Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

Well,hello everyone.

it's me again.

So lately on GaG I've seen many guys anonymously asking "Why girls suddenly block them on social media yet they did nothing 'wrong' to them?"

So I got inspired & thought I should give you some reasons that girls ghost you,block you or ignore you that you guys DON'T CONSIDER 'wrong'.

I guess it's a triggering topic and some of you will be offended,but that won't stop me from revealing the harsh truth.

Disclaimer :

This MyTake's purpose isn't to offend someone on this site, if you do get offended it's your problem not mine.

Let's Start.

Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

1) Do Not Try To Make The Conversation Sexual From The First Second.

Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.
Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.

Many guys approach a girl and their first message to them are things like :

"U make me hard."

"My balls are huge."

"I want to f*ck you."

"My d*ck is 25 inches,wanna suck it?"

Congratulations for being so blessed by god...

But we don't care,at all.

And the way that you are trying to turn us on has only one result and that is to annoy us.

I understand that you are in the mood,everyone is at some point of our day is BUT stop pointing it out and sending messages like this,it's offensive and really annoying.

2)Do Not Try To Turn The Conversation Into Sexting From The 3rd second.

"Oh god,not again!"

This is also something that many guys do,they send messages to a girl,have a casual-normal conversation with them for like 2 minutes...

AND THEN BAM they start talking extremely kinky and sexually.

The conversation just takes a 360° unpleasant turn.

From : "How are you?"

You went to :"I want to tie you up and make you scream my name."

Yeah,SLOW DOWN.

Maybe you think that because she answers you,she automatically likes you?I don't know.

But you have to understand that there is a difference between being polite and wanting to sext with a stranger online,and believe me it's a BIG one.

(At this point I want to say that I never understood why you guys do that by the way.)

3)Do Not Ask About Their Sexual Life.

"Is this guy for real?"

"Are you a virgin?"

"Do you have sex with your boyfriend?"

"How many guys have you had sex with?"

IT'S NOT YOUR BUSSINESS.

This is a personal information that we don't share with many people that we are actually close with,what makes you believe that we'll share this information with you a.k.a a horny stranger online?

Exactly.

NO LOGIC.

You should never go for personal informations like these with someone you've never met before,especially a girl.

4)Don't Insist.

This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)
This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)

If you see that someone does not answer,stop insisting cause it gets extremely creepy.

And before you start attacking me on this one,yes it's somewhat rude for her not answer your messages,ever.

But in our (girls) defense,we get so many messages everyday we can't answer to anyone that decide to just approach us.

So...Move on to the next one boys!

-END.

AngelicSin

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  • I guess I sometimes make the mistake of #3... But girls have answered and talked to me about it, I guess it's about how you ask?

    Asking about the sex life...

    It is something I'd like to know as I am a virgin and am kinda hoping for the same in a partner... So I kind of have to know?

  • Why dont you calm down a bit. let people have opinions. stop jumping on peoples throats, or stop posting then.

    I agree with your take tho. Great take

    • Thank you but when did I jump on someone's throat lol?

  • Basically, just don't talk about sex. That's what you're implying..

    Yet, you have tons of women on here asking "what's your fantasy?"

    • Don't talk about sex too soon. Sure, if she asks you - go ahead and reciprocate. But most women do not want to go from: Hi, How was your day to do you want see my dick in 5 minutes. Wait till there is a bit of a connection first.

    • So basically, a woman has to bring sex up first, men aren't "allowed" to bring it up first? Is that the same in real life too?

    • " Guys, do you prefer the vaginals or the butt secks?" LOL Women are the gatekeepers to sex. ONCE AGAIN, to the women in the back.

  • what if you created a profile that was honest about being dtf? I did that as an experiment (bare-chested, but blurred my face) so when I talk to girls I'm honest.

    On my other contemporary profiles I never bring up sex right away.

  • I'm sorry but your take is kinda pointless. It's like telling rapists not to rape because it's immoral. They know it's immoral they just don't care.

    • Pointless is your existence.
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    • I'm not trying to be mean, but the guys your directing this all ready know it's wrong and that's why they do it. Sorry if I offended you.

    • Oh shit you are good one, now I feel bad

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