Thoughts on this sexual encounter?

[Anonymous]

I was hooking up with this guy for the third time. He came over my place. He mentioned he was nervous and he had wine. I told him I missed him and he said I missed you too. We had a deep convo about his depression he’s going through. I told him that I was there for him. Then we had rough but sensual sex in the bedroom. He bit me/ interlocked my hands while I was riding him in cowgirl style. After sex we fell asleep and woke up together exhausted. He told me that was a lot of fun. He since then has been distant. He did tell me he has a hard time dealing with emotions. What are you thoughts?

[Flower7]

Maybe he feels embarrassed or a bit ashamed that he told you something so personal about himself. Especially since alcohol was a factor. It’s probably not something he would have talked about if he had been sober.

[Asker]

But he’s done the same thing before, I find it so odd. Unfortunately I like him lol

[maximumpower]

maybe he does.
he'll come around again when his testosterone level maxes out.
when that happens, hit him up about what this all means to him.
hint: any guy claiming to work through a depression is already basket case. bail while you can.

[20yearsolder]

My thoughts are he's dealing with some mental issues. There's nothing wrong with rough sex but if he has depression then maybe he's going through bout of it

[LazerBean]

He's distant because he got what he wanted from you. Pretty simple. He'll come back around when he's horny again.

[Faith18letsgo]

I totally get that, sex is so intense I get wanting a bit of space afterwards. Sounds like a good time!

[Guffrus]

You sound like a keeper

[WhitneySnow]

You guys are real friends who also have benefits

[TheMajesticKing777]

What emotions? He didn't have these rough emotions when he was having sex with you, seems weird don't it

[Asker]

He recently went through a lot of death in his family and he’s struggling with depression. He said he has trouble with emotions in life in general.

[Marianna546]

well @Anonymous then maybe he isn't ready for a relationship yet..

[TheMajesticKing777]

I still can't put the pieces together on why he decided to become distant after sex, I have sympathy for people who have lost people so I hope things get better for him but using people for sex isn't right, there's other ways of fighting these negative emotions for example forming a new connection with someone else, new bonds, new friends so he either used that as an excuse or he doesn't care what he does with his life anymore but that can be pretty toxic when it starts effecting other people like in this situation, unless y'all just agreed on only sex.

[Marianna546]

guys i really dont get that i guess i am still too young to understand relationship problems lol

[Asker]

Tbh I liked him so we kind of just fell into this mess. I’m actually never like this but I felt a little free spirited with him. But now I find myself left out in the cold emotionally

[TheMajesticKing777]

Mari you are right to be confused, there's no relationship here Anon you aren't the first and won't be the last to be taken advantage of if that's what happened here but there's not much you can do now, you can keep waiting for him if you want but I'd recommend to do so from a distance, if y'all didn't commit to each other then there's nothing wrong with talking to other people, now of course I don't mean sexually but communication isn't bad, try to have him communicate with you first, if he does then it shows there's a form of interest and it could be his emotional state, if he never puts effort to communicate with you first then maybe sex was what he was seeking for and when he got it, his mission was accomplished

[olivia8888888]

He seems like he’s a bit emotional immature. Don’t get too attached, he prolly got some stuff to work through like most people do. Show interest but give him space and if he don’t reach out or can’t give u what u search for u should leave and if it was meant to be the universe will cross ur paths in the future.

[Marianna546]

Some guys are weird. Maybe he didn't like you for you but only for your body or is very nervous that he doesn't deserve you I don't know really ask him :) hope everything will be fine

[Sparkie460]

It sounds like you took him to the next level and he doesn't know how to react to it.

[Sam_25]

I get bored from girl after I fucked her...
Just use n throw.

[Marianna546]

you are disgusting like always sexist and a generally unpleasant person. Congrants!

[Sam_25]

Stop stalking me girl 😘

[Marianna546]

you have a huge idea about yourself get off your high horse i was on this question FIRST

[Sam_25]

Darling but you're on my comment... it's k babygirl Why you still hate me?

[olivia8888888]

He is deff the same guy who says not all men, just say you like guys and move on

[Sam_25]

Wut?

[missgoodytwoshoes]

give him a week and then check in

[RuthlessAggression]

Sounds like he's guilt tripping you into sex. But I might be wrong

[In_Trance]

gnarly

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow this so ducked up are you ok

[Asker]

I’m honestly sad. I thought he would reach out after and text me. But nothing, should I have messaged him?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Did he ever get back to you or is it still no response at all

[Asker]

still no response

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow its his loss

[Anonymous]

Either he got what he needed from you and will be back when he needs you as a toy/ therapist again. Or you did him so good he's trying not to catch feelings

[Asker]

not to be TMI but he did mention that he liked my pussy Bc it was tight & wet loll … I read about the power of the pussy

[Opinion Owner]

He'll most likely be back for more sex but that's about it.