Thoughts on this post?

[Anonymous]

The last two are just some of the comments under the post

[InventorofWarp]

Well, as a virgin still at almost 25, this makes me feel pretty happy that my first relationship in my life is likely to be my only. I mean... that is what little me always wanted even if he'd be disappointed it took so damn long.
Having said that, it's sort of a yes/no thing from my perspective towards my future woman: I actually WANT her to have some experience at least so that it doesn't have to be awkward as all fuck and someone knows what they're doing more or less. But at the same time, just knowing she's had anyone at all touch her and probably tell her how beautiful and amazing she is before me is gonna make me constantly wonder if she can ever love me as much as I do her and if I'll ever be as important and special to her as she is to me.
But I'm also aware that more heartbreak can actually strengthen the importance and the level of special to it if anything. The way it's something special and unique in my life insofar as I'll never have ever had anyone tell me things or want to do things with me. It's not so black and white as "I'm less special now because I'm her Xth" or "she loves me less because of Xth number lover" or even "I'm worth less than her because by my age she had how many lovers? Something is wrong with me".
We have to attack these thoughts at their base to understand where they come from and snuff them out at their source.
Instead of "I'm less special because I'm her Xth". "I'm more special because I'm her Xth. She's gone through so many to find me and decided out of all of them I'm the right one and she has the lessons and wisdom from what came before to now put into trying to give this everything".
Instead of "she loves me less because I'm Xth number lover". "She loves me more because I'm Xth number lover, I'm the one who won and I'm the one who gets to fuck her tomorrow, hopefully the hardest and deepest".
Instead of
"I'm worth less than her because by my age she had how many lovers? Something is wrong with me". "She possibly regrets a good deal of those lovers and wishes she could have this be something special for me too but she's the woman I love because she made so many mistakes and has learned so much from it. I'm worth everything to her because I have waited this long for her, she knows that and she knows that she's the only woman I want in life and the depths of my loyalty. Something is unique about me and she saw it."
This is just my take on it.
Like or not gents, we live in a sex positive-feminist world now and we're just gonna kinda have to get used to it and deal with all our prospective women being huge sluts. Honestly, it's not really all that much of a bad thing tbh.
I will be able to confirm the last part after I inevitably marry a woman who has had many more partners than me (not hard to achieve) and then my wife gives wicked head.

[Avicenna]

Although it was rudely put, there’s some truth to it

[Curiousgirl2414]

I agree with parts of this and disagree with other parts.

First, I disagree with the depository comment. It was disgusting, unwarranted, and nearly guaranteed the guy wouldn't have the balls to say it to her in person. It’s a shining example of how toxic social media can be. I also don’t agree with the original posters statement. She was also insulting in her comment, and I’d be curious to know if she would be willing to date a man whose slept with 200 women. Probably not, because according to her she wouldn’t be strong enough.

All of that said, men have no right to judge the past of a woman. Sure, they have a right to decide whether to date a woman with a body count, but just because a girl went wild at frat parties in college like most men would love to do, doesn’t mean that as a 28-30 year old working adult she’s a horny animal that would hump a tree.

Then there’s the other side of the coin. Men who complain about a certain number of partners for a woman, must be completely cool when a woman has a problem with their number. Let’s face it, a 25 year old guy…what are the odds they’ve only slept with a handful of women. It’d be rare to come across a dude with experience with 1 or 2 or 3 women at that point, and if a potential girlfriend bails because she’s not comfortable with their past, the dude has no right to bitch.

At 27 years old, I recognize most potential dating partners for me will have a past. I’m cool with that. We approach 15-20, then I’m going to be uncomfortable and most likely peace out, and make sure I explain why.