Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Things Men Can Do To Help Them Get Laid
Can’t seem to get past the hanging out phase with a girl? Trust me, you’re not doing something right then. How do I know? Because I am one, so read these tips for how to help get a girl to sleep with you.
Body Language
Body language is big key factor in sealing the deal. Interestingly enough, Psychology Today states that " Body language is the most important factor when it comes to seduction." Through your body, you need to show a woman that you’re interested, dominant, and confident. Sit up straight, open doors for her, and don't talk to much with your hands. Be calm, cool, and collected make her feel comfortable around you.
Women Are Mental
No, I don't mean women are crazy. Women work off of mental stimulation in general. Sure, you can be the hottest guy in the room but if you don’t know how to socialize with a woman, you won’t get very far. Do this through texting or chatting face-to-face. The point is, you attempt to make yourself the guy she thinks about when she’s home alone.
Women are naturally more selective than men when it comes to having sexual intercourse.
Do Not Rush Things
Many men have this problem and it's a BIG problem. When they see that the girl is somewhat interested in them, they jump on her like she’s prey. This is the quickest way to scare a woman off and ruin your chances of with sleeping with her. Nobody likes feeling pressured so talk to her get to know her. Remember she's a person not a sex object she has feelings.
Make It Clear Your Interested
Make it clear you’re attracted to her in a gentleman way. You need to let her know you’re not interested in just a friendship. Once that’s been established, then she chooses if she’s going to stick around with you. So, you must let her know you are attracted to her. Just like men sometimes women miss small signs of interest and just need to be told.
Be a Confident Male
Confidence is really the key when it comes to getting what you want. Confidence is something you should develop on your own time. The saying, “fake it ’til you make it” will not work in this situation. Women are approached a lot and can tell the difference between real or fake confidence. So, if you want her, show her you could have her.
Look Your Best
Not saying you need designer clothes or anything fancny, but you do need to look clean. A shower, a haircut, you know, the basic stuff. If you look like someone who may have a STI, no woman is going to risk it.
Flirt With Her
Don’t tell her “you’re hot” or “you’re sexy”. Women hear that stuff a lot. Any idiot can say that crap. Compliment her on something specific. Better yet, compliment her on something totally non-sexual, such as her personality or smile. This helps build up sexual tension and makes her feel good about herself without scaring her away. Never call a woman baby or sweetie to fast that freaks us out.
Talk To Her
Keep the line of communication open between you two. If you met her recently and have her number, either call or text her semi regularly. Try to build a relationship with her through conversation.That way, you can continue flirting via text and build the comfort level she has towards you up. Women won't date a guy let alone sleep with one that they don't trust.
Don't Be Needy
Women sleep with men who don’t need them. Also, not with men who beg to sleep with them.When you’re needy (in other words, when you desperately try to sleep with the girl in question or are whiny), you’re repulsive to us. Women want to sleep with men capable of bringing them some type of value (emotional value, social value, financial value) regardless she doesn't want a guy who needs her, she wants a guy who wants her.
Hopefully, some of this advice helps you guys seal the deal. Thanks for reading everyone.
What Girls & Guys Said
11 26Thanks I need this
I try no prob
by the way why don't you smile in your pictures? Your smile is beautiful 💜
I was taught not to smile in photos. But thank you so much dear
Yes i think no i know im going about this seduction the right way for 2019
Thanks
Good advice! I agree with it.
Thanks buddy
Anytime.
Too much stuff. You write like men were women--too many words.
Translated for men:
Grow the fuck up and don't be so fucking EAGER. If she likes you, and she knows sex is a possibility in your mind, there will be sex. So chill, but don't be cold. Keep HER attention, not yours. If she's still talking to you, giving the smiles and the eyes, you're good. If she stops, you're off point.
That's all there is to it.
Actually a good summery of it
And? Of COURSE it's a good summary. It's also not so needlessly long that no man would bother to read it.
Thanks
You write like a woman for women and expect men to bother to read it.
I think you did a good job.
Great advice
Thanks. 😀
Pleasure 😊
Outstanding advice
Thanks for reading
What do you mean by laid?
The only thing men need to lay down is a bed or couch and if he is not sleepy, he likely won't need to lay down. The same goes with a woman, boy or girl. People usually only lay down when tired or sleepy.
Id guess the last one about being needy is where a ton of guys fuck up.. Its disgusting and sad to hear
I like being needed I don’t want to feel like I’m with a baby sitter
The needy dudes never get it either do they
No just cry or whine more
But I'm soooo nice... i dont get it
I don't either that's gross
Great advice
Thanks Mr glen
You're welcome mrs. Wowgirl
If I may add to the part where you talk about confidence and the "fake it until you make it". There is a twist here. You can not get confident over night so you got to apply the plate theory there. Witch could be simplified as "try it until you make it" form. It also means going trough some failure before success and not necessarily getting the first woman you seek.
Most things you said true. But women also look appearence and face. İf he is ugly, thin and not have beards she will not choose him for anything. She can choose him only if he is a master PUA. Even chances are low if he is ugly and thin.
But for average men who knows the pick up art, its different. But its still hard. Most women are unfortunately selfish and narsist. This is how god created them.
And men make the first move is also create a bad society. Cuz women are there only for waiting men. As you said women are approached a lot and that makes women socially strong in front of men. There a lot of things to say. But for thin, ugly men picking up a girl for sleeping is so hard. İts possible of course , not imposible. But its so hard. And its not fair.
Three questions for you.
1. Does a guy have to be absolutely perfect at talking with women to even have a chance?
2. How does a guy be confident while not looking like he’s not trying to look confident when he’s actually not?
3. Does it even matter what I want?
My entire life I’ve felt like it doesn’t matter what I want to a girl I like, it only matters what she wants and what she gets out of it. Honestly I hate that but it’s what I’m used. I’ve never had a girl like me for who I am and I’ve always looked easy to them.
I can tell you aren't confident by reading this. And If I can tell, then girls can tell x10. I think the fundamental core of this sort of sexual confidence lies in a realization that sex is just natural, number one, and that it shouldn't be elevated to mystical or magical status. But not just that, the realization that you are already good at sex for the fact that you have genitals and they work. I mean, really, that's all you need. The confidence, then, becomes this realization. The insecurity is the self-doubt, self-loathingness -- the opposite of this realization and I think it's caused by damaging sex negative upbringings. Really simple. You are already good to go in the most basic and fundamental level. Everything you do must come from this core umderstanding or else you're insecure and needy. Simply put, I think. There's more to it, but I need to wait to publish a take on this topic.
@Robertcw I’m confident in everything but dating/sex
Okay. I think this is really simple then. Do you have a penis? Does it work? Is it clean? If so, congratulations. You can be confident in your sex skills. It's that simple. Once you accept that, and you can because it's true, then yiu can chill out and not think you have a problem to deal with. And pretso, that's real confidence. It's like a proof in geometry class. Once you see it's actually simple you wonder what the hell was the problem before. It's just like that.
@Robertcw I’m not confident in dating/sex because I’ve never done it
I know. I'm telling you the truth so that you don't need to figure it out through first hand experience. I just gave you a life hack man, use it wisely.
The biggest mistake any guy could make is doubting the above fact. Cause' then she'll start to think your penis is defective. And won't want to be anywhere near you. At best you'll get videos and be asked for simething in exchange so they can see if you are good or not. They'll make it sound natural, but they'll be sizing you up and checking to see if things look good. Ultimately, just as long as things are in fact good, then they're good. End of story. But now you're starting to make me doubt that maybe things aren't good for you down there. See how that works? And if I am getting that vibe. A girl is getting x10. You don't want that. Furthermore, it's untrue (right?). If your junk is actually broken then that's a real personal problem and it counts severely against you.
@Robertcw my junk is literally fine. Like I’m not worried at all about what it looks like.
Ok then. LOL. Start acting like that next time you talk to a woman then man! Fuck. Say it exactly like you just told me: "my junk is litetally fine. Like, I'm not worried at all what it looks like." Or at least say it to yourself in tge mirror before you go out. Confidence levels strong there.
You do know girls are all different based on experience. You honestly can't lump them
My opinion... It's a very great source 💯