This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

Simple Rules to know your dating a slut:

This is how you know you are dating a slut

1. She approached you - Because you are such a beta, momma's boy, or possibly introvert quite male, its most likely that she picked you and not the other way around. She gave you strong signals of interest and pretty much took the lead.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

2. She is more social than you - Because sluts and whores crave attention above all, they tend to be heavily involved in social events, parties, get togethers and just overall more outgoing than you.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

3. She is not feminine - A lot of sluts are tomboys, active and vocal. They can dress slutty, but often don't have the classic feminine characteristics like long hair, feminine hobbies and interests or knows how to cook.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

4.She has mostly guy friends - Not many girlfriends, cuz ya know, "Girls are so weird and mean". But plenty of male orbiters that are just long time friends. If she has more male friends than you, that's a problem. 9 out of 10 times some of those guy friends already fucked her/made out with her and will jump on any physical opportunity when she is alone, single or not.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

5. She has daddy/mommy issues and/or divorced parents - Well, in our day and age, being a child of divorced parents is becoming the rule and not the exception. But still, most sluts come from ugly divorces and she has some major relationship problems with her parents. Especially with the Father.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

6. She was molested in her youth - This is no joking matter, and nothing to goad about. But still, experience and various statistics show that a negative and inappropriate sexual history in her teens is a solid precursor for a problematic sexuality in the present.


Fellow men, remember this: You can feel sorry for a woman and sympathize with her but you DON'T have to be with her. It doesn't make you a bad person. Everybody have issues and a fucked up history, the real test is how we scratch our way out of the hole and become adults. Most hardcore criminals in prison have a messed up upbringing. Do they get a pussy pass? No.

7. She is bad with money/supported by her family/shit job - It is very likely that she is financially irresponsible, has some debt over stupid shit (clothing and various vacations vs school debt). It is also likely that her parents help her out financially for years, and there is this dark shit cloud of money=emotional control bond between her and her parents. More often than not, they have a dead end, shitty job with very low prospects into turning it into a full blown career.

8. People hit on her in front of you. Plenty of harmless and innocent "misunderstandings".It is not uncommon for guys to hit on girls while you guys are hanging out together or sharing a space. Whether it's Bars, work, and definitely when by herself. She will laugh it off and say she is just so social, and guys always pick up on the wrong signals. She will not mention being in a relationship and she will radiate sexuality and approachability via her body language, eye contact, intense and intimate conversation, smiling or clothing to other men. "Didn't you tell him you were not single?" "Oh, it just never came up". Yeah right.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

9. She likes to drink - Sluts at their core know that their behavior is wrong and they fear being judged by their peers. They will cultivate a holy than you approach in her social circle. Drinking will make all those responsible pesky feelings and thoughts go away and she will embrace alcohol with a vengeance. If she can drink as much/more than you; Bad News.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

10. She smokes - Smoking is a great and wonderful outlet for women to be in a very intimate one on one situation with a man with a perfect deniability of intent. If you do not smoke, don't date somebody who does. You will always wonder what is going on in the smoking corner, or be that clueless guy that stands near their smoking spouse and other smoking persons being the only straight edge one. Most escalations with taken women that happen at parties follow a similar pattern: Drinks with a guy, Smokes with a guy that will turn to intimate conversation and then to an inappropriate behavior. IF YOU DON'T SMOKE AND SHE DOES DANGER.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

11. She likes to go without you frequently and drink. It could be ladies night out, it could be a guy friends house party. If she goes without you and gets drunk several times a week or more that is a bad sign.

12. She is jealous at you more than you are jealous of her - This is a strange one. If a girl even smiled at you wrong or lightly flirted with you when said girl is around she would get extremely jealous turning it into a four hour insecurity accusation fest. It is ironic that the person most being afraid of being cheated on (slutty girls) usually are the ones most likely to cheat.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

13. She cheated previously on somebody else - Well, no shit Sherlock. But when you are "In Love" and she is sharing a beautiful pearl of truth like that with you, don't assume: "She was young and inexperienced, the guy she dated was abusive/shit/low quality. We on the other hand have True Love and this will never happen". Think instead, "How many months in is she going cheat and with how many people?"

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

14. You started an LTR shortly after a crazy sex on the first date situation - You started to date after a first meeting one night stand, thought it was a magical connection. "Yeah, it was sleazy all right, but she is not a slut or gives sex easily. We had this once in a lifetime connection and the fast and easy sex just meant how in love she was with me.) No it wasn't you fool. When you bang a chick you don't know, with no rubber, in an open space, with people not far away, it's no Disney Love Story, you dumbass. You just banged a Hoe. Most men bang them and call it a night, they certainly don't date them.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

15. She has major emotional stability issues (i.e. Bipolar, BPD, etc). When going through either manic phase (or sometimes even depression), some girls will want to fuck, and if you are not around, anybody will do.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

16. She has gay friends. Because they are non judgmental "you just sucked a guy in the toilets? You go girl!!" User Movonnow

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

17. She gaslights, e.g. creates a problem and then blames you for it.

18. Is insecure about her image and seeks validation by the act of sleeping around.

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

This Is How You Know You Are Dating A Slut

If a girl checks off more than 1/2 of this then she is most likely a slut.

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  • 1. No. I've been approached before and the girl wanted a monogamous relationship. Can't say the same for the other two who have approached me. Not sure. I know one didn't want to date, but that doesn't mean she wanted to fuck either. The other ended up dating someone else, so my guess is that she wanted a monogamous relationship. This is what I think about when someone brings up alpha/beta shit:

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    Either that or alfalfa.

    2. Women in general are social. Not to say all are, but if we are to generalize they are more social than men. In fact I'm sure there are studies that show that women crave social interaction more than men. Us men would rather solve our own problems while women are more incline to seek the help of others. A classic example is how men would rather "figure it out with a map" as to where they are going when lost while women would rather stop and ask someone.

    3. Sluts come in all shapes, sizes, personalities, and dress attire lol.

    4. Ehhh that might be somewhat true. Either she's fucking them or she got them all friendzoned and they are playing Gladiator esque games to get out.

    5. Why didn't they finish spelling slut? I think there may be some commonality there. Wouldn't bank on it though. Sometimes things like that can have a reverse effect.

    6. I can't bullshit. You're right. I remember this chick who used to live a street over. She was molested by her father when she was young. She was very slutty. Anybody could get it. Dudes used to randomly grope her and she didn't mind it.

    7. That seems more like a potential for a gold digger than a slut, but sometimes they go hand in hand.

    8. LOL! This is a loaded one because situation matters. Some girls are just hot and guys just approach. Has nothing to do with her being a slut or not. However, the situation you described I'm sure happens too.

    9 and 10. I put them together because they are in the same boat. I didn't really think of it that way, but maybe. I figured girls who are prone to potential addictions (be it tobacco, weed, or alcohol) are also more prone to being somewhat addicted to sex as well.

    11. Oh yeah. For sure. She probably slipping something other than just a bottle in her mouth.

    12. Hmm. Big time hypocrites yeah I guess, but I don't know. I feel like that one is uncommon.

    13. Yep. If you'll do it once you're more than likely going to do it again.

    14. Gold. Pure gold. Real bro knowledge there. Congrats. So true. I couldn't say it better.

    • 15. It's sad, but you're right. I believe that's common. 16. I guess your theory is if she has gay friends then chances are she's social and has straight friends too huh? I've heard girls complain saying that their gay guy friend thinks just because they are gay that that means they can do sexual stuff with her. So strange. Maybe he's bi and lying to her? 17. I don't even know. 18. Eh I think it's 50/50. There are the ones who are superficial and strictly monogamous and then there are the ones who are superficial and only bang guys they deem worthy but they'll let them guys run through them like freight trains.

    • I think this video sums up 12. better

      https://youtu.be/JMoGj9QtZts

    • Lol what the hell? She's way too paranoid. Couldn't be my girl.

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  • Except for cheating and a few severe validation issues, I don't think there's any other reason to call a woman loose. This is a classic example of a misogynist take. Congratulations. Seriously, mental illnesses are your justification for calling a woman a slut?

  • Valids points lol

  • I lust sluts