There's something I wanna ask about I watched in movies?

When they are making love and she's moaning he slow his movement and ask "am I hurting you, baby?" This literally make my heart melt... is it usual that sex is so romantic and soft like this even when it gets hard?

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Sometimes I see that sex in films is emotionless and rough... this suffocating me... where's caring in the relationship then?
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  • Definitely yes! Sex is about pleasure and pleasing the partner. Not being selfish and just banging while using the other as a dumb toy.. I see you’re not very experienced, allow me to explain a little

    Of course sex gets hard sometimes but in a good way, just because it gets hard doesn’t mean it is emotionless… for ex when she starts screaming I ask her if I am hurting her, or if I should slow down, stop, pull out or add some lube ,, she says no it’s pleasurable not that bad pain , she may even tell me to speed up more in order to climax and she screams here from pleasure not pain.

    its only in that trashy porn which always aims to create extraordinary and extreme scenario to avoid repetition and to push poor audience finding new interesting material to turn them on more and jerk off because they got familiar with the ordinary ones.. That bull who made a 12 inch package and goes deep to the heart and speeds up senselessly specially after she screams because it turns his animalistic nature on.

    • You relieved me thank you

  • Of course! I'm here to help you with any questions you have, including questions about what you've seen in the movies.

    How can I help you?

    • I think i will cry every night if he is not caring about me during sex! Like what the hell I am not a toy

    • umm guys obsess about pleasing women in bed... I dont think women think about it all lol. Not like they need to men are easy customers lol

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  • This is the exact sex I love. Tender and loving. Romantic touch and PIV. Sex that shows care and love for the other. Sex that is about meeting the needs of the other so it’s satisfying and safe. Kissing, soothing, and beautiful.

  • I would think so, I would not be able to have sex without an emotional connection.

    • Same... I don't thing it's sexy it's just disgusting to treat your partner as a toy

    • I don't think its digusting, but I don't use the word toy that way. If the phrase "sex toy" gets used at all, it's not through lack of emotional bond, its done as an aesthetics compliment (basically its calling them hot).

  • I ask my wife this every time we have sex - her comfort is my primary concern 👍🙂

    • You guys made me relieved.

    • I guess I’m just too sensitive of a guy. I dunno

    • Oh!! does it mean that's not usual? other guys here said its the normal thing

  • Your Q suggests you are a virgin, but in any case choose a guy based on how he acts, not what he promises. If he loves you, he will ALWAYS treat you well, and the way you like!

    • Thank you.. you're right

    • You're welcome. Anytime.

  • Well, if it’s in the movies, then it’s just acting so who knows if anybody is really like that

  • Guys who care about their partner will ask and will care. Douchebags and idiots do not.

  • I've asked my girl if I was hurting her before. But only when she makes a face like she's in pain. Otherwise not so much

    • I mean to show care by this or anything else

    • Well I certainly care. I don't want to just go at a girl with no concern about her whatsoever. What's the fun in that? I get pleasure in giving her pleasure. There have been times when she didn't seemed pleased at all, and that's so emasculating

    • That's great and good from you

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