Thinking about getting off of birth control due to me worrying about my weight gain but I’m worried that my boyfriend won’t feel good with condoms?

I’m worried that sex won’t feel good for him anymore if we go back to condoms. I started birth control pills because of him I’ve been on them since October and I was 130 pounds now I’m 143 that’s very bad and I think it stops me from losing weight too and causes cravings but I’m not sure.
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  • I had the same convo.. with my girlfriend... BC has major side effects... but to gain 13 pounds is nothing.. DO IT FOR THE RIGHT REASONS

    • I’m a very insecure person so that’s bad for me. This is the heaviest that I’ve been I believe

    • And I just keep gaining and gaining

    • Do what makes you happy... is my opinion... gaining 10 pounds is nothing to a woman it might be.. do what makes you feel comfortable. Don't get off BC for sex... that is a wrong reason

  • Especially condoms break & you'll really look big with a baby in your stomach. Risks aren't worth it. Besides your weight is great! :)

    • Thank you

  • Pulling out works. Lol. Did it for a long time as the only form of BC.

  • Having a baby will cause even more weight gain.

    • ^He does have a point. 🤷

  • Well then don’t have sex with him until he’s willing to respect your choice

  • BC is bad for you He should wear condoms anyway. If he loves you he won't mind.

  • Thats a easy fix there are many types of birth control just get with you gynecologist and discuss you options. Oh yeah and just so you know 143 is but fat you just be curvier

  • Talk to him about it! Really though its more your decision. Sure sex may not feel as good for him and you but thats not as important as your weight, health, and self confidence.

  • Maybe an IUD or have the bar put in your arm

  • My girl although i hate condoms im going to be honest birth control can affect your hormones

  • He should be respecting your choices.

    • He does

    • How much do you weigh?