Girls,(Threesome) My girlfriend wants to share me with her best friend?

We've been together for 2 years. She said wanted to try it. Her friend is really hot. but I'm confused about it. if it hurts our relationship? Please help me..
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  • That is dangerous, dangerous territory you're on the edge of. It is many people's fantasy, for sure, but it only work under certain specific circumstances. You don't give enough information for us to really advise you well. As is, it can bring in a lot of morality and values comments, which can muddy the waters, but it is also definitely a factor and important variable in it all.
    You need to get to the bottom of why your girlfriend wants it. Is she a closeted 'bi' who needs to explore and fulfill this question in her head? Is it a pure, stemming-from-a-good-place of simple curiosity desire she has?
    What is the relationship with that friend? (regarding both of you).
    Not everyone can, and wants, a monogamous relationship. Some will never survive in coupledom if they cannot have other experiences. If you are not that, this may not be the right choice for you.
    Jealousy can be a big factor here. Any inequities in behaviours, attention, and actions will be very apparent while you are having sex. You all have to come from a very open-minded, let's just have fun, place, but many cannot get to this headspace (though some do and will love it). Where it will fail is if one or more parties feels they are being left out more, not getting equal attention. With two girls and a guy, you have the golden ticket. You are the guest of honour around which the part revolves, because of your sex, however the friend could also be, because she is new. You will not be bored or ignored (probably). Though your girlfriend could be using this as an excuse to get with her best friend. How bothered would you be about that?
    These offers may not come around again, and I do recall recently on questions like, 'what's your biggest regret' and on my q, 'what do you have to compromise on to be in a relationship', and a couple of guys answered 'not ever having a threesome'. So for others to completely dismiss this would potentially rob you of an experience you want/would always remember with fondness. But it has a very real possibility of destroying, or at least reshuffling, your current relationship. So you need to decide which could be the bigger regret.

    • Have u had a threesome before?

    • I won't answer any more publicly. Pm me if you want.

  • What I've heard from others and articles and what not is.
    For a threesome, never use a friend! Never someone you know.

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  • I wouldn’t recommend it can hurt your relationship and her relationship with her friend