Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Ladies. We know that it sometimes takes us a little bit longer than our male counterparts to feel like we want some lovin'. My mom always joked with me that a tasteful ankle could get the boys ready. While her comment is totally satirical (I promise), it does bring across the message that men can be ready more quickly than we (sometimes) can. So, to give all you lovely men some insight, here are some things that really get me, and other women, in the mood.
1. Massages
There is nothing better than a good neck/back/foot/anywhere massage. You are physically stimulating my body and showing me that you care for me all at the time time. Yes.
2. Running Your Fingers Through My Hair
Maybe it's just me, but I LOVE to have my hair touched. Someone gently pulling on my tresses sends my body into shivers...in the best possible way.
It is the same idea as a massage: you are stimulating my body and showing me you love/care about me. I think you'll find that appealing to women emotionally as well as physically is really meaningful and such a turn on.
3. When He Takes Control
Whether this means deciding where we are going for dinner or taking control in the bedroom...yep, such a turn on.
4. When He Does Something to Take Away My Stress
Nothing says "I love you" or "I care about you" like someone doing something with you in mind. If he knows I've had a long day and cooks dinner or if I get home and he's cleaned the apartment or has done the dishes. At that point, I'm ready to jump him.
5. Suits, Uniforms, Any Power Man Outfit.
Enough said. Sexy as HELL.
6. Your Smell
Find out what your woman likes and wear it. I can't tell you how sexy it is when I really like how a man smells. I personally love the smell of Versace Eros (which I only found out because a guy was wearing it and I had to ask what it was).
7. When You Are Telling/Showing Me About Your Passions
I LOVE to know you and what you are passionate about. It is really inspiring (as well as a turn on) to see someone who is sharing their passions.
What Girls & Guys Said
13 25Really on point mytake. I'll start doing some of these now I just needs me a special lady
All very good pointers. I have Versace Eros myself. Only bought it because it came with a free Versace bag but I wear it all the time now. Smells great.
I get most of these, but why does a suit turn some women on?
Well if it doesn't turn you on, that's okay :)
It doesn't but I have seen other women say this also. Can I ask why that's a turn on?
I don't know if I can say. I guess on one hand the suit shows off his body. It's tailored to him. I think another thing is that suits/military uniforms speak the message of power, ambition, and drive (even if subconsciously). s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...e536b8f52c.jpg
I definitely understand a uniform, I find that very attractive. I guess that's not far off from a suit (like in the picture).
But if you think about it, a suit shows the same thing. It probably means he's working in a job that needs this type of attire. And usually, the men who work these kind of jobs are powerful in some way. I don't know. It definitely turns me on.
I get what you're saying, sorry if it was a stupid question 😊
No not stupid at all! And of course every thing on this list doesn't apply to every girl. Just some things that turn me on personally, and that I found turn others on. But that's totally okay if they don't all apply to you
8) me going shirtless works for me baha
would it work if u danced naked in a dumpster for half an hour before you met her fgt?
*met patrick machionne ;)
@gagfrenzy hed prolly be in that shit considering how virgin he was, But thays prolly ur imagination fgit
Look at the pink dvs lmao
good to know
POWER SUITS YESSSS OMG
Good.
So... just being a nice guy? I mean if I get in a relationship with a girl I'd be doing over half these things just for the sake of being nice.
Agree on all of it, especially 3 xD
But you also forgot neck kissing, asking how I feel, what I'm thinking about, saying that I look pretty and that I belong to him only, taking care of me if I'm sick, hmm... kissing and massaging my breast...
SO MUCH YES TO NUMBER 3.
I had a friends with benefits relationship with three lovely girls in my teens but im married now so no I wouldn't but when I was 17 during the summer holidays for a month I managed to convince my hot 15 year old cousin and her friends to have a foursome with me, now that was an amazing. We met up three or four times a week for sex sometimes all together sometimes with someone missing or just individually, I know they met up for sex when I couldn't make it. When the summer ended I went on to college and the last time we met up was at Thanksgiving for sex the three girls having gotten very good at pleasuring themselves and each other. After Thanksgiving the girls got caught having sex together at a sleep over by my cousins parents and my cousin was sent away to a strict Christian straight camp and of the other girls one got beaten so bad by her father that she ended up in hospital and the other was sent to live with an aunt so as not to shame their family ehrn she gave birth to my son which was adopted by the aunt.
I miss those innocent days, what I shared with those three girls wasn't just amazing sex but a very intense emotional connection and though we three were young and immature it was love though conservatives and liberals alike would both damme and dismiss what we shared as illegitimate.
Well look on the bright side, you're married now.
You're sick af!!!
@Salmonella I didn't believe a word of his story, sounds like a troll to me. Especially the bit about the birth.
Great my take!
How do you do this with a female friend who is now single? Given that it's hard to suddenly stroke her hair haha?
Also would love to hear your views on my take if u can? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30669-do-women-have-dirtier-sex-with-guys-who-don-t-care-about-them-what
So... just whipping out my dick isn't good enough anymore?
100% agree
Good for u
Totally agree!