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Things Men Are Yet To Know About Domme

Whos a good boy?
Who's a good boy?


Alt : THINGS MEN ASSUME WHEN I TELL THEM I'M DOMME (and other queries):

(1) "so whiplash uh?"

No. I'm into bondage though. Whiplash is a part of sadism, not dominance. If you can't tell the difference, I'm sorry for your partner.

(2) "get a real man"

It's amazing when you insult both the genders at the same time. Sexism has its talents. Especially when it gets toxic — somebody doesn't conform? They must not be real!

(3) "mommy?"

Yes, rando?

But no, I love being called daddy. Reverse kink. Whenever I read age-gap books... I always picture myself as the older male. When I was eighteen, my small circle used to joke all the time how I'd tease a guy with feminine viles and cold hearted nature.

(4) "who hurt you?"

Tons of people! But I've never been heart broken. I took care of it, know what I mean?

(5) "it wouldn't work since you're a virgin"

Thanks! For stating the obvious! I'd actually like to sleep with someone around my age and exchange v-cards. Even normal sex is better than being dominated... But meh, I can't be picky. Will have to do sometime.

(6) "how do you know?"

You do realise that there are thousands of people around the world who haven't done it and still know they "would like a guy to push them on a wall" or "have a woman call them master"... Stuff like that.

Because it depends. Fantasies, porn choices, kinks... And overall personality of a person.

I've questioned me for months. I think I know the answer. Unless you think I'll surrender to you?

In your dreams, mister! ~

(7) "but that's against gender norms?"

Do I look like I care?

(8) "is it a feminist thing?"

Lots of feminists would go for traditional relationships.

(9) "are you slutty?"

No. You're dominant too, are you? Reticent dommes also exist. Do your research.

(10) "so you'd never ever let a guy dominate you? Wow!"

Drop the heteronormativity! You never know. But I guess... If I find a switch, I'd probably want to spice it up once in a while.

Plus my ex crush lady is the vanilla mountain I'll ever get pinned under.

(11) "are you elusive?"

Define elusive.

Okay I'm just teasing now.

(12) "striptease?"

Mm... Exciting. If a guy entices me with one — I'd be blown. Women are more aesthetically pleasing so they can easily do it — where's the fun in that?

(13) "you like to chase?"

If the guy wants me to. Consent is important.

Remember guys — the signal is blush. Or squirm. If you don't want it, directly reject.

(14) "what about rejections?"

I've been rejected few times. That's okay. I'm glad my feelings got through!

(15) "are you nasty?"

I'm no joyride. But I can be kind, occasionally, if we date. And I'd always let you have the last slice. Because I hate pizza.

I can be a little emotionally cold, but I never treat people shitty. I just self distance myself.

(16) "would you ever take advantage of a guy?"

Like roofie or alcohol or blackmail? That's rape! I don't like jail, Darling. And I kinda have morals.

(17) "blowjob?"

I see why you'd think I won't blow my sub but okay.

(18) "shy guys?"

Hot stuff.

(19) "so you like to top?"

Dominance isn't solely bound to coitus. I'm into foot play more than being the top.

(20) "torture?"

Knife play? Yes. Degradist? Hells yeah. Other things? No.

That's me for now!

Next take : How I Discovered I Wasn't Sub.

More queries? Let me know!

#anon1903 #bdsmcorner #submales

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  • Agreed with you

    Many people can't differentiate between dominance and sadism

    Just want to ask one thing..

    Degrading comes under dominance or under humiliation?

    • It can come under both, depending on the sub's wants

    • I always wish to be your sub But always rejected by you 😔 That also kind of domination lol

    • It can come under both, depending on the sub's wants Sub's wants? I read that sub's don't have wants... They only have to obey

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  • That was amazing and insightful. Loved it since im a sub boy :)

    • Thank you for MHG @anon1903

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  • I only know one female Domme (as in i would call them a facebook friend) and i was quite interesting to learn a lot from her and her perspective. Wanting to talk about aspects of arousal with people is quite difficult as many people find it not an easy subject to engage in especially with so many ****wits about, so i appreciate your take on it, thank you!

  • Good write up.

    i know a few Dommes that would agree with most of it.

    There are Domina Parties in the UK, basically Multi Mistress Multi Slave parties.

    My ex girlfriend worked security at some of them.

    A pretty girl is better security for those types of parties, admittedly pissing a Domme of was fun lol

  • Ok, well I need to add two, no offense intended:

    (21) doesn't seem like a good time to me. (e. g., "my small circle used to joke all the time how I'd tease a guy with feminine viles and cold hearted nature.")

    (22) could ANY woman be trusted that much? (I already know the answer: NO!)

    • Domme isn't for everyone.

    • (21) friends just need something unusual to tease you about. I bet you know your friends give you a hard time too by exaggerating. (22) I sincerely don't care. Trust us, don't trust us.

  • What do you mean "both genders "? There are lots of different genders!

    • Of course.

  • No need to tell me your hot I already know

  • I am just a sub so forgive me that I don't understand... but... what do you want to say? That being a dom isn't the same than being an asshole? It's very borderline! Most humans are assholes and there are only very few humans out there who are actually dom and NOT being an asshole.

    Being a dom means someone has to trust you. If someone trusts you, you can do much damage. A sub usually can't do damage at all.

    (I am a pure sub in bedroom, not in other aspects of life. But not a dom either. More a balanced one.)

  • (21) What's your native language?

    • Hindi.

    • I tease! I tease. So you're a tough chick, eh? I'm curious, you ever been in a relationship with a assertive guy? I get that this is like a thing you're into; I guess my question is how flexible are you on this? Could you imagine yourself being attracted to a typical alpha Chad, or are you so into emo boys that like, you can't even imagine it? Or is this just like a personality thing? That you're a sort of assertive person and you would want to express affection that way?

    • I'm turned off by alpha Chad

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  • Pretty much everything except knife play is right up my alley lol. Still have yet to find a domme partner so until that day I guess it's 'switching' for me! (Which I actually don't mind, coz sometimes it's hot when the girl submits -- yin and yang right?)

  • Always have to include the knife play lmao

  • A man who has to proclaim “I am the king” is no king.

  • That was a nice explanation of your personal tastes. Good luck on finding someone. Where are you looking?

    • Thanks!

    • Welcome.

    • lol she doesn't need luck to find a guy who wants to be topped by a Domme.. There are so many men who want to be Dommed by a woman that finding a Domme is a the really struggle

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  • To be perfectly honest Absolutely Nothing About You Personally!!

  • You're a domme? 😳

    • Yeah! :D

    • I had no idea. 😊 Hope you'll have experiance some time soon. Looking forward to the topics you'll discuss then.

    • Thanks! 💕

  • Very hot! Glad you know what you like!


    Love knife play…

  • Good girl

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