Know the risks and be fully willing to accept them, if you end up accepting any that you might face. Because to me one of the most frustrating things a person can do is put themselves into a situation that has risks and refuse accept whatever risk they might inherent from putting themselves in that situation.
All sex has risks though. Anyone can have an STD, whether they know or carry it.
True but being with a prostitute does heighten the risk of getting a std. Also that's not the only risk you are exposing yourself to. So just be ready to accept all of them.
Wait for a partner. Just losing virginity is overrated by male virgins. Curiosity motivates you to meet someone interesting, even if it is just an ONS. Directly paying for sex might crush your self esteem. And don't fap ;)
How else would I control hormones 😂 My self esteem is already in the toilet like, it's more to live a little and try things I like
Hormones and sexual tension should motivate you to gain a real life partner (even if just an ONS). Just be creative. If you lower the tension by prostitutes, it will be harder to muster courage and start a real life relationship/sex
How is that different to losing your virginity to s pedophile like you did? I think that's much worse than having sex with a escort.
I think someone who considers using a prostitute may as well just go ahead and do it, because a worthile partner who will stay will probably never come along for them.
I just worry that I'll regret it. My first experience will always be with a hooker then. But I'm not attractive and don't see myself getting a partner. Thank you
That's not true n tbh quite a wrong statement (sorry)
Tbf Eliza, I am in that mindset where I don't see why anyone would want me, I even feel guilty paying some poor soul to have sex 😂
I hav had clients myself who lost their virginity to me for different reasons...
Mostly people do it to gain confidence
I don't know whether I'd want something more sentimental. Rather than here's money, sex and gone
And also it is facesitting and eating ass that I want more, just because I don't want to make a girl have sex with me even though it's their job
Oh darling dont expect any sentimental stuff that is rare in my profession... most girls do it for job... only few do it for passion n job both So just remember u r paying her for her services like u would pay to other people
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It is your choice. If you just want to get it out of the way so you can start out a relationship... go for it. (Do not forget to use a condom every time!)
It's fine. It 'might' increase your confidence to approach women if you're struggling with the fact that you are a virgin.
If you're confident, however, you can try dating or just hooking up.
DON’T. DO. IT.
Wait for partner. Be patient.
Do only what you are proud of. That which you practice in private... shall be celebrated in public. Be sure you do only that which will bring you esteem and confidence.
My trouble is I have no esteem or confidence. I don't see why anyone would want to date me or even worse do sexual stuff. This is the first time I've ever thought of paying to do something just because I can't see myself getting anywhere
Then that is a sign to grow in self esteem and confidence, rather than to sleep with a hooker. Become the man you are proud of. That's the trap of pleasure. It's short term but the damage is always long term. All of these are signs you need to find your life purpose, become stronger both mentally and physically. Pleasure, women, sex and dating have been overblown by this society because they fear a man on his true purpose because he can become too powerful. Look at all of the teen movies... the young man is always chasing females... never his own Kingdom. When you become the man you are proud of, the irony is that you will stop being desperate and start qualifying women to see if they are worth your time. If you watch porn, stop watching it. Semen retention, no porn, strength training and finding your life purpose as well as learning how to move / use that sexual power is the key for young men.
I just don't know where to start in terms of building confidence. Also semen retention just increases the risk of prostate cancer, so that's the reason I release
this used to be pretty common a long time ago. I guess the mechanical part of sex would be okay but you would be missing out on the intimacy of being with another person.
Sure, go ahead; throw your life away. Along with your dignity and integrity.
Go for it. Head down to Colombia.
Whatever works for ya
No confidence, every man has sexual gratification. Just would I regret it down the line, I don't know
Do it
Any particular reason?
It's easy and good sex
You might ruin a potential future relationship with this, a lot of women wouldn’t be interested in a man that had to buy sex and if you hide it you can’t trust each other.
What if it wasn't intercourse , it was me giving oral, so I'm still a virgin
Then it wouldn't be a lie to say my experience I've ate a girl out!
You can do whatever you want but I think you should just meet a regular woman that likes sex even if you’re just friends with benefits it’s better than that
If you are 27 then yes.
I'm 22, I made this profile without intending on staying, hence the username is just letters lol. What do you think then?
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