We do that probably once a week. He just has such a higher sex drive than me and needs to cum maybe 4-5 times a week, used to be everyday. One of our compromises is that he will masturbate and I will stay there and watch.
He says it really turns him on for me to be there for that. Sometimes he wants me nude, other times he wants me in a dress or work suit. I have to admit, I think its hot how he wants me to be there and is willing to share that with me.
That's awesome! I really appreciate you sharing!
Do you find it awkward?
I don't find it awkward, we have been married almost 30 years and there is a level of comfort and acceptance between us. At first, I was just glad to find a way to satisfy him when I was not in the mood, now its pretty normal for us. But take into account, my Husband is a nudist and we also mutually masturbate at times as well, so this is pretty much just a day in the life for us.
I am not into it really.
However my first "serious relationship" included a lot of this, because I was not willing to have sex, the closest I was willing to get was that I would watch him masturbate. It was not a healthy relationship, I was kind of mean to him. I acted like I was bored and kept saying "hurry up" although it did actually get me aroused but I didn't let him know that. I feel bad how I treated him, this was a long time ago!
I really appreciate you sharing! Is there anything that would have help you not be bored? Just curious
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have mixed feelings about this. If someone says they do NOT want to have sex, why would they want to watch a SO jerking off? If you don't want to have sex, I doubt you want to watch it either.
Save the watch me jerk off for a time when BOTH of you are into it. Be courteous and go jerk off in private.
I appreciate your honesty
Iv told my boyfriend to jerk off on me while I'm asleep if I'm too tired. Iv also told him tonight that I want him to wank over more while I watch as I want to learn exactly how he does it.
Really?
Hell yeah! Masturbation should be a part of all our lives. If we don't know how to pleasure ourselves properly, how can we tell our partner how we like it. Plus, we can't be around each other 24/7 and if I'm horny and get frustrated, I get grumpy so its everyone's best interest
I enjoy it and usually I join him.
How does he initiate it?
He just starts doing it.
Love that but not cuz I'm not in the mood. I just like watching cuz it's sexy
Love it
What is sexy about it if I can ask?
It's just sexy to watch a man please himself. Also cuz it's suppose to be a private thing but he's doing it in front of me
No need I’m more than happy to put it in my mouth
hott
Really? What about it is hot?
I’ve only had one boyfriend and wasn’t ready for sex when we were together but I did let him masturbate around me and look at my tits.
Love it!
Did you like it?
I did enjoy it.
I'd rather have sex honestly.
Me too
He wouldn't have to do that because I would make sure he's taken care of.
I will take my top off for him to do it if I'm not in the mood.
You're a good supporter
So do you just sit there and watch or do you help in any way?
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