They only want sex, why do guys assume I’m that “type” of girl?

When I was dating my ex he told me that at first he only wanted to sleep with me and that he thought I was the kind of girl that would be down for that... seems like every guy I meet , conversations are turnt sexual (phone conversation and in person ) and they stop talking to me once I make it clear that I’m not rushing for sex. Am I not pretty enough to actually date or be committed to?
How can I stop giving off that vibe of being the type of girl to have a one night stand?
I don’t dress sexy and always covered for the most part. i haven’t been on a regular date. So far I only been on 2 . One had a boner and randomly kissed me. And the other one tried to get me to take a bubble bath 🥴I only knew him for Few day and he had a wife.
How will I ever go on an actual date?
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  • If you're not wearing clothing that shows major cleavage, and not acting super flirty to the point that you're breaking the touch barrier super early on, which would all indicate that maybe you're dtf, then maybe you're just gravitating towards guys who want sex and nothing more?

    I mean... obviously people will asses how sexually attractive they find someone before going on a date with them. So it's normal, in my opinion, for guys to think of sex. But if it's only sex and they bounce when you say no on the first date, maybe try meeting guys who you can be friends with or share interests with (other than sex). Unfortunately, it's sometimes necessary to almost reiterate that you're not just a walking vagina if you want guys to see you as more than just that.
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    • Thank you so much this was super helpful

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know, what kind of guys are you looking for? Your not one of the girls that likes the bad boy look then is suprised the bad boy treats you bad are you?

  • You need to meet a guy like me. A guy that has been cheated on and has learned to respect and love a true woman like yourself.

    • Aww sorry to hear that your been through some tough relationships

    • You're so sweet to that.

    • Please follow me if you will.

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  • Its hard for me to tell you whats up without talking to you but from what u say u dont sound like that type of girl

  • To be fair, at first we almost always want sex.
    Maybe it's the type of guys you "dated".

    • Oh wow that’s crazy. when I first meet a guy , sex isn’t the first thing that comes to mind. I guess that just nature and I cannot change that lol

    • lol, don't let it discourage you from dating others.

    • I won’t but from now on , I just know to be cautious of those things. And to not feel bad about it.

  • Maybe you should stop dating those kinds of guys. I would hope that you are the kind of girl that is saving herself for marriage, personally.