when a girl once pulled away mid-orgasm. Very very frustrating.

[TadCurious]

This commenter makes a REALLY important point. When your guy is coming, DON'T STOP the stimulation until the orgasm is all the way over.

[26ukdude]

Well since u've said that, I'll add to the asker, its one of the most frustrating feelings there is and left me pretty pissed off.

[questioner1991]

Don`t gnaw on his penis.

[Datbuffkid]

Start to make out, Do it for 5 mins then tug him in jeans for good two minutes, Lower his jeans and stroke it for like half minute then blow him slowly for one minute then increase speed..

or just 69.

[mario1321]

Some bjs are better nibbleing is good i prefer her to swallow time depends

[AimeeKyle]

Any blowjob is a good one…. but some are significantly better than others.

[GoldCobra]

Just make sure you start off slowly. Kiss the tip before you put it all in your mouth. The tip of the penis is the most sensitive but make sure you don't only focus on it, the rest is important too. Play with his balls with your hand although there is no sensitive nerve endings on the balls but i like it if a girl does it anyway.

[Anonymous]

False. Teeth can make it torture. Not finishing can be a waste of time and leave you with the legendary "blue balls"

[Anonymous]

It can be bad if you drag your teeth or if you squeeze him too hard to create a bad friction with your hands.

It should be pretty easy at your age and experience level. It doesn't become a drag until much later in life when a guy becomes a bit desensitized to sexual interaction.

[Anonymous]

As long as she enjoys swallowing, any blowjob's great. On the other hand any bj sucks, if she doesn't finish the job (except, of course, if it was part of the foreplay and not pure bj).

[Asker]

Is it good to tease a bit first before getting into it or is that a big no and frustrating?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on how you define "tease"...

[Anonymous]

there's no such thing as a good blowjob...blowjobs are ridiculous...the mouth can never do what the vagina does...

[TadCurious]

I disagree with this strongly

[Opinion Owner]

okay...you're entitled to your opinion...it's just sad GaG removes the opinions they don't like and don't let users their right to express their opinions...

[Anonymous]

There are bad ones, sure. But they're not that common, and it's only good manners to lie to the girl and tell her she's the best you've ever had. A good compliment makes it more likely she'll do it again in the future.