There's nothing wrong with congratulating a man that gets laid a lot since it's a difficult achievement for men. True or false?

[Anonymous]

[HugoThe2nd]

Men who "get laid" don't care for approval from some bitter neckbeard.
Because they know that getting laid isn't difficult at all, all it takes is a bit of common sense and human decency.

If you think it's hard, it's most because you have self-inflicted unfuckableness due to being a pathetic bitter fuck who can't interact with women like a well-adjusted human being.

My ego doesn't need to be told "hey, congratulations for not being mentally challenged".
Doesn't really build me up, it's just going to make me think you are sad.

[Asker]

Im not a blue pilled cuck like you. You're delusional af if you think men have it just as easy as women when it comes to sex

[MCheetah]

It depends on the circumstances, but since it is so rare, I suppose the more likely answer would be "true" in my estimation, assuming the guy isn't already genetically gifted and actually needs game to score. (Unless it's a date rapist or a rich douchebag who basically just pays women to sleep with him, I guess...)

[MCheetah]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Sooo... just like... congratulations for finding a spot for your dick to sit for a while?

I mean, if those are the standards, the bar has been set pretty low.

Now, if your dick could lift houses off the ground then I might be more willing to congratulate you. The only acceptable congratulations to you having sex is just playing the Lonely Island song for you.

[Asker]

I already told another blue pilled idiot why women get slut shamed and men dont

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Fragile egos? Low self esteem?

[Asker]

No. Because men dont want to wife up a hoe. That's why

[Ez-Bri-Z]

So then yes, fragile ego. Got it.

[Asker]

Why can't women accept that men do want a girl that's had multiple men in her without getting offended?

[Asker]

Not*

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Why can't men not feel threatened by a woman who has had sex before him?

[Asker]

You can have sex. But most men including me don't want a girl that's had multiple men in them. Has nothing to do with insecurity

[Ez-Bri-Z]

You can choose that and not be insulting to women for their decisions too.

[Asker]

How is it insulting?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Because your fragile egos can't handle that a woman also wants to have sex and so you devalue her and call her a hoe while men can sleep with 100 people and you want to pat him on the back. Its a double standard of the weak minded

[Asker]

Its an accomplishment because it's not easy for a man to sleep around with a lot of women. A women can sleep around with ease & it's no accomplishment because most women can do that. And it has nothing to do with ego. That's poor argument as i just stated women get shamed because men don't want to wife up a hoe and men are congratulated because it takes a lot of hard work & effort to be getting laid a lot as a man

[Ez-Bri-Z]

You can tell yourself whatever you need to hear to make yourself feel better about it, but guys who are secure with themselves aren't sweating it. Your fragile ego can't handle women being more successful and also enjoying sex. It's ok if you can't handle it, but try not to bring down women just because of your weak will.

[Asker]

Has nothing to do with ego. You can keep telling yourself it's ego to make yourself feel better about being slut shamed but i also brought up that men don't want to wife up a hoe

[Ez-Bri-Z]

No it is totally ego. You can't handle it, fine, but don't take your inadequacy out on women.

[Asker]

No ego. Just don't want a hoe as a wife

[Ez-Bri-Z]

She isn't a hoe for having sex. You are just insecure for not being comfortable with the idea of her having sex. That's a fragile ego, plain and simple

[Asker]

A man doesn't want a womwn that's had multiple partners. That's a hoe. And call it fragile ego. That's the only argument you really have

[Asker]

Woman*

[Ez-Bri-Z]

It is the only one I need. If the argument is true, why would I need to change it? I can't help you have a fragile ego.

[Asker]

So do you think that men should be okay with wifing up a hoe?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

See you keep approaching this the wrong way. Women who have had sex before you are not hoes. Let's flip the script though and see how it sounds from the other side. Should a woman waste her time on a man who has a lot of sex? Chances are if he is used to having a lot of sex, he isn't ever going to be satisfied with just one woman and will probably cheat. Should she waste her time on a virgin who has never had sex? No one wants to be with a guy who has no idea what he is doing, would she? Sounds stupid right? Yeah, that's what your argument sounds like right now.

[Asker]

Yeah she can if she wants. He has value. Again a man that has a lot of sex has value. A women that sleeps around doesn't. Men need to put in work to raise their value to be able to accomplish something like that. So a man can sleep around and sleep around & it won't diminish his value. We're not equal in certain areas. And also equal doesn't mean identical

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Sorry, I can't take your seriously. This honestly has to be a joke. He has value for having sex? Lmao He had sex, he didn't win the lottery. Lmao Do you even hear yourself? God, your ego really is fragile if you think value is obtained by getting your dick wet.

[Asker]

You would do really well on the Fresh & fit podcast. They explain this & women can't put aside their feelings. But the truth stands. Men don't want to wife up a hoe & getting laid takes a lot of effort as a man

[Asker]

I guess it is ego then. You're right. Its ego but aye at least there's a reason behind it

[Ez-Bri-Z]

There is no reason behind it. Just a fragile ego. Be more secure in yourself and know even if she has had past partners it doesn't change how she feels and what she can do for you.

[Asker]

Men want a women with no past, women want a man with a future. Im sorry but i can't and along with a lot of other can't wife up a girl that's slept around too much

[Ez-Bri-Z]

That's a shame but it does explain why most of you end up alone.

[Asker]

Alone but not feeling lonely

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean, to hear how you talk about women it is pretty clear your frustration at not finding your unicorn is getting to you. That frustration builds up and becomes resentment until you convince yourself that you choose to be that way. You don't need a woman. You are choosing to be alone because you don't want to have to deal with them. It isn't true. Not by a long shot. If the woman you wanted came along, you'd jump on it in a heartbeat. So please spare me the "not feeling lonely". If you weren't, we wouldn't even be seeing these posts. It wouldn't be on your mind at all. It is ok to have preferences. You want someone without a lot of sexual experience. That in itself is absolutely fine. Calling women who do have sexual experience hoes and saying nobody wants to marry one just shows a fragile ego and self delusions. Men with actual real confidence don't worry about that kind of thing. Men who self sabotage so they have a reason for themselves as to why they are alone, start to insult women. The self entitlement you exhibit when you say things like men should be congratulated and women should be branded as hoes is astounding. Our bodies are not for you to judge or have license to unless we so choose to let you.

[Asker]

Women affect a lot of men's mental health not directly but to an extent they do that's for sure. But I've been like this for a while and i don't see myself ever changing. It turns from sadness to depression to bitterness to anger & then resentment. But i didn't say you can't go having sex with a bunch of men but a lot of men won't want a girl that sleeps around. And congratulating other guys just means we know they put hard work and accomplished something many guys can't do and wish they could. Don't know how that makes any of it entitlement

[Asker]

And there are a lot of men that have confidence and high value that don't want a girl that sleeps around. It's not just the low self esteem fragile ego men smh

[Asker]

And people are going to judge regardless. That's human nature

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Again, all i am hearing is hypocrisy. There are guys out there sleeping with LOTS of girls. It can be done. You don't get a congratulations for having sex. Do you know how sad that sounds? You want to be congratulated? Work on your mindset and your ego. Come around and realize that what you are proposing here is childish and that you can be secure in yourself to know that whatever woman you end up with will love you and support you and be faithful to you regardless of the number of partners she has had prior to you. Make that change and I'll be first in line to congratulate you. But for the love of God, have more respect for yourself than being stuck in this mindset that is insulting to your females friends and family. If your mom had multiple partners before getting pregnant with you, would you be ok with someone else calling her a hoe? I'd hope not otherwise there may be no hope at all for you.

[Asker]

You do know only 10 to 20 percent of men are having sex with women. The guys you see are at the top percentage. And again if i had to choose between a girl that sleeps around and a girl that doesn't, id go with the ladder. And if my mom put herself in a situation to be called that, i can't complain or be mad about it. Me and my mom don't even have a good relationship to begin with so if someome judges her on being a hoe then again that's on her. And funny enough id get bullied it for it if dudes found out my slept around with a bunch of different men, im never winning an argument ever in my life at that point

[Asker]

Mom*

[Ez-Bri-Z]

And you don't see any problem with that? That your peers would bully you about a woman having sex? What if it was your daughter then? You wouldn't support her? Just make her feel like sh*t for doing something natural? Also you are WAY under reporting those numbers. More than that amount are married.

[Asker]

It is a problem but it's not going to stop. And people can bully you for a lot of different reasone even things like depression etc. Can you imagine how it would be if these same people found out your mom sleeps around? Man oh man. Good luck. And that's the thing why do a lot of women think they can sleep around or be pornstars with no consequences later on in life? And if it was my daughter, call me an asshole or heartless person but id hope someone would call her out on it

[Asker]

Marriage and being premuscuois are two separate things

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Wow... way to care about your daughter. You want other people to criticize her and you offer no protection to her... about sex? That is awful. You have a lot of growing up to do.

[CallmeBruh]

@Asker I agree with you 100%

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Oh 2 fragile egos now. It is spreading like the plague.

[Asker]

I want people to call her out on bad behavior or shameful stuff. I would call her out on it too. Sorry I wouldn't be a blue pilled politically correct dad

[Ez-Bri-Z]

It isn't a blue pill anything. It's just called being a decent human being and a protective father.

[Asker]

No one said i have to play by the rules

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I hope you change your mind, but if not, I hope she takes control of her own life despite your sexist attitudes. I hope she comes out stronger on the other side of being raised by you. I wish her all the best in life because it is clear you are both emotionally and mentally unable to provide her that.

[Asker]

Who says i want a daughter though? Im hoping if i do have a kid it's a son. No daughters here

[CallmeBruh]

@ez-bri-z Lovely how you project your own insecurities onto other. You claim we have "fragile" egos, while you're obviously incapable to accept other people's opinions, views and on top of that refuse to even try to understand where they are coming from. Nice try, but you're playing yourself

[CallmeBruh]

@Asker don't waste your time with this one.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I'm not insecure and I promise men who are not fragile are perfectly fine with it, but you feel free to toddle off now and "not waste your time with me". Frankly you are saving me the time of needing to respond to watch you try and soothe your egos. 😊

[CallmeBruh]

@ez-bri-z You actions contradict anything you've said. If you were secure as you claim to be, then you would actually have no issue accepting that not everyone will share your views. A secure person doesn't trash talk people simply because they don't share their views. And since you're part of the left, you're sadly only validating the stereotype that is often used to describe the left. The only person who tries to soothe her own ego is the very one who calls the ego of others "fragile". Got to love the obvious projection from your end. Kuddos to you for playing yourself once again 😂.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I'm not talking trash if it is true. That is like saying reading from the dictionary in front of a crowd is the same as being an insult stand up comic. 🤷‍♀️

[CallmeBruh]

My dear, not every assumption is a fact. Your "truth" is only there to make yourself feel better and nothing else. As someone who has studied psychology, I'm going to tell you that it would do you wise to work on yourself since you're awfully bitter. And it certainly won't help you deal with your 'severe depression' as you mentioned it to someone else. Doesn't strike me as a surprise given the mentality you hold. Not that you're going to listen to any of it, so I wish you best of luck in coping with that nasty void within you. Babai👋👋

[Ez-Bri-Z]

No, it's fact. Sorry you can't cope with that. ✌

[Asker]

Why does feminism and you encourage women to be hoes & not accept the possible consequences later in life?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

They aren't hoes anymore than a man who sleeps around a lot is. If their biggest concern is avoiding people with backwards mindsets such as your own then I think they made out better in that deal. They get sex and a happier marriage.

[Asker]

How is this a backwards mindset. a lot of women that act like hoes and are premuscuois don't think there would be any consequences for their choices especially later on in life. Very delusional

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Not sure what you aren't getting. They are not hoes if men are not considered the same for doing the same exact thing. Either they all are or they are all not. That is true equality there.

[Asker]

Again men that sleep around aren't hoes. Women that do it though are. I already told you why and if you think it's an ego thing go for it. By all means lol

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Oh, I absolutely do think it is a fragile ego thing and no matter how hard you try to justify it, the rest of us know that it is exactly just that. Gosh, if a woman having sex before you can get you all worked up, can you imagine if she dares to have an opinion outside of your own? I hope you have some ice to nurse that bruised ego you will have then.

[Asker]

Call it ego, dont give a fuck lol. But again why do a lot of women that act premuscuois and want to hoe around think there won't be any possible consequences for their actions later in life

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean obviously you do because you keep commenting on it. We have already established it is a fragile ego problem. I guess your ego really is fragile cause you can't seem to let this one go either. It bugs you to know it is true and for some reason you keep trying to convince me or maybe even yourself that it isn't. It sure which, but you should really suck it up and just accept it. I dont know why guys think they can just sleep around and not suffer consequences later in life. You tell me.

[Asker]

What consequences would a guy suffer in comparison to women? Men are not judged the same way. Again we're not the same. And okay ego. Yeah you're right it's ego. You got me. Guilty as charged

[Ez-Bri-Z]

What girl is going to want to marry a known player? He obviously has no experience in commitment so what would he know about settling down with one woman? He is more likely the type to either cheat or get her pregnant and expect her to do all the work including basically babying him and honestly, who needs a man-child in their life at that age? Also, glad you admit to ego being the issue. Admitting a problem is the first step to recovery. Now be willing to give yourself to a high power. That's step 2.

[Asker]

Just agreeing for the sake of the agreeing. But lets agree to disagree because we're not going to change eachother's minds on this at all

[Destiel_24]

No, what's wrong is calling a girl slut for doing the same thing, that’s the point feminists want to explain

[Asker]

There's a reason women get shamed and men dont though

[MCheetah]

1. Women "slut shame" more than anyone. 2. Almost any woman higher than a 3 on the looks scale can get sex whenever she wants. You don't get kudos for something extremely easy that most women can easily achieve. 3. Women who sleep around often do so spreading STD's, abortions, and unwanted pregnancies, so they are more of a risk to society than men who sleep around. (Not that I slut-shame; as long as she's having safe sex, I don't give a toot.)

[Destiel_24]

@MCheetah 1- I NEVER said that the people slut shaming were men, that’s something you understood by yourself as if you were personally attacked, because I know a lot of women are also mysoginistic and sexist sadly. 2- My point is not if you should throw a big party is that if you congratulate one gender why not the other if they are doing exactly the same thing? And raiting women with a number is your thing, not everyone thinks like you in terms of looks. 3- Smart people use condoms and if they don’t STD’s are spread by both men are women that’s not something that just affects girls at all, and maybe some abort but that’d their decisions but you got something wrong: a woman can only get pregnant once in 9 months no matter with how many people she sleeps with, a man can get 2,430 women pregnant in 9 months

[MCheetah]

1. I never said that you mentioned they were women. The question is about a man though and why it's so much harder for men to get laid versus women. For women, it's super easy and some of them only have sex as their power in society, so they're going to hate sluts more than men would. 2. It's NOT the exact same thing, which I said in my first point, that you ignored entirely. It's like saying a woman gaining 5 pounds and a man losing 100 pounds is "exactly the same thing." The argument you make is foolish. 3. The pregnancy but you said is irrelevant, since men have exactly 0% of reproductive rights for unborn children. They have no power at all to abort a child. And while they are responsible for the pregnancy happening, as you said, so is the woman (if not more so, since it's her body after all). So it's really more like 75% of the blame goes to the woman and 25% to the man. But overall, my point was, it's "not the same thing," and as a woman, you should know getting pregnancy is a bigger risk to you than a guy being a f*ckboy is to him. Women take more risk with sex, however they also get sex WAAAAAAAAAY f*cking easier than any man could. I'd say it almost balances out, except with modern contraceptives, women have no excuse nowadays for getting pregnant. It's just irresponsibility on their behalf. So men still get the short end of the stick when it comes to sex.

[CallmeBruh]

@MCheetah Great response!

[Destiel_24]

@MCheetah 1-No, let me explain differently, you said women do it more just like a kid that does something wrong and when their parents point it out they say “But my friend did it too”, it’s not an argument, the fact that women also slut shame doesn’t change that men do too, the problem is that people (that includes all genders if you don’t understand) slut shame women for a thing they congratulate men for, it’s simple. 2- A man losing 100 pounds is not the same as a woman losing 5 pounds, the same is a woman losing 100 pounds. That’s what I’m saying: a man being congratulated for sleeping around should be the same as a woman being congratulated for sleeping around, I said that a couple times. 3-Of course they have rights, the right to express themselves and to want the baby but they can’t make a person suffer as much during 9 months, having back, leg and belly pain, having to medicate themselves, being careful, not being able to eat a lot of things, having to give birth (that’s one of the post painful thing that exist) and possibly die, just to have a child they don’t want. They can talk but not force each other, same way A LOT of men have abandoned pregnant women so yes, they can’t abort but they can run away, a girl can’t, she is just able to abort and I’m telling you that’s a hormone bomb so it’s pleasant either. Read carefully: if a COUPLE is having sex, the BOTH of them are responsible of what’s happening. OMG you don’t understand, I said a man can get 2,430 women pregnant in 9 months but a woman can get pregnant just once, men are the risk in this equation, I mean, you wouldn’t take care of 2,430 or more children right?

[MCheetah]

I'm done with this conversation, but the point you keep missing, or ignoring, is the fact that women can get laid hundreds, if not thousands of times easier than any man can. I even made an anology explaining it. THAT IS WHY IT IS NOT THE SAME THING! Here's another anology: A man climbs Mount Everest. A woman gets out of bed. You're trying to claim the woman should get the same kudos, or the man should get the same indifference, between the two feats. If you can't understand that you as a female, will NEVER have to be lonely or risk becoming involuntarily celibate (an incel), then I can't help you. Logic only goes so far. And the third point was a bunch of stupid BS that tried to ignore the fact that men have literally no rights to their child, but should be expected to "step up" anyway because 'reasons.' The man has "equal responsibility" but zero rights to his child. That sounds like Benevolent Feminism to me. As in, "Men always get f*cked over, but as long as women get what they want, who cares?" Anyway, the whole point about pregnancy was that women would take more risk in sex if there weren't a million and one ways out there to avoid pregnancy. A woman being a whore and having unsafe sex doesn't negate the fact she can still get sex thousands of times easier than 90% of all men can.

[Destiel_24]

@MCheetah I answered that point, and I tried to explain that it is not true, even if you compare it to a mountain it’s still not true but I’m also done with this, I know people like you don’t like the idea of changing your mind or even comprehending someone else’s point of view. AND THE PREGNANT WOMAN HAS MORE RIGHTS BECAUSE THE FETUS IS NOT A PERSON BUT SHE IS

[Asker]

Men shouldn't have to pay child support if she chooses to keep it

[Destiel_24]

A lot dont, like I hardly know 2 men that pay child support after getting a divorce or having an unwanted child that the mother wanted

[Asker]

They do though. They're legally required to pay so your? friends aren't being honest

[Destiel_24]

Or the law isn’t always fair because if you sue them is even more expensive to pay to go to court and a lawyer than what he would have to pay you

[doopayo]

If you’re a hoe, just say that. Power to you man

[Asker]

A guy getting laid isn't a hoe

[thotmas97]

Sure he is

[Asker]

@thotmas97 Not really. Only women that sleep around are considered hoes

[doopayo]

Men that sleep around are hoes, if anything they’re more hoes because biologically women where polyamorous creatures anyways

[Asker]

Were not. A man that sleeps around has value because he worked his ass to create value to even be able to get laid. Not the same as a women

[thotmas97]

You don’t get laid we get it dude

[doopayo]

Lmao

[Asker]

@thotmas97 None of the girls on here are gonna fuck you dude

[thotmas97]

Wasn’t really trying to cheat on my girlfriend anyway

[Asker]

@thotmas97 Wonder who's running that relationship

[thotmas97]

You’re so insecure it’s adorable

[Asker]

@thotmas97 Deflect what i said & tell me im insecure lmao

[thotmas97]

I have a great relationship dude. I’m not the one venting about how unfair it is that I can’t get any. Just a tip from someone who actually can; girls don’t like whiners.

[Asker]

@thotmas97 I didn't complain though. I just pointed out and then when women complain about why they're slut shamed, and although a double standard, has a reason behind it

[TommyMountainFigure]

False.
It isn't a difficult achievement for men, maybe just for some that have a terrible attitude towards women!

[Asker]

If you think its easy to get laid as it would be a girl for man, you're delusional

[TommyMountainFigure]

You don't have to put words in my mouth. That isn't what you asked, or how I answered. You asked if it was a 'difficult achievement ' with no mention of comparison to women's chances of getting laid.

[snackthatsmilesback]

False.
There's nothing wrong with congratulating a man that gets laid a lot since there's nothing wrong with getting laid a lot.

It's only very difficult if you have standards.

[Asker]

Yeah but most men can't though

[snackthatsmilesback]

Yeah, cause most men have standards that make it so they can't. Dude if you just want body count you're gonna have to take what you can get. And you're not gonna get many relationship-level partners when you're on the bang-level playing field.

[Asker]

Are you gonna say men have high standards? Because wow lol

[snackthatsmilesback]

Did I say that? Wow lol. That's crazy my bad, I meant they have ANY standards. And if you have standards then you won't bang a majority of the women who are willing to bang you. Because there are ALWAYS more people below the standard than above it. As a rule.

[thotmas97]

You seem mad.

[Asker]

How so?

[dragoblack]

It may be difficult for many men, but it isn't something to celebrate either. This isn't ancient Roman where it shows strength and class

[Anonymous]

I like hearing from a friend who I know is well-hung how he was able to get a certain girl screaming in orgasm

[Anonymous]

Source of this info? If it's himself it's questionable and if he's naming names he needs to adjust his moral compass.

[Anonymous]

That's kinda true, but only if he's an average guy.
Guys that look like Chris Hemsworth and have a 9 inch cock shouldn't get praise.
They didn't do anything special considering the women just come to them.
Women who get laid a lot just get the walk of shame.