This is my view on female late virginity

I lost mine at 23 and a few months. For the past 3 years I was insecure about being a virgin, because in a sex crazed world I thought, being a virgin is like having a handicap. Untill I met a guy, as bad as it sounds he was my university teacher. He was 31 and I was 23. We started chatting and he asked me out. Now we are together and happy. I lost my virginity to him.

If I learnt something, that is „IF you dont make it sound like a problem, nobody will think it is a problem”. One day we were kissing and he wanted to take it to another level. I told him I can't right now cuz i never done it. There was an awkward silence and then I laughed it off. And added: I also didn't watch a single Harry Potter movie lol. He laughed too. It was a bit awkward that day but then we continued seeing each other. After one month I slept with him. It was amazing. Now we are oficially together, as I finnished college. He met my parents and I met his.

My point is: Its not true, not in 2018 that your virginity is special or a gift, it isn't. But neither is a illness. It doesn't change your value. I lost mine and guess what: the next day nobody looked at me knowing I am not a virgin anymore. It doesn't appear on my forehead. So, losing virginity didn't change me as a person.

Girls, if you are in your 20s and virgins dont panick. Lots of girls are dissapointed when told virginity is something old fashioned and guys want experienced girls. Thats true in both cases. But if a guy truly wants to date you: for your personality, your eyes, sense of humor and yes, for your pussy, he won't care if you are or if you are not a virgin.

Think like that: if he dumped you because you wouldn't be good in bad, he did you a favor. Lets say you are very experienced, you slept with over 20 guys an then, cancer hits you after 2 years of marriage. You won't be thinking about sex that much, you will need to fight for your life. So what, he will leave you, cuz now you are no longer good in bed?

Never waste your time with someone who sees a vagina in you. Also dont date somebody that only wants you cuz you are a virgin. That still means he sees you as a pussy and nothing else. After you sleep with him you won't be a virgin anymore and he will leave you for another virgin.

Virginity mean you haven't experienced yet sexual intimacy, nothing else. It doesn't mean you are better than the girls who lost their, nor that you are worse than them. Your

This is my view on female  late virginity

value shouldn't be your pussy . You are not a hymen, girl!

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