This guy told me to stop being a slut but I’ve only had sex with 2 guys which is less than most girls my age?

Question

Why would he say that when Most girls have slept with 2+ guys by now?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

We obviously have no idea what his thought process was (or even if he had one) for calling you a slut, but perhaps it was less about who you slept with and more about who you were talking to (someone already taken?) or how you were dressing/acting (using your sexuality to get attention?). Or maybe he's just jealous and wanted to hurt your feelings the way he feels you hurt his. Again, we can only guess - we weren't there and we don't know him.

As far as your body count goes, I certainly wouldn't consider that unreasonable, but sleeping with two boyfriends is certainly less slutty than having two drunken one-night-stands, so there could be some context there to consider. I'm not judging you - I'm just pointing out that context does matter too.

Mark-IV · Accepted Answer

you are under 18 having sex in of itself is very not your age, just because some of your friends are complete sluts, doesn't set the norm is sex with few guys before 18
you should limit sex to meaningful relationships only, this way sex will feel so much better because you didn't fry your brain with so much pleasure with complete strangers, trust me, I've met so many girls who felt so lonely because they had so much sex when they were younger that sex became meaningless haze of pleasure and doesn't satisfy them anymore, because sex ≠ intimacy

GraceMarie01 · Accepted Answer

he's probably just jealous because no one wants to have sex with him. Honestly, he's just being an asshole and you shouldn't listen to him. Also, the number of people you've slept with isn't what makes someone a slut don't compare yourself to other women.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How old are you?

lanadelrey25 · Answer

You're under 18... maybe that's why

TeeSquare · Answer

he's just being an asshole. Judging you for no reason

shaunp801 · Answer

Just be you, dont do things for others to make them happy because you feel like you have to. Often what someone says about others is a reflection of how they feel inside.