Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
First, I am not slut shaming. As long as you are safe I see nothing wrong with having fun. I do however, think that men are objectified by women in their younger years. I do think that we as men are used sexually and it isn't even talked about in society. The sexual objectification of men doesn't even reach a national conversation. It isn't just women being left confused and lonely after sex...there is an untold story of men who's feeling are hurt because they really liked the girl.
A woman on dating apps between the ages of 18 to 25 is not looking for her next husband.
She is looking for her next boyfriend. A woman by nature is just a sexually polygamous as men are. We are created to be fruitful and multiply. To have sex and mate with as many people as possible for fertility.
A woman in her 20s is in her wild years of sex where she cycles through a number of boyfriends and gets to experience a variety of dick.
By the time she reaches 28 or 30 years old a woman likely has been plowed and rammed through by dozens of partners.
Then when she is finally seriously dating and is dating for marriage she will say, "I've only had 3 relationships. They were long term."
But if she is 32 years old and she has one relationship that was 1 year, and another that was 4 years, and another that was 2 years...that means she has had sex with 3 people over the span of 7 years...but wait..she is 32 years old.
Say she lost her virginity at the average age of 15. So there are an extra TEN YEARS of potential sex partners for her that are not accounted for. Either she was celibate or she had sex with a couple different guys per year. a couple times 10 is 20 guys. Maybe she had a break up and had a crazy week of three different guys. thats 23. You see what has happened to men now days?
We as men are just a cog in a while. Just another bedpost mechanic a few nights per month tickling her fancy because she is bored or lonely.
Me? I am not bitter. I am dating. I love women. But I feel I need to speak up on behalf of the guys who are too afraid to stick their phallus's out and start this discussion.
What Girls & Guys Said
34 45People can do whatever in fucks name they want as long as they're safe about. However, i personally wouldn't date someone whos been with like 200 other guys, that dosnt give me confidence itll end well
I couldn't care less, matter of fact I like them to be more "broken in" than most dudes would 😜
This annoys me endlessly because I really have only been with 7 people in total!
Solid.
Thanks
Yeah, but all of them were in the same week.
@Daniela1982 jealous much? I’ve never had a one night stand in my life, for the record. Long term relationships any day! Clearly I’m better at those!
You said 7 so I was just postulating one per day for a week.
@Daniela1982 of course you were, and since that's what your first thought went to I'd say that's what you've done.
haha. Danielle makes a great point. I was going to ask you when you lost your virginity. But I assumed that because the average virginity loss in america is 14 years of age for a girl... then you probably have had some long term sex partners if you are 30 years old. average wise you may have had one or two fun flings. but your number is low if averaged per year.
It'd be pretty sad to have only had 7 if I were into flings at the age of 35 don't you think? That wouldn't have been my gut instinct in the matter if we're using common sense tbh.
I lost mt V at 17 - the legal age here is 16.
Do you regret not having much sex? I guess you are in German speaking coutry
@Barbarian8 what do you mean not have sex much? That's one huge benefit of relationships, you have sex on tap! You also know how to work each others bodies! I'd never swap it!
I agree
Oh you just can't take a joke, just like most people on here. :(
@Daniela1982 oh I can, I just know when and how to incorporate them over text to make or clear.
That's what is fun about innuendos. They never see it coming if they don't have any humor in their bones.
@Daniela1982 psychology explains it. No need for me to comment anymore since it's all there for peopleto read who want to. Plus my friends in REAL life know me for my humour, kid yourself all you like.
Well apparently you like dry humor. You must not laugh much.
I don't know why I even reply to you stupid anons. You are all a bunch of trolls with no humor even if it kicked you in your ass.
@Daniela1982 wow someone really doesn't have a life! And clearly issues. Just kidding!!! LOL
Hey, I'm not the only one here. We are all in this together.
To assume someone numbers based on their age might be assuming wrong. It's probably more personality than age when it comes to the number of partners. On average, extroverts male and female tend to have more partners than introverts.
This is only the second myTake of yours I've come across and your view of women is so warped. You can't speak for most women, especially when you admitted you lost your virginity when you were nearing your thirties. Not virgin shaming here, but you basically admitted you were friend zoned by women all the time and now you have a sudden knowledge of all women and a newfound, misplaced confidence since you got laid, but it's all so wrong and full of baseless generalisations.
"looking for her NEXT husband?" wth?
"By the time she reaches 28 or 30 years old a woman likely has been plowed and rammed through by dozens of partners." This is just disgusting. How are you even an editor?
"So there are an extra TEN YEARS of potential sex partners for her that are not accounted for." Women aren't having sex with every man they meet and they can go without sex for many years. And why do they have to be 'accounted for'? You sound kinda controlling tbh.
"Me? I am not bitter. I am dating. I love women." The fact you had to state this tells me the complete opposite, but I could've guessed that just by reading your myTakes and how you write about women.
If you're going to write another myTake, I suggest you state clearly it's your own personal opinion, don't state it as fact.
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Women do NOT fuck around after a break up.
There are women who do thinking it will help them heal from a breakup faster.
@MysteriousDarkness Hahahah! You’re describing the thinking of a dude! I’ll say it again for you: women do NOT fuck around to heal.
clearly you've never came across an ENFP
@David_Kek Cleary you don’t know women.
@MysteriousDarkness Yup, been on both sides of that :-). There's a marriage i could have ended right quick if I had told the hubby about what the mrs. did to make him jealous, haha.
Well, someone clearly doesn't have a past they're ashamed of to the point of denying its outright existence and the experience of others. It's one thing to believe something, it's another entirely to believe something to the level of denying others experiences that doesn't conform to yours.
@David_Kek You sound kind of like virgins
if only, life would be much easier if getting women wasn't an option
@David_Kek Women are life.
and life is problems, therefore women are problems.
@David_Kek No problems means no challenges and no challenges means no rewards and no rewards means boredom.
i cannot argue with that
@David_Kek See what I mean
Women are the solution
im a guy and I could have had sex with a ton of women
i have literally only had sex with 3
in my opinion 3 is to high
Why are you on a pink account then?
@Gisellehappy why not, I'm a woman
@David_Kek Weirdo
@Gisellehappy i find that offensive
@David_Kek You’re not a woman
@Gisellehappy you don't know that, just like I don't know what you are, and that's the point. Stop being naive.
@David_Kek Bur I know what (who) I am and that’s the point here. You’re not a woman.
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@Gisellehappy You're asking why this guy has a pink account... are you really so naïve why one would pretend to be someone they're not? I've got news for you, there's lots of them on this site, and not all of them will admit it, and no one has anyway of knowing. That is the point, that your question is as good as pointless.
@David_Kek Well you can be anyone you want on the internet I guess
I just take whatever number they give me and multiply by 5. 😂
Eh, gross.
If you have to lie about it then it's obviously way too much and you know it.
🤷 dating has always only been for marriage for me. Abstinence abstinence abstinence. Though pretty sure I'm asexual so it isn't so hard to be honest.
Lol wtf? Actually, you are slut shaming. Men have tons of partners by the time they are 32 and you're shaming women jb they might have had more than 3 by the time they are 32?
Guess men don't like it when the shoe is on the other foot, do they?
Not really. On average men and women have the same amount, the issue is of course is that for men the reason why they have the same average as women is that while women have more partners, their are a few men who have siginificantly more that pushes the average higher then what the mean average would be. So that is inaccurate. Women only think men have so many partners because getting sex is easy for them and they go after those top tier guys who are already having many partners (who are more then willing to lower their standards for sex so they get more of it and also make the woman think she is more attractive then she is (as women raise their standards for casual sex and seem to think men do the same when in fact they do the opposite)). So again, that's actually not true.
@hellionthesagereborn where are you getting this bullshit from? You don't need to be a top tier guy to get a lot of partners... but seriously, where are you getting your "facts?"
Wrong. I've had 2 partners during my entire life and that wouldn't have happened had the first one not been a man hater and had been faithful. A good majority of the men I see in MGTOW have never had a partner at all. Your assumptions about men are a feminist myth, a lie that's been perpetrated on men in order to make women feel better about riding the cock carousel.
@hellionthesagereborn men have no standards.
@hellionthesagereborn Men*
@Gisellehappy Men have no standards? Then my ex girlfriend of 33 years ago must have secretly had a sex change into a girl before I met her. Make that both of them because neither one of them had standards. Which is how and why I became a MGTOW Monk almost 34 years ago.
@ThisAndThat I don't go by what feminists or any other group say to me. I go by my experiences in real life and I've had a lot of dating experiences. I could tell you most men sleep around like crazy. The reason why you haven't is either because you were not desirable enough to women or because you missed the bus completely
It’s probably because he couldn’t get any woman, so hence the MGTOW.
@Gisellehappy exactly. so now he's scapegoats feminist for his problems.
You don't need to be the top tier, I said it is the top tier that have the most partners. Those are very different things. As stated, its easier for women to get sex then men so women not understanding this presume that men have just as much access to it as they do which is not the case. Hence your misunderstanding the situation. I've gotten my sources from studies done on the subject, studies that you will dismiss and ignore (as every one always does) because it doesn't say what you want them to say. That's why women get violent and attack men who talk about this just like you did, just as other commenters did, because you don't like the idea that you could be doing something that is unattractive and undesirable, that you cannot handle criticism in anyway so any man who does must be inferior or incapable of getting a woman or they are bitter or what have you. This is just the facts though, women are able to get more sex then men, men do not like women who sleep around because they are more likely to cheat, divorce, be unhappy in long term relationships, and are more likely to be depressed etc. This not ideal. Men don't generally go around trying to fuck everything that moves, that's a myth that women have come up with to justify their own promiscuity (which is why any man who does sleep around is a fuckboy, player, or what have you and is looked down on by women but when women do it they are "exploring their sexuality". Its a justification nothing more.).
@Gisellehappy No, some men do. I admit that many do not, but some men are desperate and will take a woman who is "used up" as it were who slept around and acted terribly in her youth and now that she is older she latches on to one of those desperate men who was told that if he was a good person eventually some one would love him. Others are good looking and more importantly, socially adept enough to sleep around and try and fuck everything that moves and many women let them and all they care about is getting sex. I think both are disgusting personally, but yeah they do exist. But that has nothing to do with what was being talked about which is that men are not in general sleeping with a lot of women. their is a small group of men that have a large number of partners but most do not, while with women they will understate their partner count but when they are put to a polygraph suddenly they change their numbers which matches the average for men (an average that is generally artificially inflated due to the small number of men with really high counts).
@hellionthesagereborn so, you think that just because a woman has the ability to sleep around more than a man that she does it more often? That's a huge assumption. You don't think men sleep around often? Lol try living in Nyc. You say guys who sleep around are called players and shamed but girls aren't? Yes we are We are called sluts. I want to see these charts and graphs you speak of
I have had women touch me, I have had them come to my room and lay on my bed trying to entice me, I have had them literally let their boobs fall out while talking to me. I had one girl get literally pissed off because I wouldn't get between the sheets with her and she was good looking. When I went MGTOW in 1986, I went MGTOW. There are many guys that won't go jumping into bed with girls. Maybe it's you that has been going for the wrong guys that has given you the wrong idea that all guys are he-ho's. That's what happens when women compete for a small majority of guys at the top in the game of hypergamy.
small minority
Never said that. I said you presume that because you can that men can, that was a presumption on your part not mine. I also pointed out that on average they are about the same with the younger generation of women actually having more partners then men. I also never once suggested women where not shamed for sleeping around, in fact quite the opposite I stated that men do not wish to be with women (for long term relationships) who sleep around (not sure why you are suggesting I said otherwise). What I was stating is your idea that men are not shamed which again, they very much are (you did it in your first post even by suggesting that men all slept around and now they are just jealous and angry that women are doing it too which itself is shaming men who sleep around (which in my opinion, they should be just as I think women should be.). Again your presuming a lot of things that I have if just in passing have actively stated was not the case.
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ys-shock-new-study.html
Would you like to see the ones that show that multiple partners is detrimental to women as well?
@hellionthesagereborn I think sleeping around is detrimental to everybody, I never said it wasn't. But look at the title of this post is about women understating their sexual partners. That automatically puts it into a sexist category
Its sexist because it states what is a provable fact, that women under state their number of partners? What the hell? So you cannot state facts? Or is it that its sexist because it dares question women? That's pretty sexist on your part.
@hellionthesagereborn Men are the fuckers of society!!
@Gisellehappy Men are the f*****s, REALLY?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCgk0ZHW24E
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTURoN7y4wA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfOx1bvwXE0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfkZvi7jBuI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sH-MTSwYrYc
@ThisAndThat Well nobody said women don’t enjoy sex! Our hormones don’t rage as frequently for us to want to sleep with many men. We leave that to you.
@Gisellehappy You obviously have turned your head and didn't watch those videos I put there. My record was two as in 2 when I went MGTOW Monk almost 34 years ago. I haven't been with anyone since, not even one. Meanwhile every female that I know and I'm talking about female relatives has had at least 8 partners at minimum. Your information is pure feminist propaganda.
@ThisAndThat Well your case is not the norm. As a general rule, men love to get laid more frequently than women and will lower their standards just to “get some”. Women have somewhat higher standards to begin with and that’s why we win the gender battle. Hook, line and sinker!
@Gisellehappy Deflecting, lack of agency, propaganda, lies, hate and victim and hive mentality? No you're not going to win anything. Read um and weap: Isaiah 4:1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!" Isaiah 13:12 An Oracle Concerning Babylon…11 I will punish the world for its evil and the wicked for their iniquity. I will end the haughtiness of the arrogant and lay low the pride of the ruthless. 12I will make man scarcer than pure gold, and mankind rarer than the gold of Ophir. 13Therefore I will make the heavens tremble, and the earth will be shaken from its place at the wrath of the LORD of Hosts on the day of His burning anger.… Isaiah 3 16-26 16 The Lord says, “The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes, strutting along with swaying hips, with ornaments jingling on their ankles. 17 Therefore the Lord will bring sores on the heads of the women of Zion; the Lord will make their scalps bald.” 18 In that day the Lord will snatch away their finery: the bangles and headbands and crescent necklaces, 19 the earrings and bracelets and veils, 20 the headdresses and anklets and sashes, the perfume bottles and charms, 21 the signet rings and nose rings, 22 the fine robes and the capes and cloaks, the purses 23 and mirrors, and the linen garments and tiaras and shawls. 24 Instead of fragrance there will be a stench; instead of a sash, a rope; instead of well-dressed hair, baldness; instead of fine clothing, sackcloth; instead of beauty, branding. 25 Your men will fall by the sword, your warriors in battle. 26 The gates of Zion will lament and mourn; destitute, she will sit on the ground. And that right there is where your Marxist antichrist gender war is taking you.
@ThisAndThat I’m not a Christian and I definitely did NOT read your religious garbage. Women win everytime.
@Gisellehappy You're not a Christian and it shows. You do not have any truth in you and couldn't qualify as a Christian pushing your antichrist agenda. I am a Christian and proud to be one. And as you can see, the Prophecy of Isaiah is 2000% accurate and right on time with MGTOW. Jewelry stores across the west are closing their doors, wedding outlets have filled bankruptcy and close their doors, wedding chapels like the two million dollar chapels they just completed near me around 2015 are bankrupt and up for sale, and wedding photography is a thing of the past. Millions of men world wide are saying bybye to dating cohabiting and marriage not producing children anymore. Have fun with your gender war.
@ThisAndThat @gisellehappyis right. Men have always had way more partners than women in average. and you should be careful with your religious quotes. That's how Waco got created as well as other dangerous quotes and if you're quoting verses that shame women, maybe the Bible is full of hatred after all and organized religion should be abandoned. I may be the topic wasn't sexist to begin with, but you used it to push h Your sexist platform
It seems like you're confusing hate with truth which is not uncommon at all when deflecting. Show me where the hate is. Also, neither myself or my brother have had all those women you're speaking of and most guys I know haven't had them either. And another thing, I'm non denominational and that's not organized anything, simply Christians.
@ThisAndThat Men will fuck anything that makes.
Moves*
@ThisAndThat @gisellehappy guys will fuck anything that moves. You've probably been living in the woods or something
The guys that you've f****d might f*** anything that moves but that's not most guys and it's not the guys I know, not me either. The guys that f*** anything are also f***ing girls too or there wouldn't be any f*****g would there?
@ThisAndThat I’m not really sure why you’re fighting the truth so much? Men are neurochemically wires to WANT more sex, hence they will do anything to GET it (ie, lower whatever standards they had to begin with). It’s no surprise that they have lots of sexual partners and even higher numbers than women. The women they’re fucking are women they manipulate, lie and cheat to, in order to get sex (lowering standards we discussed earlier). So, the woman’s “body count” remains lower, because she’s sleeping with the men who have manipulated and lied to her. The men, on the other hand, are sleeping with many many women, whom they convinced to sleep with them through lying, cheating etc., hence their numbers are higher. I’ll admit though, it applies to the “players” and “bad boys”.
Wired*
@Gisellehappy The type of guys you are referring to that would f*** anything are incels that are commonly seen on this site. They have no self respect. They are so desperate to get it wet they'd lay it down on the railroad tracks if it was part of the deal to get it wet and if they were actually sleeping with all the women out there they wouldn't be so desperate now would they? And even they are beginning to dwindle on this site as I have noticed. They're finally beginning to wake up to see what MGTOW men see, which is a gynocentric misandry male hating system that's waiting to falsely accuse them send them to prison or eventually enslave and extort them with the use of their own children. Males may have a higher sex drive than females, but one thing you're leaving out. Guys especially western guys have a very high level of self control. And guys today especially in in the west know not to fool around after Metoo. And as of today MGTOW is already in the millions and it's world wide in very single country and the level of monks like myself has exploded too. 1-Continued
@Gisellehappy Part 2. For guys to be so pernicious, those biology and gender study professors are going to have a rough time explaining this one. And boys too, they have a higher sex drive than men do, yet they are also joining in with MGTOW under TGTOW. I'm aware of one that has his own channel on youtube, he's from Russia or Siberia and he started his channel, now 13 if I'm not mistaken, he started it when it was like 10 or 11 years old now on many sites, he has thousands of subscribers. Yes there are the he-ho's out there still yet they are the few out of the rest that women are quick to jump in bed with. It's only a few guys that women are sleeping around with and they fit into the top 10 to 20% of guys happy to pass around the STD's among then and the women that sleep with them. Myself, I haven't has sex in almost 34 years and my number of past partners sits at 2. My brother hasn't been with anyone in over 20 years either and his number of partners was 3. And both of my ex's numbers were several times higher than mine and it was the same with my brothers.
@ThisAndThat I don’t know how to help you.
@ThisAndThat you say you don't know any men who are players or sleep with a lot of woman. How come every woman I know, and every state pretty much and every country has come across a player trying to fuck them? It's not a rarity like you say. What is a rarity is living in a Christian community where you don't meet men like that. and you are taking a small minority of men and blowing it up as if it's the majority Nobody cares if you go your own way, you could take all the woman haters with you
You see those videos I listed here? There is your common women and that is the majority of women and every woman I know and the 2 I dated.
And by the way, those men that do sleep around like you say, they are horny he-ho blue pilled simp soy cuck male whore mangina's and they don't get a pass either.
@ThisAndThat so you're going to use the Maury show it as your source of why women are promiscuous? Are you kidding me? LMAO you know they go to great lengths of finding the trashiest people they can in the world right? I want almost got on Jerry Springer because I made up a story with my roommates that we were all sleeping together. And the moment they were ready to fly us out, my roommate bailed. Those stories are so fake
He’s quite naive basing his assumptions on TV whores, who’ll do anything for clout (minority). It’s disturbing that he has formed such a delusion in his mind about men being less promiscuous than women. He’s dead set on hating women and he will say and do whatever to show that and that also makes him a minority. Next.
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ys-shock-new-study.html
www.theguardian.com/.../anthonybrowne.theobserver
timesofindia.indiatimes.com/.../3812984.cms
theconversation.com/data-should-smash-the-biological-myth-of-promiscuous-males-and-sexually-coy-females-59665
www.express.co.uk/.../sex-average-number-partners
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...artners-theyve-had.html
www.salon.com/.../
www.iol.co.za/.../women-have-more-sexual-partners-than-men-do-8525389
So as you can see what your saying is factually incorrect.
@hellionthesagereborn Thanks for those links! Feminism is the empire of lies and deceit achieving its goal of the depleting all mankind.
@ThisAndThat Go cry in the corner!
@Gisellehappy But I provided the links to several studies showing that women are in fact more promiscous? why should he cry in the corner when you were proven wrong? Also if you see nothing wrong with sleeping around, why would you be upset when it was shown that women are prone to sleeping around?
@hellionthesagereborn I know women and I know how we are. We don’t sleep around generally.
@Gisellehappy Except all the data, the ten different sources I posted, all say the exact opposite. So either all those tens of thousands of women are lying or you don't know women. I know men, I know that out of a group of men I know, they have had collectively eight partners (out of six men), which is less then the one woman that is in our friends group) she has had that many fuck buddies that I know of and its not even including her exs). So even my anecdotal data (which isn't real data) shows that your wrong, that's on top of the objective data. Its fine if you don't like to sleep around, call it out, I do I find it despicable when men whore themselves out, but as I have shown a small minority of men are absolutely whorish while the majority have very few partners, meanwhile women in general do have more partners then men as a whole and its incredibly rare if not completely unheard of for women to have LESS partners then the average man.
@hellionthesagereborn all those stories are total b******* and you know it. Like I said before, you probably was out on a farm or in a forest or some s***. Because I live in the city and men have had WAY more sexual partners than women out here
I live near Chicago, not on a farm, and those were like ten different sources. Your cognitive dissonance is showing.
@hellionthesagereborn your articles are mainly opinion based, not fact. For every article you find stating women have more partners, I can find the inverse. thesun. co. uk/fabulous/7993365/average-number-sexual-partners-generation/amp/
I can tell you that every single female I know personally and I'm talking about in my own family. They've all had over 10 sexual partners. I have had 2 and my brother has had 3. You do the math.
@ThisAndThat so you are going to base an entire population of humans, which is I don't know how many billion, on the small sample size of your family--5 people and expect people to be dumb enough to not see the invalid comparison?
Though, the ones with the most sexual partner are men... Oddly lol.
How many times I've heard some saying :"I don't know but more than 10" when they weren't even 25.
Most men are very slutty lol.
Nope. Most men are not, a few men are and then women for some strange reason presume this is all men. Statistically most men have very few partners and a very small few will have an insanely high number which pushes the average number for all men up. Meanwhile women on average will have about nine partners and that is pretty consistent across the board.
@hellionthesagereborn It's not true. It's 7.7 for women and 11.7 for men.
Nope. When women were given a polygraph, women changed their count and it matched mens.
bigthink.com/.../men-claim-they-have-more-sex-partners-than-women-but-is-it-true
Also some studies have come out that show women have more sexual partners then men do:
www.telegraph.co.uk/.../...-partners-than-men.html
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ys-shock-new-study.html
The fact is women presume men have more partners because women have more partners, because they think that its easy to get sex for men because its easy to get sex for women. Its not how it works though. A few men are able to get a lot of women, but most men do not.
@hellionthesagereborn I disagree. Men tend to have more sex partners. It has been shown several times lol.
And you have every right to disagree, but your incorrect based upon the data. That's a very odd thing to say, to state you disagree even after being presented with studies showing that what your saying is false. Is your ego that fragile that you cannot even admit to being wrong? Well fine I guess we will do it your way then, "I disagree, women are slutty and men are not so your wrong.". Guess that did a whole lot, definitely changed minds with that and had a well reasoned argument their, huh? What ever do you as you will (you were going to anyway).
@hellionthesagereborn I've got some stats actually... Believe whatever you need to believe.
But you don't because I already provided multiple links to the stats which show that you are incorrect?
They get around, but pussies can take lots of dicks and still be in pretty good condition.
They're still doable.
it depends on the swamp you are plunging into
And that is the reason my preferred partner is 18 to 22. My current is 19. We are doing well.
"By the time she reaches 28 or 30 years old a woman likely has been plowed and rammed through by dozens of partners."
This ^ is not true for most women. If it were, very few men would be willing to get married.
Ohoho, but it is. Statistically-speaking, the average woman has sex with more people than the average man. You know what that means, right? The alphas get laid left and right and the betas don't get shit and try to lock a woman in with their lack of sex appeal. 60% of women are open to cheating with an attractive enough man, also keep that in mind. Vagina wants, and vagina gets!
@totakyes Nothing you just wrote there supports the false claim that the average 30 year old woman has had sex with dozens of men, because they haven't. The VAST MAJORITY of women that age have had fewer than 5 partners.
Come on mate, get real. Do you really think over 20% of modern women only had one sexual partner after the age of 25? Maybe it's a generational difference, but I don't even know any girls like that, even among the classy ones.
@totakyes I'm not sure where you live but the graph I posted is very consistent with my experiences with women. Do you have any reliable statistics or sources to support your claim that the numbers are much higher? Please post them if you do.
The data I provided come from the General Social Survey, linked below.
https://gss.norc.org/
@totakyes What I posted above is opinion that I believe is true. By 30 years old women have had a decade of random flings and hookups. They are at their sexual prime in those years. The availability of sex with these apps is easy.
"By 30 years old women have had a decade of random flings and hookups. They are at their sexual prime in those years. The availability of sex with these apps is easy." This ^ is all true. What is NOT true is what you said about women being likely to have "been plowed and rammed through by dozens of partners". Every study ever done on the subject shows the number is much lower than that. The average is more like 2-4. Sure, there are some women who have had sex with dozens of partners, but very, very few. The graph I posted is consistent with pretty much every study ever done.
Just saying... if you're a straight guy and expect to have relationships, flings and one night stands with the female population then don't be surprised that women you meet who you want to date or settle down with in the future might have had a past lol... I mean if the whole time you were young you did stuff with women and then later want to settle down there's not like a secret island or something where you get to have a fresh new lady like buying a toy at a store that has never been touched or done anything with anyone... yk. it's the same women in your society and the country you grew up in. Everyones human... people may have different values that stop them from doing certain things when they are younger but at the end of the day it's all the same. And sometimes society trys to put a double standard on wk en making them look bad or calling them sluts for having a high sexual number I mean like who were all these men fucking with then 😂 blow up dolls... obviously the men in that society and their values and roles played a role in helping those women get those numbers... I'm not saying this to attack the original post lol I'm just trying to give out my personal thoughts on the issue after seeing how sometimes men talk about more sexually experienced women. And yeah I read the post it is talking about men being used as sexual tools... I mean if they wanted to be used lol I guess it was okay
I completely agree. but here is the deeper point. a lot of women have had a past. sex is not anything special or new to them... which means that when they are 30 years old or whatever and are dating you long term... they are dating you for reasons other than sex. hypergamy. wealth. status. money. because sex at this point is so easily available that it is an after thought for a woman. Her main interest is a man's resources. This is why guys are upset.
Honestly I don't know which women you're talking about but sex isn't that easily available. Women still have to out in work to get sex and maybe it'll be a bit easier than it is for men but it's not that easy. Like most women aren't just going to hook up with any guy who wanted to have sex. They still have some standards they'd want even if they were just hooking up with someone... so it's not like a random guy just falls out of the sky the moment they want to have sex. The world doesn't work like that. And saying that many more guys will have sex with random women than men I mean yeah I guess but that doesn't mean the women would want any of those guys to just jump on her whenever... not to be rude but there are a lot of creepy or really perverted people in the world so women aren't just keeping their legs open letting anyone smash... like wtf. And Most women wouldn't do that. If they had a sexual past before 30 it was probably with ex boyfriends or maybe freinds with benefits that they had in real life guys in their or social circle and more rarely complete random hookups... so yeah even of women want sex it's not that easy especially because most wouldn't just smash any random horny man that wanted it... nope it still takes some effort to find the guys they like or at least are attracted to in one night stands...
anyways by the time a woman is 30 her sexual peak is about to start... according to many studies women's sexual peak is usually in their 30s so that means this is the time where most women really want to have a stable partner who they can have mind blowing sex with as well as other stuff... being 30 is not the same as being 100 years old and losing your desire for sex. Like what the fuck lol... Lots and lots of women are very much still interested in sex when they are 30 and above and it's an important part of relationships for them... and who are you to say that it's no longer a special experience for them LoL... just because a women might have had sex in the past that doesn't take away from having special sexual experiences in the future. Especially if your new partner when you are 30 or above has a deeper connection with you and the sex is way better. It's really not about having sexual experiences in the past... and yes they still definitely care actually women care more about good sex in their 30s then before because they'd want something more fulfilling on their life that they could settle down to... and I can't believe you have all these made up notions about women in your mind... like where are you getting these ideas from?
I think it is none of someone's business. I dont understand why it botheres you (- i dont mean you) so much that a woman has sex with multiple people in her bed and I also dont understand why men get virgin shamed. Society is stupid. Thank you that you dont slut shamed anybody. So your mytake is not bad at all
Because most people consider that 1 - current actions of men and women affect other men and women in the present 2 - decisions taken now have consequences in the future and that they doesn't stem from nowhere and that applies to bodycount too.
It is none os someone business. Now fuck off
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I am not talking about preferences. You can prefere virgin. I dont care but dont have right to interfere yours in someone's life
I am not talking about preferences. You can prefere virgin. I dont care but you dont have a right to interfere yourself in someone's life***
I don't want a virgin and I know the virginity myth is an hindrance for women in public and medical place. But I'm anti-illiberal so I consider that societal decisions should be taken collectively. (The Constitution grant me that right by the way)