Thinking about another guy while being in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Ugh okay women in relationships,
have you ever thought about another guy while masturbating? I don't know why I keep imagining this other guy. It has happened twice now and I'm concerned. I genuinely LOVE my boyfriend and I've never thought about another guy ever apart from him. we're masturbating on call, me and my boyfriend, the image of the other guy pops in my mind. I love my boyfriend. I feel so guilty. Ever happened to you? Men, I would like to hear your thoughts too.

[cou82]

sounds interesting. i didn't know women had much thoughts or imagination of stuff like this. or at least one of my girlfriend told me she didn't imagine stuff really or think about guys and that type of stuff didn't arrouse her. thanks for sharing

[MikeTheBartender]

Even during my first time I thought about someone else. When I'm w a babe it's all about eye contact. If we are making it we are thinking about each other. If not I'm thinking about an ex and she is thinking about Tom Cruise.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

is the other guy someone real or imaginary? and if real, is he someone u see all the time, or still in the implausible realm like a celebrity or sumfin?

[Asker]

No, he's a real guy. Friend of friend. Have talked to him a couple of times.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

dat more awkward. u guys click sumhow? or is he just super hunk

[Asker]

No we don't. He's not even that good looking. Just an above average looking guy with good humor but kind of an asshole sometimes.. I think he likes me but I'm not really sure of it.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

dats very confusing 2 me. ur brain works totally diff from mine. so im afraid i dont get it. but i would think it is still way into fantasy realm of sum sort

[Jessjochen]

Yes sometimes

[Asker]

So will it go away? It's not disloyal right?

[Jessjochen]

It’s not disloyal. Everyone has all sorts of thoughts.

[helva]

It happened to me also.

[Snowman666]

Nothing to worry about. Try to mix it up with some roll play. Act on your thoughts, just with your man. Have him be someone else, costumes help.

[Tiff5699]

this happens, pm me

[Valnac]

Don’t worry about it, you are just fantasying. If you were to act on it, then it would be a problem.
If it’s just to get you off, rock on!

[ahmedah]

May be your guy dont fuck you good
Or you are like someone who love to take different dicks

[Asker]

I'm a virgin lol

[ahmedah]

Then probably you need a fuck and your man dont want to do it I dont know You have to say what make you think of other guy while masturbating

[Asker]

No, we both want to do it but due to religious reasons, we won't. Mutually agreed.

[ahmedah]

Can you add me?

[ahmedah]

How often do you masturbate

[janson87]

It is only sex or masturbating